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Question Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 3:51 pm

I am a 15 year old dating an almost 16 year old. Ive heard the term once you've loved someone you'll always love them. and its not the guy Im dating now. With the guy Im dating now I dont really feel comfortable with him like I act differently around him and I try my hardest to be myself. It doesnt even seem like were dating because this is how it was before we started dating. I dont feel a connection with him. Should I wait for a month and if I not feel anything break it off? HELP!

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sugarmeltsinrain answered Friday May 6 2005, 5:11 pm:
I think that you should break it off. I dated a guy and wasn't really feeling him but thought that if i waited it out, my feelings would change, but its not true. I just ended up lying to myself about my feelings towards him. If you weren't very comfortable before you started dating, of course it isn't going to change once you start. In fact it probably made it even more awkward. I think you should end it before you try to MAKE yourself like him more than you do.

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karenR answered Thursday May 5 2005, 1:32 am:
Sounds like a plan to me! You don't even have to give it a month if you don't want to. Sometimes the magic just isn't there. I don't think you'll always "love" the guys you've dated. You might have some feelings for them but I wouldn't call it love. :)

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ABERCROMBIE_X_BARBIE answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 5:15 pm:
yes you should dump him.. if theres no connection there will never be a connection .. and trust me if you wait as month.. someone will convince you to wait another and another... and sooner or later youll figure out you just wasted a lot of time... dump him girl! there a pleaty of fish in that sea!

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Shelly_x answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 4:28 pm:
Yeah i think you should, you need to be with a guy you feel comfortable around and feel like you can be yourself and not worry about trying to impress him.
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Ashley1 answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 4:24 pm:
You should pretty much feel a connection right when you first meet a guy. So I think you should break up with him.

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nCcF14b2 answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 4:22 pm:
ahhaahahahaha ur such a sucker its not my problem

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