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I'm 13 years old and I'm about 5'4. I once heard that if you're 5 feet tall, your supossed to weigh 100 pounds, and for every inch after that, it's another 5 pounds. Well, that would mean that I'm suposed to weigh about 120 pounds, but i only weigh 95. Does this mean I'm 25 pounds UNDERweight? It seems that if I gained 25 pounds, I'd be looking near obese. I don't feel or look underweight. Am I? (link)
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probably not...it really all depends on you...not every person should weigh the same, even if they're the same height...differnt things come in to play such as bone structure, muscle mass, etc. Just ask your doctor. If they're ok, then you are too.
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Ok, there’s this GUY that I've known for a very long time. But we haven’t talked since we entered high school. Then this summer he dropped my brother off after paintballing and my mom invited him in in for dinner. WE began to talk again and he came over again to hang out and watch the meteor Shower (which never happened because it was cloudy but we still played video/board games), and then he invited me to a hockey game and to a concert, my favourite band I may add...BUT he likes this other girl and I mean really likes her or so I think. But my friends keep saying that he likes me. So then I asked him if he wanted to take her to the concert instead of me and he said she doesn’t like that band. But then I said wouldn’t he have more fun with her being there then me and he said no your fun and I want you to come and I explained to him why I was asking him if he really wanted to take me instead of her saying that I think she’s jealous of our friendship because she keeps asking my friends if I like him (not that I care he’s pretty cute) and that I didn’t want to destroy his relationship with her. He replied that there is no relationship and there will never be so I was going no matter what. But just when your beginning to think omg girl he’s head over heels for you(if that is what your thinking) I wanted to add that at school he ignores me completely unless I talk to him. He is always with the other girl he likes and even when he’s next to me he doesn’t say a word. I don’t want to think he likes me and get all worked up and then he doesn’t but then I don’t want to think he doesn’t like me he really does and miss my chance. I don’t know what to think or what to do please someone help me!!!! (link)
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guys do that at school...even if they're dating you they do that sometimes...ya they talk ot you but as soon as somebody comes into the classroom that they wanna talk to they completely cut off your conversation to go talk to someone else...i hate that...it's just them being macho cool and showin people they really dont need you even if they do...if he says theres no relationship the most you can do is trust him...dont completely let your guard down, but give him the benifit of the doubt...if he hasnt proven himself to be a habitual liar to you in the past, then give him the benifit of the doubt but remain cautious...i think he obviously likes you somehwat, even if it is as afriend...just dont annoy him or hang all over him or overdo it or whatever because then he'll be like whoa back off a bit...but just hang out with him like usual and be normal and just let it all play out...follow your instincts...hope i helped...l8r
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Alright, I'm 16 and I have been dating my bf for about 2 and 1/2 weeks. Everything has been going pretty good. I feel like I've known him forever and we are falling head over heels for eachother. His family loves me and my family loves him. It's been perfect. But it seems that everytime we hang out little things bug me about him. Like his friends for example. Most of them play girls and he acts a little different around me when they are with him. Another thing I don't care for is that he can be pretty insensitive about my feelings and is pushy about things. He says and does things and doesn't think about how it might be taken the wrong way. Like yesterday my twin sister pissed him off so he kiddingly yelled at her and then when she said a sarcastic comment back he went over to her, turned her over, and started punching and slapping her ass real hard. And I found it extremely weird and inappropriate because whenever I think of someone grabbing, slapping, or punching someones ass its usually someone they are into, because he does the same thing when we play fight. So it totally disgusted and pissed me off. When he did that it made me offended and mad. My last bf would walk by girls at the mall when I was with him and smack their ass but I never said anything about how it annoyed and upset me because I figured that if I let out how I felt that it might screw things up. Even today we got in a sort of fight over the way things were going between us. As in how fast we were moving physically. It is always me who intiates these small skirmishes and that's what worries me. Most of the issues I have with him happen because I have been through alot of shit with guys in the past and I try to protect myself by not putting up with shit. I just don't want to be the person that fights about shit all the time and feels like an overreacter. But I know that if I keep things to myself that it will end up building up and building up and the issues will never get solved. So is there any way that I can relieve these issues without feeling like I might be causing my relationship to self-destruct? (link)
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First thing, guys are guys. Most guys act differently around their guy friends than their girlfriends. It's just how it is sometimes. Secondly, because guys are guys, they can often say things in ways that could be taken the wrong way and don't really care/don't think about the consiquences. So for that all I can ask is do you think he means for it to hurt you or affect you like it does? Is he saying it that way because he knows it can be mistaken and he wants that? Make a decision about his intentions because they are so much more important than anything he actually says. Third, he's probably just being a guy (again) with your sister. Maybe twins turn him on...I don't know. Anyway just tell him to quit being an ass and either be exclusive with you and quit touching other girls or just leave. I know you don't wanna mess up yalls relationship, but its really not a good relationship in the first place if he doesn't respect you enough to quit actin horney all the time with other girls...anyway...hope I helped and best of luck!!
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okay i think i have pink eye my eyes really icth and
there swellen i were contacts if thats any help but is there any way i can stop the ichin or anything it might be other than pink eye? i rate 5s (link)
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if it's pinkeye you usually have goopy stuff comin out of your eye...there are two kinds, viral and bacterial. The doctor should perscribe eyedrops if you do have it, but then again it might just be from your contacts. Maybe they're irritaing your eyes. Sometimes, if you dont wash your hands before you put your contacts in it could cause pinkeye. If you pull your bottom lid down it would be really red if you did have it...hope i helped
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My Boyfriend and I were involved in a car accident friday afternoon... We are alright though. The car is totalled he hurt his shoulder and I hit my head.. but anyway.. I am terrified to ride with him.. or for that fact even drive. Since his car is totalled we've been driving my car and I've been driving. and hes like I'll drive.. and I tell him no that I Am.. I really trust him. I mean we've been together almost 11 months. and this really hurt him when I told him I was scared to drive.. and now he feels like I dont trust him anymore. and I don't know what to do to fix this. I even told him that I trusted him that he's just got to give me sometime to get over the accident that it just happened... What Can I Do?? :( Sorry This Is Soooo Long. (link)
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First of all, glad to hear yall are ok. Reactions like yours are common after a traumatic experience. It's ok to not want to drive or even be in a car, especially since the accident is recent. I'd suggest telling him it has nothing to do with trusting him, but it's about you feeling safe. Explain that you do trust him in every other way, but this is just one of those things. If he loves you, he'll understand and back off. But you also can't feel to hurt that he feels that way as well. Put yourself in his shoes. He's probably feeling like you think his driving abilities aren't as good as you thought they were, or maybe his reaction time, or something else that makes him look bad in some way, and we all know how guys usually have to impress. Sometimes, they get their ego hurt easily. Tell him you still trust him and love him and everything, really try to boost his ego. Hope it helps. Good Luck!
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My sister and I planned a one week vacation in Paris. She lives in Colorado and I live in California so we do not get to see each other often. I made all the arrangements and was very much looking forward to going. Recently, she got back together with her boyfriend and has canceled her trip with me because she would rather do something with her boyfriend. I feel hurt about my sister's choice and resentful towards her boyfriend (although my sister says it was solely her decision). I say she can see her boyfriend every weekend and during the week too and that she can go on vacation with him next year. She says this is her only opportunity to go on a vacation this year with him and she doesn't want to miss it. I know my relationship with my sister is more important than any vacation, but I'm having trouble feeling ok about this. Should my sister have honored her commitment to me? Should I just get over it and wish them well on their vacation? (link)
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She probably shouldn't have backed out of yalls vacation plans to begin with. You are her sister and she'll be connected to you much longer than her boyfriend, even if they stay together the rest of their lives. On the other hand, maybe she just doesn't like Paris (I know I don't) and maybe she has the (however mistaken) view that she can be with you next summer and the reason she wants to be with her boyfriend now is because she knows she probably will not be with him in a year. Maybe you could tell her that you kinda feel like she's ditching you and see what she says. Maybe ask her to think about how she could resolve the issue with you, that way you don't have to settle or try to think of something on your own. Hope I helped. Good Luck!
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I have been married for 5 years and have been with my husband for 6 years. He is a Army soldier. We have lived in Germany for the past 4 and half years. My husband just recently told me that our hole marrige was based on lies, and that he has never been in love with me!!!! He told me the truth about everything!!!! He has cheated on me so many times that he can't remember!!!!! My question is what can I get in the divorce? Do we have to split everything, and can I make him pay for pain and suffering? (link)
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If there's a prenup then it all depends, but if not you get the usual everything that was yours before the marriage but you also get something like 75% of everything else if he cheats. My sister is getting divorced, so I overheard them talking about it.
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