ok i hav had a bf for almsot 2 months now but ive been friend wid benefits with him for lyke a yr....well hes really causes alot of problems....he started smokin weed bout a month ago n then he told me he quit lyke 3 weeks ago n we wer surpose to go see a movie last frieday n he backed out last minute bc he had no money bc he blew it all on weed...so he lied to me bout quiting and he can never go newhere with me n emore bc he always spends his money on drugs. dont get me wrong when he isnt lyke this he is s0o gr8....but hes stopped calling n stuff n always has excuses and always backsout of our plans or will b lyke o ill callu bak n let u kno if i can go n then hell never call back....well heres the deal my brother plays soccer and theres this guy on his team named rafael....and omg he is so cute...so i told my bro to tell him wassup sexy LOL at practice....n he DID and ever since...rafael n me always stare at eachother n make eye contact with eachother at the games....wer both 2 shy 2 talk to eachother...but last game he told my brother to hook me n him up!!! he sed he wants to get to knno me n stuff...so today b4 my bro left 4 his soccer practice i was like tell rafael i wanna hok up with him 2...and so he did and rafael called my bro n then my bro gave him mai cell number n he just caled me!! it was my furst time talking to him!! hes soooo sweet! he was like ur brother tells me stuff (like that i like him n stuf) n i was like o ya lyke wat he was like go ask him n i was like i will later n then rafael was like just 2 let u kno i think the same about u.....i wa slike omg and i started blushing...hes so sweet and he actually calls when he says he will unlike my boyfriend...rafael is gonna call m tomorrow! well....idk wat to do....should i dump my boyfriend who i really lyke (but lately hes been a real ass) and take a chance n get with rafael? or wat do i do? bc it wouldnt b fair 2 rafael to be gettin with him if i hav a man,....
AskAndy answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 9:11 pm: I'm sorry but ISNT THE AWNSWER OBVIOUS???!!! Let's narrow it down.
*Your bf does drugs
*Your bf lied to you
*Your bf spends all his cash on weed
*He never calls you.
*then a sweet guy comes along and you ask me this question?
*I have made my point. [ AskAndy's advice column | Ask AskAndy A Question ]
berryblast47 answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 8:54 pm: give ralphel a call, dump the other boy gurl why would you want to be with someone who does drugs gurl he is proubly chaeating on you sence youll dont go out much go for ralphel and email me at berryblast47 for more advice peace [ berryblast47's advice column | Ask berryblast47 A Question ]
adviceangel18 answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 8:24 pm: well i have been in this situation before. If your boyfriend now lies to you about quiting the weed then how do you know hes not lying about other things. I think it would be better to dunp him and try Rafael. It seems like your bf now is just goin to end up hurting you so it would be better probably just to dump him and try Rafael. He seems like he would be good. Well hope I helped. Keep asking.
tigalily48 answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 7:17 pm: if i were you i would dump your ass of a "bf" and get with rafael. he seems nice and like an ideal mate for sombody. plus, who wants a boyfriend whos a druggy, liar, and a bad bf. dont take these things harsh or anything. its my opinion. im jus tryin to help. good luck! hope for the best. [ tigalily48's advice column | Ask tigalily48 A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 7:07 pm: u need to dump the other guy bc rafael is so sweet and tell this other guy tht he cant have u bc if he wont giv up his drugs 4 u or at least call u ever then hes not good enough 4 u so i say go 4 it wif rafael but definitly dump the guy wit his weed first! hope i helped ~stef~ [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
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