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so confused.. stuck btween 2
I need help... well i am going out wit someone lets call him Jason! well anyways I really like Jason but I really love my old boyfreind lets call him Jon.. well me and Jon talk alot on the phone.. i loved him since we started goin out heck, ive liked him since i first saw him! lol .. well what I am asking is should i break up with "Jason" or stay with him.. I mean i like him and dont want to hurt him but I love Jon! I cant not think about him.. i dont kno I am so confused
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If you really love Jon, tell Jason that it is not something you can help. Tell him it wouldn't feel right staying with him when you really love someone else. It will most likly be a little difficult but you need to do what makes you happy. Goodluck!
~WestsideAngel~
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well who do you like more? whoever that is, go out with them!! its that simple
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well it seems that you don't have true feelings for Jason..but you have true feelings for Jon..I say follow your heart and do wut is right for you..so i would go out with the one I love because the you like will leave you for the ones they love
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WEll then your not being fair to "Jason" at all and need to break it up with him before he falls for you very fast to.. the quikcer you get out of it the better.. stay single for awhle after and see if you still have th same feelings.. if so then go back out with the one you love, if hes still there waiting for you then it shows he does love you too
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get over your old boyfriend and stop screwing around.
-hitler
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I guess if Jon wants to give it another try then you should follow your heart.There is no way to get out of a relationship without hurting someone. So long as you're nice about it though you may still be able to remain friends with Justin.
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This is always a confusing situtation. Are you absolutely positively sure that Jon still likes you? You could really mess things up if you dump Jason for Jon but Jon doesn't like you and Jason won't take you back. You are hurting Jason by liking Jon, but I think that if you are really sure about dumping Jason and know for a fact that Jon likes you, that you need to dump Jason. There is no sense in hurting Jason.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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This is a hard one. You like the guy you're going out with, but you like your old boyfriend more. Why did you break up with Jon in the first place? If you remember why, you might have some different opinions. Maybe he broke up with you. But if you really like Jason, you need to be fair to him and give him a chance. It's hard to let go to the ones you love (meaning Jon) but you two will still stay friends. You can also love him as a friend if you'd like to think of it that way. But if you feel like you're not being fair to Jason and Jon wants to get back together, tell them both your true feelings.
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Even though you love Jon, he was your ex-boyfriend and you two broke up for a reason. If you two can fix that, then I'm sure you two can get back together because everyone deserves second chances. You had a chance with Jon but your relationship didn't work out, since you two are over, so you shouldn't break up with Jason but if you love Jon more than him, then you should break up with him, since your feelings for Jason aren't true. It sounds like there is more potential between you and Jon, rather between you and Jason but you should tell both Jon and Jason about your feelings for each of them.
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