Gender: Female
Age: 15
AIM: tainted x amour
Member Since: May 3, 2005
Answers: 14
Last Update: June 3, 2005
Visitors: 1615
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Alriteee heres my problem... i have a babysitter person that lives wiht me because my parents work long hours and we need soemone to cook clean etc. And he has a gorgeous brother!! when i say gorgeous i mean GOORRGEOUSS!!! But my parents and his paretns dont want us to meet! We have been talkin online and through e-mail lately but thats it. We are planning to hang out this weekend, but his last e-mail he talks about this girl that likes him and he doesn;t know what to do...and asked for my advice!! i dont think he likes her, but idk!! SHould i still meet him this weekend and hang out? Should i get it across to him that i like him even tho we haven;t met yet!?!?! What should i dooo!!???
by the way i am 16 and a female (link)
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hmm well i think that there is no harm in meeting him still and why not go ahead and show him what your made of lol FLIRT! its okay. ahah and about the girl i dont know what you should do. but the chances of him liking you will be higher if you meet and hang out.
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ok, this girl "elizabeth" is going out with "mitchell". That wouldn't be such a problem if he wasn't such a jerk to her. He yells at her, calls her names, hits her and stuff like that. I have told her that he is doing nothing but causing her stress and that it takes two people to form a relationship. And that he stopped giving his half a long time ago. But all she says is I love him. What needs to be done? (link)
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ok. first of all i had a relationship like this about 2 weeks ago. and belive me i said the same things. what it took for me to get rid of him was one night at a party when he hit me in front of tons of ppl. he gave me a black eye and fortunatly one of my good guy friends was there to help pull him off of me and then take care of me after. what i think you should do is get her to talk to someone about it. something needs to be done soon. i mean SOON. if you can get her to talk to someone like a therapist then you need to tell someone that she will listen to , maybe if it means shes not gonna like you for a bit. if your a true friend you will help her get out of it before something bad happens. in the end she will thank you for it. hope i made since
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There is this kid in my school and i like him but i dont think he likes me...he kinda acts like he does but im sure he doesnt...he popular and im not!!! what should i do! (link)
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what you should do is try to get him to notice you. it doesnt matter if hes popular and your not. you still have a chance. just do things that will impress him but dont act fake. more than likly he will end up liking you.
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so i like this kid, we'll call him tim right now, and after he broke up with his girlfriend we started hanging out a lot and getting really close, about 1-2 weeks later he asked out my best friend (we'll call her tasha) and tasha knew i liked him but now i sleep over at his house a lot and we still talk but tasha gets really jealous and mean, and whenever im at his house he flirts with me, but yesterday they broke up and he wants to go out with me what should i do?
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hmm i think what you should do it wait a couple of weeks and play it out. you dont want to ruin your friendship with your friend. and if she knew you liked him and went out with him then it should be ok for you to go out with him now. youve waited and now you have him. just wait at least a week before you go out with him. that way she wont be as upset and you wont look like sloppy seconds.
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MY friend is nice, but everyone talks shit about her, it's so aggreivating to listen to people talk about her in study hall. It's awful. I've said stuff to them before, but that jsut makes them talk about her more. I want to tell her, because she has a right to know, and last time I mentioned someone said something she kind of wanted to know what they said. When I did tell her, she started crying and was upset. People who make my friends cry.....they make me get all....dSFHSZXFNDFN. What should I do? Tell her when people talk about her, or keep quiet and tell her no one is? (link)
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you shouldnt tell her if it makes her really selfconsious - but if there is something that she could do to fix w/e they say then kind of help her without telling her people are saying things. its the best way to solve it
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i know this is going to sound weird but i was staying after school one day waiting for my sister to get out of practice... all of a sudden i got pushed against a locker by some guy.. he was like until you kiss me and grab my ___ im not letting you go.. at first i refused but he pushed me harder and harder agianst the locker.. so i finally gave in and did it.. well now i see him at school.. i was soo upset when this happened i just need to know if i shold keep my mouth shut or tell anyone.. i mean he treatened me nto to tel .. so what do i do (link)
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omg yes you need to tell someone immedeatly .. you never know who else he is doing it to. thats sick and wrong. so go and put a stop to it.
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I have this friend, she's 2 years older than me (I'm 13 and she's 15) but she says I'm mature and she always wants to hang out with me. She went out with my bro's bff twice then after he broke up with her the 2nd time, she was depressed and I helped cheer her up, that was last summer, then when school started she went to the high school and i'm in the junior high, she became friends with my bros and their friends, it felt like she used me to get to my bros, cuz she'd come over talk to me for 5 min then be like where are the guys? Now she and this guy are going out again, and everytime I hang out with her she's cool but when the guys come back home, she ditches me and hangs out with them.. I know she's older than be but I love her to death... what do I do? Do I drop her or do I keep her and hope she changes?
help~thanks! (link)
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if your a good friend and beleive that she is too . keep her.. she might really like this guy and might just be caught up in him right now. if she truly is your friend she will notice whats shes doing.. and when she does she should change. so keep her if you feel shes you friend and if you think she used you then dump her.. but before you do you might want to talk to her about it. another thing is she might not notice shes doing it.. maybe you should just tell her how you feel.
i bet that didnt make since but i hope i helped
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I think that I'm in love with my friend. It sucks really bad because he's all popular at his school and I'm not really all that popular. I have liked him since 6th grade. I try to tell myself that he is just a boy and that life will go on but then....I see him at my neighbor's house. It kinda ticks me off b/c in the sixth and seventh grade he was a geek and now that people started to like him he thinks he's all that. I have known that this guy was great all along and NOW girls are starting to notice what I noticed almost 4 years ago. I hate it and it is making me depressed b/c I know I will never be good enough for him. Is there anything I can do to get my mind off of him? Thank-you! I RATE HIGH!! 15/f (link)
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thats sucks but i know what you mean.. i constantly think of this guy i used to be close to and now i never see. it really sucks.. i tihnk the only thing we can do try to find someone else. theres more than one true love for everyone. and if he cant see how great you are then i dont think hes that great anyways :o)
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I am a 15 year old dating an almost 16 year old. Ive heard the term once you've loved someone you'll always love them. and its not the guy Im dating now. With the guy Im dating now I dont really feel comfortable with him like I act differently around him and I try my hardest to be myself. It doesnt even seem like were dating because this is how it was before we started dating. I dont feel a connection with him. Should I wait for a month and if I not feel anything break it off? HELP! (link)
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yes you should dump him.. if theres no connection there will never be a connection .. and trust me if you wait as month.. someone will convince you to wait another and another... and sooner or later youll figure out you just wasted a lot of time... dump him girl! there a pleaty of fish in that sea!
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where are places to get awesome and comfortable hoodies? (link)
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juicy couture definitly!! or abercrombie and fitch has awesome track jackets and hoodies!
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ok, one of my friends thinks that i like her boyfriend but i really dont is there anyway i can tell her and maybe she'll belive me PLEASE HELP I RATE HIGH! THANK YOU! (link)
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well maybe if you confide in her and you tell her who you really like shell stop thinking that... and also be careful with how you talk to him. maybe she really likes him and has heard thru someone he likes you or maybe he told her you were pretty... you never realyl know whats happened. but i promise if you tell her who you like she will start to believe that you dont like him.
i hope i helped!
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so ive liked this guy at school forever. weve both always had bf/gf this year though. well were both single now and weve been getting close. we hangout all the time at school and every1 thinks we go out. he said he doesnt want a relationship right now though. at school he puts his arm around me and hugs me forever and on the wekeends hell hold my hand and kiss me and stuff. but he wont kiss me at school. not even a little peck. he kissed his ex all the time though! and he tells me he loves me and calls me babe and calls me every single nite. hes reallly sweet. well i didnt see him last weekend so he said hell "save a kiss for me on monday" monday came, he didnt kiss me. today i was kind of bummed so i wasnt talking alot and he could tell i was mad and kept asking me. my friend eventaully told him what i was upset at. so before we left he hugged me for like 5 minutes and said srry but were at school..i was like yea w/e and walked away. well he called me today after school and he was like your mad because i wont kiss you at school and i was just like no im not whatever. he was like just wait for the weekend babe. im getting soo frustrated. its not even a big deal but ive been through soo much shit with guys and hes the one guy who is so sweet. why wont he just ask me out!? ughhh what can i say/do about this?.. (link)
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sounds like hes embarassed to kiss you at school. that might be fine for now... but its just a sign of hes just not that into you...
i dont mean sound mean but im just telling you what it sounds like..
i hoped i helped
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Hello, I seen you answered another's girls qustion about weight! ok plz be truthful don't lie! ok i'm 14 110 lbs and 4'10 am i overweight? anyways on gettin slimmed down? (link)
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ok well if i calculate your bmi... you get a 23.. and a 23 falls in the normal range.. anything between 18.5 and 24.9 is normal..
dont worry though slimming up isnt hard.
try to make sure you get a little exercise in daily .. eat littler portions for your meals(dont starve yourself though).. if you eat and watch tv at the same time... stop! eating in front of the tv puts weight on you... also like i told the other girl.. dont eat past 8.. it will help.. little things like these will help you... the south beach cookbook has great meals you can put into your diet without actualy going on the diet. i hope i helped you :o) and if you have any questions ill be glad to answer them for you
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Do guys prefer girls to make the first move? Say a girl sees a real cute guy for the first time. Would he want her to approach him first, or would he approach her if he wanted to? I'd really like to meet new guys to get over this one that I've liked forever, and I want to get some pointers on meeting new guys. Any help, thank you. I rate 5's. (link)
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actualy ... most guys like the chase.. and like to make the first move. statistics show that 4 out of every 5 guys thats relationships lasted for awhile made the first move.. im not saying you cant go and talk to guys first.. but as asking them out on dates or kissing them first... if they want that bad enough they will ask or make the first move. if nto they just arent that into you. hope i helped
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