ok i really need help!
alright there is this guy...and ive liked him for a LONG time and we went out but he moved so we broke up but we're still really good friends and i talk to him every day and i love him alot still!! well i know i should move on and everything and theres this other boy that im starting to like alot and i wanna like him but i feel really guilty because i told the other guy id always love him and no one else and thats the truth that i will always love him but it seems wrong! can someone please help me ill rate high!
WiseWoman answered Wednesday November 3 2004, 9:42 am: I'm assuming you're still pretty young (in your teens??). If so, why on earth are you being so serious about relationships (boyfreinds)?
You are still going to "fall in love" a few times in your life.
Although you told him you'd always love him, and you probably still do - maybe just as a friend.
You made no commitment to him, and he has moved away. He may even have met someone new too.
Learn from the mistake you made with this guy, and becareful about using the word "forever" again. It is a really long time.
Just remember that things change, feeling change too. So don't commit yourself to some one "forever" unless you plan on marrying him - I mean if there is an engagement ring on your finger, and you've set a date for the wedding.
Until then... go for this new guy and have fun.
Good luck!
gymcutiepie01 answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 7:43 pm: well the same thing happed to me the whole moving thing. i still talk to him even though he lives in chicago and i live in michigan but it gets annoying that he dosnt call i have to call him. but sorry i told my sorry story but wut i did was i just keep contact with him and we might go out again. i think you should just let your feelings go to whoever you like most i mean you can go out with the guy who moved but if i dosnt work out then u can still go out w/ the guy you like!! hoped i helped sorry its so long!! good luck!! [ gymcutiepie01's advice column | Ask gymcutiepie01 A Question ]
hezmybaby09 answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 6:57 pm: itz not lyke ur gonna marry him!! u can lyke sum 1 else long distance relationships r so hard trust me im in one right now that is about to end....they suck butt if the other guy lykes u alot u suhld go 4 it! but if he doesnt then jsut keep things the way they r [ hezmybaby09's advice column | Ask hezmybaby09 A Question ]
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