Okay:
Put yourself in my position, say you like a girl. But, you have heard they like someone else. You can do one of two things, either keep quiet and stay quiet. Or you can play the risk card and ask her out(You dont give a F if it makes you lok like a total loser) What would you do? In my opinion this girl is absolutly BEAUTIFUL. She is smart, funny,great friend,awsome all-around person. And like I sais absolutely gorgous(sp?)
googlyeyes answered Saturday April 9 2005, 4:41 pm: well if i liked a guy that much, i would probably go for it. i mean the worst that could happen is she says no, but at least she'll no how you feel right?...on the other hand, if youre friends with her, like good friends, i would have to say dont ask her. from experience, it totally ruins your relationship and everything gets weird, and you end up getting REALLY hurt. but if your not, def. go for it!
xOtWiXi answered Thursday April 7 2005, 4:27 pm: First off, I think that your a good person for not being embarrassed, and that you do truly like her.
I would ask her out if I was you. You have nothing to loose, and you know what, she might like you alot too. I would tell her exactly how I felt and then if she says no, then it's no. If it's meant to be, it will happen, so don't worry about it. She might just want to be friends, and if she does, you know that you have an amazing friend. Either way, you win! If you have any other questions, I'm a girl, so just message me! Hope I've Helped! ♥ [ xOtWiXi's advice column | Ask xOtWiXi A Question ]
PinkPrincess42 answered Thursday April 7 2005, 4:22 pm: Well, if shes as great as you describe her, then why wouldnt you take the chance and ask her out. I mean, you really dont have anything to lose. The worst than could happen would be you getting rejected, but that wont kill you or anything. I dont think you should just sit around and watch some other guy get with her~ what are you waitin for?
♥Emily [ PinkPrincess42's advice column | Ask PinkPrincess42 A Question ]
questionmark201 answered Thursday April 7 2005, 4:13 pm: coming from another guy who was in your situation you should take the chance. i was in basically the same situation and i regret the fact that i didn't tell her how i feel and i'm here wishing that i had told her
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S_C answered Thursday April 7 2005, 3:28 pm: Okay, you don't care if you look like a loser asking her out, so you probably don't care if she says no. Well you would care, but you should get what I mean.
A lot of people think one of my friends like's this one guy, but reallys he likes the other guy. So the guy that she really likes is avioding her b/c he did like her, but something about the rumor that she likes someone else gets to him.
That was super confusing, but if you like her, ask her out. What's the worst that could happen? Her saying no? Good luck. <3 always, Kate [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
karenR answered Thursday April 7 2005, 2:39 pm: Go for it. Lot's of girls "like" someone but that doesn't mean much really. I think you take the opportunity and damn the consequences! Good luck:) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
cokecap_x21 answered Thursday April 7 2005, 1:46 pm: i would tell her my feelings! who knows that mystery crush might just be you!! and if she dosent,you still friends!if you think you will be uncomfotable around her if she dosent like you when you tell her,please dont feel uncomfortable! Your friends and you should be cool with each other! if she dosent like you,so what you should be happy for her if she gose out with another person :).If she dose,good friends make a good couple,right?!?! [ cokecap_x21's advice column | Ask cokecap_x21 A Question ]
I would just tell her how I felt.. Theres nothing worse than having bottled up feeling, and it will cut you like a knife if she gets another guy, and especially when you find out she also liked you before but doesnt not coz she loves her new guy.. just tell her how you feel mate! [ evilenterprisesinc's advice column | Ask evilenterprisesinc A Question ]
BeautifulMadness answered Thursday April 7 2005, 9:25 am: Ask her out. The other guy might not like her, or she might not really like him - it could just be a rumour. Besides, just because she has a crush on him doesn't mean she couldn't end up loving you.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx [ BeautifulMadness's advice column | Ask BeautifulMadness A Question ]
Erinn_the_bamf answered Thursday April 7 2005, 6:59 am: Well I am a girl so I really wouldn't care. But if I were you I would go for her. You really never know until you ask. And even if she likes someone else she may like you too. I think you really have a chance and should go for it. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
I dont think i can put myself EXACTLY in your shoes since im a girl and i dont like other girls (lol) but i get the gist... *i* would definitely go for it. theres not much to lose and half of your lifetime is taking chances so why not... ya noe? [ missing-identity-seeker's advice column | Ask missing-identity-seeker A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Thursday April 7 2005, 2:17 am: I think its more than brave of you to feel like you can take rejection from a girl, but knowing this stuff, you should prepare yourself for rejection and you can do either one of these: Either get the courage you have and ask her, or talk to her abnd become her friend and get a good friendship going and then ask her. I prefer option 2, because if you hardly talk to her, then theres a less likely chance she will say yes. But if you become somebody that would mean a lot to her, like a friend, then shes probably going to understand and love you back. But this will be easy for you because you can handle the nerve of talking to her. And try getting it to be a daily routine. But I hope you do what you want, and what you feel would be comfortable with you. But don't ever stay quiet unless she has a boyfriend, its really disrepectful when you intrude on a relationship like that. But if its a crush and shes single, then don't stay quiet, do something!
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