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DIVORCE
I have been married for 5 years and have been with my husband for 6 years. He is a Army soldier. We have lived in Germany for the past 4 and half years. My husband just recently told me that our hole marrige was based on lies, and that he has never been in love with me!!!! He told me the truth about everything!!!! He has cheated on me so many times that he can't remember!!!!! My question is what can I get in the divorce? Do we have to split everything, and can I make him pay for pain and suffering?
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well im not sure cus im only 13 but i think you guys split all the money in half and you split the debt and you sell the house unless u can agree on something...again im not sure tho...im sry i couldnt help more!
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If there's a prenup then it all depends, but if not you get the usual everything that was yours before the marriage but you also get something like 75% of everything else if he cheats. My sister is getting divorced, so I overheard them talking about it.
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First off, you do not have to split everything down the middle, unless you signed a contract stating that you did. If you didn't do that, then talk to your lawyer about what you want to go for then appeal it in court. I think what you mean by pain and suffering is actually "emotional distress." In the eyes of the law, pain and suffering is when a surgeon leaves his beeper in your colon. However, from what I'm hearing I don't really think you're a candidate for that because you didn't have to seek psychological attention or hospitalization due to hysteria from the shock. That was a really ominous thing for him to do but really I think the most you can get from all of this is the house and the car and knowing you're better than him morally.
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Your attorney will be able to give you better advise than we can. And he/she will. I'm sure you will get at least half of everything. The pain and suffering I'm not sure about. Get an attorney ASAP.
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from wat i know you can get a split divorce meaning you would get half of everything perchased during the marraige if it has caused serious emtional pain like hair loss or even weight gain and if you have been medicated because you have been emtionaly destressed
good luck sorry
and love talktome224
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don't say a word - get all your ducks in a row first. Like a separate bank account, separate credit cards etc. and then go to an attorney off-base to file.
In the military, adultery is a punishable crime... you have all the cards in your hands, especially if you have some real proof.
If you don't get the response you need, call his commanding officer or first sergeant and make an appointment for a private discussion and spill the beans.
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my mom got a divorce.. well she had to sell our old house and neither one of them got the house but they split the money.. my mom got the kids but that cause he's an alcoholic and drug user and only lived in a half way house, i would think cause he's in the Army you'd get the kids **if you have children** i think who evers name cetain things were in you'd get and some he'd get.. the courts will figure it all out.. ♥ Dez
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I am so sorry about that. A man like that will never find happines, sleeping around is not the answer. Well my uncle is a attorney I will ask him what you should do. i know that you cold take his possetions, you could sue him for lost time, for chetting, there is do many things that you could get him for.
DONT GIVE UP ON YOUR lOVE LIFE< THERE IS SO MANY FISH IN THAT OCEAN<JUST THINK ABOUT IT AS THE FISH BEING EATEN.
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hmm i can't really help cuase i'm 13 but i've seen way to many movies about divorce and stuff. ok here is what the t.v shows say on one her huspand was cheating on her she took everything he liked but he took everything she likes so i think it depends on what get your lawyers and then ask them i think you can kept everything depends on what he did so says the law i think i know i don't thinked i helped but when i'm been asked for advie i never turn them down even if i don't have the answer
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I'm really sorry to hear that, and I hope these websites will be of some use to you.
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I'm sure there are more out there, all you would have to do is type divorce into a search engine of your choice.
I hope I helped you out some, good luck.
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