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I DONT KNOW ANYMORE!!!!
Ok, there’s this GUY that I've known for a very long time. But we haven’t talked since we entered high school. Then this summer he dropped my brother off after paintballing and my mom invited him in in for dinner. WE began to talk again and he came over again to hang out and watch the meteor Shower (which never happened because it was cloudy but we still played video/board games), and then he invited me to a hockey game and to a concert, my favourite band I may add...BUT he likes this other girl and I mean really likes her or so I think. But my friends keep saying that he likes me. So then I asked him if he wanted to take her to the concert instead of me and he said she doesn’t like that band. But then I said wouldn’t he have more fun with her being there then me and he said no your fun and I want you to come and I explained to him why I was asking him if he really wanted to take me instead of her saying that I think she’s jealous of our friendship because she keeps asking my friends if I like him (not that I care he’s pretty cute) and that I didn’t want to destroy his relationship with her. He replied that there is no relationship and there will never be so I was going no matter what. But just when your beginning to think omg girl he’s head over heels for you(if that is what your thinking) I wanted to add that at school he ignores me completely unless I talk to him. He is always with the other girl he likes and even when he’s next to me he doesn’t say a word. I don’t want to think he likes me and get all worked up and then he doesn’t but then I don’t want to think he doesn’t like me he really does and miss my chance. I don’t know what to think or what to do please someone help me!!!!
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guys do that at school...even if they're dating you they do that sometimes...ya they talk ot you but as soon as somebody comes into the classroom that they wanna talk to they completely cut off your conversation to go talk to someone else...i hate that...it's just them being macho cool and showin people they really dont need you even if they do...if he says theres no relationship the most you can do is trust him...dont completely let your guard down, but give him the benifit of the doubt...if he hasnt proven himself to be a habitual liar to you in the past, then give him the benifit of the doubt but remain cautious...i think he obviously likes you somehwat, even if it is as afriend...just dont annoy him or hang all over him or overdo it or whatever because then he'll be like whoa back off a bit...but just hang out with him like usual and be normal and just let it all play out...follow your instincts...hope i helped...l8r
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ok well i think because you see each other at schol he may just be friends with you outside of school (are you guys in diffrent grades?)maybe hes playing both of you i dont kno because i dont know what hes like he may be a nice funny all around awsome cute guy but doesnt every guy have a dark side?he may not like either of you and only just as friends i would wait for a good moment to throw in hey ummm would you go on a DATE with me on saturday or something and see what hapens dont be shy you must realy like him if your stressing so much just see what happens if he says yes no what ever you'll never know till you ask him if he says no be like ok i was just wondering and make sure he doesnt feel unconfertible around you that may be a good way to end a good friendship if he says no be like oh well i was just wondering because i have nothing to doa nd im ganna be free and then just stat talking about the total oppistate and if he says oh so i knew you liked me or you know something like that be like no i like this other kid i told you i have nothing to do and wanted to hang out god you know show a little adittude but nothing so drastic and if he says yes make sure you wear sumthing totally cute and try not to embarrse yourself haha just kidding just be yourself and see where it takes you .
hope i helped
PS. sorry its so long i thought i knew what i was talking about
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