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Member Since: November 2, 2004
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sorry, this is kind of long but i really need help
Ok, im a thirteen year old girl. in 7th grade i was popular...but indeed a train wreck when it came to looks. now i have slimmed out alot, done my hair differently, my skin cleared up, and i guess i have fun grown up a whole lot more(body/face).and lately i have been noticing that guys have been a lot more flirty with me. they always liked my personality but now i think they actually see me as a woman. some of my guy freinds are always telling me how georgiouse i am. but anyway...our school resently split into 2 schools, one is across town now. alot of my freinds left, including this boy that i was freinds with. and i havnt seen him since this party i went to last weekend. before the school split, we were freinds and all, but i never really think he thought of me as a REALLY FUN girl that deserved more attention. anyway, at the party, he started REALLY to joke around with me and flirt(i think) and give me a lot of attention. plus he looks at me very differently. when i left he came over and made sure to say goodbye. i felt so special. What does this mean? Does he like me or just want to be freinds with me? personally, i think that attraction isnt the most important thing, and yet is is really important. if anyone could help me i would really appreciate it!!! thanks!! (link)
he likes you go for it


What do I do when everything is way too much for me and I'm so angry that I'm afraid I'll hurt my friends, I never get this angry, it's driving me nuts, I have always been so calm and sweet, now I'm some bitch that goes with the crowd. What do I do now? (link)
dont call yourself a bitch its not nice and dont hurt your friends like we say in jersey accdiates hapen


ok, there's this guy and me and him have liked each other since the beginning of school.. we tried to hook up but something happened and we didn't.. but we both still like each other. and he always tells me he loves me and stuff.. and all my friends tell me i should go out with them.. and i front like i dont want him anymore bcuz i know how pathetic this is.. but i do, i want him so bad. and when im with him he's always saying how great it would be if we went out and he knows i like him but he just wont ask me out.. does anyone have any suggestions to let him know that he should just ask me out already?? (link)
go for it again


my boyfriend always calls me sayin how some girl kissed him today at school but if i just say my friend likes my butt he freaks out and i dont care about him flirting cz we dont go to the same school so im not there to do something..anyways i wanna tell him on halloween i was holdin this guy i just met hands but i dont want him to freak out..how can i tell him and ask why he freaks out about me doin the smallest things with my friends and me not doin nothin about him and his???

o yea when he flirts i get jealous but i dont act or say nothin about it..is he tryin to get me jealous? (link)
dump him email me at berryblast47 for more advice


Hey everyone..well, ii am sorry if this gets long, but ii am curious about some things.. Ok well, there is this guy in my History class that ii always catch looking at me, and sometimes ii glane ove at him to and when he looks, ii look away. He is not really the social or really popular kind of guy, and he doesn't talk all that much in class, but it seems like he is always looking at me or whatever. I never have talked to him before, but what do yuu guys think? Could he like me or something? I don't know! Please help guys! Thanks so much! (link)
go for it email me at berryblast47


i like this girl but i don't think i want to go out with her. i don't know if that makes any sense, but thats the way it is. anyway, i told my friend and he asked her if she would go out with me (i didn't tell him to) and she said no. my friend said that he didn't know if she was serious because he was acting like he was joking around and that she might have been too. I don't know wut to think. plz help. and does it make sense to like someone and not want to go out with them?

i'll rate anyone who tries to help (link)
email me we will try to get together at berryblast47 bye sexy


okay.... i have a crush... well more than a crush on this guy. He is so so nice and really good looking. he has the best abs and body. The only hook to this awsome guy is he's...well.. my brother. What should i do? Should i tell him my feelings or should i keep it hush, hush?

Please Help Me.

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gurl you like your own brother keep it hush hush go find someone else email me at berryblast47 for more advice bye


ok i hav had a bf for almsot 2 months now but ive been friend wid benefits with him for lyke a yr....well hes really causes alot of problems....he started smokin weed bout a month ago n then he told me he quit lyke 3 weeks ago n we wer surpose to go see a movie last frieday n he backed out last minute bc he had no money bc he blew it all on weed...so he lied to me bout quiting and he can never go newhere with me n emore bc he always spends his money on drugs. dont get me wrong when he isnt lyke this he is s0o gr8....but hes stopped calling n stuff n always has excuses and always backsout of our plans or will b lyke o ill callu bak n let u kno if i can go n then hell never call back....well heres the deal my brother plays soccer and theres this guy on his team named rafael....and omg he is so cute...so i told my bro to tell him wassup sexy LOL at practice....n he DID and ever since...rafael n me always stare at eachother n make eye contact with eachother at the games....wer both 2 shy 2 talk to eachother...but last game he told my brother to hook me n him up!!! he sed he wants to get to knno me n stuff...so today b4 my bro left 4 his soccer practice i was like tell rafael i wanna hok up with him 2...and so he did and rafael called my bro n then my bro gave him mai cell number n he just caled me!! it was my furst time talking to him!! hes soooo sweet! he was like ur brother tells me stuff (like that i like him n stuf) n i was like o ya lyke wat he was like go ask him n i was like i will later n then rafael was like just 2 let u kno i think the same about u.....i wa slike omg and i started blushing...hes so sweet and he actually calls when he says he will unlike my boyfriend...rafael is gonna call m tomorrow! well....idk wat to do....should i dump my boyfriend who i really lyke (but lately hes been a real ass) and take a chance n get with rafael? or wat do i do? bc it wouldnt b fair 2 rafael to be gettin with him if i hav a man,.... (link)
give ralphel a call, dump the other boy gurl why would you want to be with someone who does drugs gurl he is proubly chaeating on you sence youll dont go out much go for ralphel and email me at berryblast47 for more advice peace


ok i really need help!
alright there is this guy...and ive liked him for a LONG time and we went out but he moved so we broke up but we're still really good friends and i talk to him every day and i love him alot still!! well i know i should move on and everything and theres this other boy that im starting to like alot and i wanna like him but i feel really guilty because i told the other guy id always love him and no one else and thats the truth that i will always love him but it seems wrong! can someone please help me ill rate high! (link)
go for it your boyfriend is gone email me at berryblast47 for more advice


i have a friend name lori and she likes the same the guy (alex) that i like but she doesn't know that i like him too but i know she has a little clue that i do like him. anyways he is always flirting with me and lori. lori gets me really upset and annoyed cuz she makes it seem like she and alex are going out but they aren't. lori asked me if she and alex would make a good couple and if i thought alex liked her and i said yes of course cuz it seems that way he calls her and everything. i really want to stop thinking about alex and stop talking to lori and alex which is sooo hard. i really don't know what to do if i should just forget about him and move on or just wait till him and lori go out and break up and then go out with me. i really don't know what to but i do want to stop talking to him just a lil bit that way he doesn't think i like him. so plz help!! sry if soo long! ~natalie~ (link)
go for it but dont runnin your friendship email me at berryblast47 thankyou and bye bye


i think that a guy i know is drop dead georgous but i dont have a chance with him what do you do?

*out of your league. (link)
see if he he likes you what do you got to loose




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