Hi! Ask me questions, and I will do everything I can to answer them. Okay a little about myself, well I was born in Bosnia (Europe, usually when I tell someone they always ask were that is). I moved to Houston, Texas when I was 2 because of a war. I'm an American, I got my citizen ship in the 3rd grade. I'm in high school. Well any way ask me any questions and I WILL answer them.
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*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much (link)
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From everything you said it seems like he really likes you. He might just be nervous to tell you. You just need to go with the flow. If he does like you it might take him awhile to tell you. So do whatever feels right.
- Hope I helped!
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I have switched schools alot and i make alot of friends. so my friend is getting jelous that i made new friends and she is starting to hate me. i wat to stay friends with both but to do that i will loose my best friend. what do i do (link)
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Your friend needs to relize that you will make more new friends, and that doesn't mean you won't like her less. If it's to hard to choose what to do stay with the friend(s) that you like and that like you back. Don't let anyone decide who should be your friend(s). Choosing your friends is your choice, not your other friend's.
-Hope I helped!
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Can anyone give me some fun websites to get quizzes and internet games from? I rate high for good sites. (link)
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Here are some:
* http://games.com/
* http://quizilla.com/
* http://gaiaonline.com/
* http://neopets.com/
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Hey! Im only 13 yr's old..my mom messed up in the past and its taking college classes to get a good job, and my dad has a disease and so he cant work that often. My parents are also divorced...so My family doesnt have to much money. It sux having to much money..so I was wondering, are there ne jobs out there for 13 yr olds ( I am mature ) besides babysitting?
I do rate very high and send feedback..but i rly need help!!!
Thanx!!! (link)
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*toutoring
Some websites that say some jobs or somethings about that are:
* you can go to aj.com and ask that questiona nd it will give you some websites to try to answer it.
* http://www.gopaidsurveys.com/
* http://www.snagajob.com/default.asp?ref=gtjbjft
* http://web.ask.com/web?qsrc=6&q=Ways+for+Kids+to+Make+Extra+Money&o=0&sitesrc=a
* http://web.ask.com/web?qsrc=6&q=Ways+for+Teenagers+to+Earn+Money&o=0&sitesrc=a
Well that's all I got, you can go to google.com or aj.com you might find some websites that tell you jobs that you can do. Thats were I went.
Hope I helped!
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Well , i have been going out with this guy. we never see each other and sometimes people tell me he is makin moves and flirting with other girls!! i dont know what to do. should i break up with him? thanks in advance .. :o]
signed,
mixed emotions (link)
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Well you don't know if he is because it could be a rumor. Don't do anything until you know he is flirting with other girls, or someone shows you proof. You can also just ask him if the rumors going around are true. But you might want to be around him more so then maybe you'll see something.
Hope I helped!
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hey everyone....my birthday is coming up and i don't know what i want to do for a birthday party. Anyone have any ideas? Try not to say anything TOO expensive....but don't just say "have a party at your house" .... like be specific... please help! (link)
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You can:
* go to the movies with your friends
* have a pool party
*If you decide to have your part at your house you can - listen to music, dance, talk, play truth or dare, things like that.
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awhike ago i had a question about my mom having a yeast infection and she went to the doctor and they told her she had cervical cancer, thats what she told me on the phone. she was also really messed up on tranquilizers and i couldnt understand what she was saying..what does cervical cancer do, and is she going to die? What do i do? (link)
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Well I don't know what it is either so here are some websites about it:
* http://www.cancer.org/docroot/CRI/content/CRI_2_4_1X_What_is_cervical_cancer_8.asp
* http://www.4woman.gov/faq/ccervix.htm
* If you need more information just go to google and type in "cervical cancer"
Hope everything goes okay.
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I am going to the beach in 3 weeks and i was wondering, what are some ways to tone up your stomich area? I am not realy confident but i love my bathing suit and i want to feel nice in it. I am 5'3 female that weighs 120pounds, Im 13 in 7th grade. i do cheerleadin in the summer but that doesnt start till the 22nd of next month!!!
I just want some simple stuff to do like before bed.. like quick exercises maybe a website or two! Thanks!!!
--Thank-You-- (link)
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You can try sit ups. Here are som websites:
* http://aolsvc.aol.com/dietfitness/fitness/toner1.adp
* http://exercise.about.com/cs/exerciseworkouts/l/aa121200b.htm
* http://www.soyouwanna.com/site/syws/abs/abs4.html
* http://www.betterbodz.com/abdominal.html
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I am constantly insulted by my sister. Before, she would make fun of me, which I would just shrug off, but lately, its been getting to a point where I just feel like there is no point to anything. I cant even cry when she says things to me, I just shut down, and let her go on and on.
Like tonight, I walked into the living room, and she began to swear at me. She said that I am a psycho, and that she cannot wait for me to leave for school (college in the fall) because I am worthless. I have not even said anything to her at all at this point, I really don't know what I did.
What I really dont understand is how she will talk to me one night insultingly, and then the next day she wants me to go shopping with her.
I really dont understand it-if anyone has any advice I would really appreciate it
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When she says something don't shut down or be quiet, say something back. Most people when they see something is bothering you they will keep doing that, because your showing that your hurt, angry, sad, etc. Stand up for yourself.
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Sometimes my friends treat me badly and i think they are talking behind my back. The thing is that i've told them they leave me out all the time but all they say is sorry. Sometimes they can be soooooo nice. other times they can be not so nice. What should i do??? (link)
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Friends don't do that, find someone that will truly stic by your side and never do anything to hurt you. When they say sorry just tell them, that that's what they said LAST time.
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I'm never really sure what to say to the question "I love your shoes! Where did you get them?" or any other clothing item because I really don't want to say anything to incriminate me. The popular kids will laugh if you answer anything like "target", "payless shoe store", or some other department store, and the kids that I'm friends with call me stupid if I tell them that I bought them at Hollister. What is a generic answer that I can say that will satisfy everyone? (link)
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THey have a Payless and a Target at the mall. You can just say:
*the mall
or
*somone bought it for me
*it was a gift
*I forgot
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I want to shave my legs but i dont know how to ask my mom wut should i do?
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Just tell your mom that you think your old enough to shave you legs, and ask her if you can. If she says no, maybe you could ask her if you can use the cream that gets rid of the hair. Well anyway just when your talking to her, tell her you think your old enough, you want to shave you legs, and ask.
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mah friend has been sick lately and he has missed like 2 weeks...the other day he was in a wheelchair..he told me that people at skool have been talking about him and he wanted to kno who they where...they where saying stuff like hes gay or hes just faking it...even his friends said it...im like the only girl friend he has but now its like im the only friend he has..i dont kno wat to do to make him feel better?!??!! HELP!! (link)
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If he is your friend then you should be there for him, always. Tell him that your there for him if he ever needs you and that you always will be. he only has you as a friend now and you should just support him.
hope I helped!
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It's that time of year again. We're going to sign eachothers yearbooks. I'm sick of writing Cya in ___ (whater grade yor going in nxt year) and have a good summer. I was wondering what are some cool "quotes" to write in? (link)
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With some of your really close friends you could write some of your inside jokes or something like:
*H.A.G.S. = Have A Great Summer
*H.A.K.A.S. = Have A Kick Ass Summer
I usually write some of the jokes that my friends and I said to eachother. But if you don't know the person that well just sign your name. You can also make something up( like H.A.G.S.) and tell them what it means when you give it back to them(my friend did that}.
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I dance everyday for two and a half hours and seeing as I'm so used to the routine I don't get tired that quickly.
I was sick last week and had to take a week off dancing and I did my dancing today but after an hour I was really hot and bothered, tired and had a headache.
Is it because of my week off or something else?
and if it's because of my week off is there anyway I can get back into my routine? (link)
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It could be that you are still tired from when you were sick, and that you took a week off. You can get back into your routine, just do more and more dancing each week(like one time you can do 1 hour of dancing and when you get used to that add like 30 more min. or as much as you can do)and you'll get back to your routine. When you get tired and/or hot just drink cold water.
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I have this wicked hard homework and its getting me very very very angry. I already have the answer but i dont know how to get it without guessing and checking.. anyone wanna help? the problem is:
The tens digit of a 2-digit number is twice the units digit. The sum of the digits is 12. Find the original number.
PlEaSe HeLp!
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I don't think there is a way to solve the problem with out guessing and checking.
8+4=12
84
I think most people would use guess and check.
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does any one know any cute quote websites? (link)
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Here are some:
* http://www.mcfaddenseminars.com/sitemap.htm
* http://www.indianchild.com/funny_quotes.htm
* you can also go to google and type in cute quotes.
Hope I helped!
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my period is coming up real soon, and every single one of my friends have told me that tampons work wonders. (by the way i have only had my period once before and im 13) but my mom thinks im not ready, and i feel ready, i have tried one of my mom's tampons, there regular, and i got it in like half way, and i asked her for the beginners teen easy slide ones, and she claims that i am to young to start it, and 2 of my best friends already started putting tampons in by there 3rd period. can someone one give me advice on if i am to young? or jus keep practicing with my moms? ill rate (link)
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If you think that you are ready to use them then ask your mom to buy some and tell her that you think that you are old enough to. I mean they have them for teens and you are one, so just talk to her and try to convince her to let you use them.
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well one of my truest bestest friend likes a guy, but she wont tell me!
i mean i tell her all my deepesnt secrets and she wont tell me who she likes, i know it private but i feel she doesnt trust me!she probably thinks im gonna spread it out, i feel like a looser and a untrusty b#t@h! (link)
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Maybe she has a problem to tell anyone. That doesn't have anything to do with trust.
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Ok.. well my mom works for social services. and she got this job when i was in third grade (i'm currentlly in 8th) and ever since then shes been SO overprotective. She doesn't like for me to do things without her knowing every single detail. She's takin the lock off my bedroom door. so that she can walk in at any given moment just to see what i'm doing. And it's getting worse every day. Even when i was in 3rd grade i didn't have a 'bed time' but now she's making me go to bed at 9 oclock. it's getting really bad. i'm getting ready to be in high school and i still have a bedtime. i feel like such a child because i never get to do anything. And i've tried talking to her. And i've told her that i think she is to protective. Yet nothing ever changes. What should i do?
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Tell your mom that you are growing up and that she needs to trust you. She won't always be there for you and you need to learn how to take care of your self. Tell her that she can and should trust you.
Hope I helped!
P.S. your mom loves and wants you to be safe.
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