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Keep or Hang
I have this friend, she's 2 years older than me (I'm 13 and she's 15) but she says I'm mature and she always wants to hang out with me. She went out with my bro's bff twice then after he broke up with her the 2nd time, she was depressed and I helped cheer her up, that was last summer, then when school started she went to the high school and i'm in the junior high, she became friends with my bros and their friends, it felt like she used me to get to my bros, cuz she'd come over talk to me for 5 min then be like where are the guys? Now she and this guy are going out again, and everytime I hang out with her she's cool but when the guys come back home, she ditches me and hangs out with them.. I know she's older than be but I love her to death... what do I do? Do I drop her or do I keep her and hope she changes?
help~thanks!
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She probably won't change. The guys are just more important to her right now. So long as she is still being friendly with you, I think you will just have to accept the way she is. One of these days you too will rather be around all they guys. :)
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I think that you should tell her how you feel. She probably just hangs with you because you have connections. When you tell her; if she says that she'll hang with you more then keep her. If not... then you know what to do.My friend used to ditch me for the more popular girls. She ended up leaving me. So I'd be careful if I were you!
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if your a good friend and beleive that she is too . keep her.. she might really like this guy and might just be caught up in him right now. if she truly is your friend she will notice whats shes doing.. and when she does she should change. so keep her if you feel shes you friend and if you think she used you then dump her.. but before you do you might want to talk to her about it. another thing is she might not notice shes doing it.. maybe you should just tell her how you feel.
i bet that didnt make since but i hope i helped
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Keep her and hope she changes.Trust me i know how you feeelllll :-/ ..To find out if she's using you say"whose more impotant , me .. or my brother's friend" and if she sais your brother's friend , then dont even waste your time on her, because obviously you dont mean a thing to her if she sais your brothers friend's mean more.She's just using you and thats not a good friend.! my best friend always did that to me and everytime she'd ditch me i'd go to my room and lock it nd start crying and then when my parents came home they'd ask why i was crying and i'd explain but they'd always go on her side :-/ , but yes i know how you feel and i hope my advice helped ! ♥Vic
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