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New friend?
Well there's this guy that I've known pretty much my whole life. He's my neighbor but we've never really been that great of friends. We both play tennis so I see him kind of a lot in the summer. The other day we were talking online and he said we should hang out more. He's gonna call me when he gets back from basketball camp. I really wanna hang out with him but thing is, I don't know him that well. I don't know what to talk about with him. Does anyone have any suggestions on what to talk about? How can I open up to him more? Thanks, any help will be appreciated! Oh and I'm 14/f
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flirt flirt flirt! lol i had the same problem genericly about a week ago but you soooo came the the right place just flirt but not clingy or too touchy laugh smile ask him lots of questions guys love to talk ask him whats he doing this next year for school theres alot to talk about before the new school year comes around if he asks you any questions answer them completly and fully honest if you want to open up more. remember he suggested that yall hang out more which means he is atleast interested in a friendship with you or maybe more than that! just be urself 100% and you cant go wrong!hope i helped!
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Just gradually start to hang out with him.talk on the phone and on the computer.find out what he likes and dislikes just through casual conversation.you cant be open to someone unless you know them well.and for the stuff to talk about, just talk about random stuff like music,movies,tv,colors,food,places,friends.just stuff like that.it will also help you to get to know him better
♥ Amanda ♥
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I've been in quite similar situations, all you need to do is plan on actually doing an activity when ya'll get together ((like playing basketball or something)) that way if you can't think of something to say you'll at least be doing something together. So at first don't just "hang out" with him. You can also try getting a group together to do something and invite him along too! Hope I helped
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Well that's the point of hanging out with him ; getting to know him well =) What I do, is I just think up stuff...just think: Family, Friends,Music,Pets,Interests...and just roll from there. And whenever you're talking about something and you share something funny that happened to you that relates to that it'll make ya both laugh which might ease up the tension a bit, cause you'll get more comfortable, and also it shows you have a funny side which is good =) But you shouldn't have to make up all the conversation.. he should have to too. To get him to open up, just ask for his opinions and views on things cause then he'll be showing you what's going on in his head and how he feels about stuff. =) Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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maybe you could challenge him to a tennis game. if he gains a point you have to tell him one of your interests. if you gain a point he has to tell you one of his. or you could just play tennis and talk while you play.
~Maegan~
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hey, well if you dont hang out with him your never gonna get to know him...so i suggest you do it! he's probably a really cool guy. just talk about his hobbies, your hobbies, friends, family, pets, interests, school, theres so much to choose from! just pick and dont worry to much about it...just let it flow!
always here, -lc
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