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its long but i really need help!!
i became friends with this one girl named Jenna who was new this year. weve been in school for about 5 monthes now and me, one of my best friends, and one of my guy friends are her only friends in our school. well one of her guy friends from her old school likes me and i dont like him back. he saw me at the movies one night and gets mad because im with another guy, he tells Jenna and Jenna gets mad at me and says some extremly mean things to me, things that a "bff" (as she calls us) would NEVER say. she then apologizes the next day when she hears the real story from one of my friends. i dont know if i should forgive her because she really feels bad.. or shes apologizing because she needs friends at our school and if im mad at her, then she knows my friend and my guy friend will surly be mad at her too.. also she has gotten me in a LOT of trouble.. like trouble with cops.. please help!
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hey i think you should tell her off next time she treats you bad. that you dont like be treated liek that and you wont tolerate it, and that friends dont do that to friends and if she dosent listen then give her the boot, girl you deserve to be respected, especailly by you friends. alright! i hope i helped!
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aplologize and see what happens.. if she is nice and how she was b4 then make the choice and if not u know jus stop hangin out with her and move on... if she chose to lose u as a friend ( a good friend u were im sure) then that was her choice and u shouldn't have to suffer from it. good luck
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then gurl dont hang around her she will just keep gettn' u in truble so i hope i helped.
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I think you need to ditch this girl. If she doesn't even have the decency to hear your side of the story before she blows up on you then she isn't a true friend. Also, a true friend doesn't get you in that kind of trouble. I used to have a friend like that and my mom made me stop hanging out with her and after we stopped i realized my life was better without her and now I'm very happy. You should let this chick find new friends and dump her. You've already got friends, what do you have to loose? -Kayla
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i think you should orgive, because thats what having friends is all about, forgive and forgetting. ans about the cops part. maybe you should talk this out with her 1-on-1. and keep her out of troble by keeping her busy so she has no time to get in trouble. all you can do is be the best friend you can be. and forget the little things like that. because being mad over little things like that only tears you apart and makes you become enemys. and as you know she needs friends and everyone could always use another!
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ditch her. you dont need friends that are like that.
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