My boyfriend told this girl that i hate that one of her friends is hott and hes denying it but i know he said it cause he always says stuff like that what shold i say or do help!!
from Jess
x0xTarax0x answered Sunday April 10 2005, 3:31 pm: i think you should talk to him about that "problem" and if he doesn't stop then think about breaking up with him. and for your problem i say just go up to that girl and say that it isnt true and that she is your friend. and if you still arnt friends with her then idk what to tell ya but to just try to forget about it. [ x0xTarax0x's advice column | Ask x0xTarax0x A Question ]
karenR answered Saturday April 9 2005, 4:11 pm: Mine has always done this and he's been around for years. He even tells me ooh look at her. As if I care....Males are just very strange. I wouldn't get to upset unless he starts following her around. If he does then you don't want him anyway. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
vchicka15 answered Saturday April 9 2005, 3:46 pm: dont worry about it.. you dont think other guys are hot? havnt you told your friends if a guy was hot? hes just saying shes goodlooking it doesnt mean he loves her and wants to go out with her.. just let it go [ vchicka15's advice column | Ask vchicka15 A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday April 9 2005, 12:45 pm: Tell your friend that you no he told her and that, you cant trust him again. that should make him see that it upset you.
mitsugi answered Saturday April 9 2005, 12:44 pm: If it's normal for your boyfriend to do this, you should tell him that it bothers you... If he usually says it, are you only bothered because he said it to the girl you hate? Or are you really bothered by that particular trait of his?
SOme might actually think it's normal, since boys think a lot of girls are hot, but don't really like them for a girlfriend or something..
It could just be a physical thing... I mean, my friend's boyfriend says that "this girl is really good looking" and my friend doesn't mind because she knows that they're in love..
If you feel secure about your relationship with him, then there is no need to worry, but if you think his comment could mean something more, you should definitely talk to him about it..
charmed-cherry21 answered Saturday April 9 2005, 11:38 am: Then tell her that you don't think her friend is hott and tell your boyfriend that you don't care so you can get confession out of him.
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