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my sister.
ever since my parents have divorced and me and my 2 sisters and my brother have moved to LA my youngest sister (7th grader) has been acting older then she is she can definally pass to be about 16 but that never mattered much in NY but here she is hanging out with girls that were to much make up and not enough cloths. Shes learned how to dirty dance and is making out with tons of guys. She is never home nemore and she looks like a whore when ever she goes ne where! like this morning: she came home around 2am this morning no one new where she was er any thing and when she got in she was wearing a black mini and a hot pink holter top. she was wasted and she had on so much make up that when she took it off she went through 13 clearisel pads! what should i do? she is so smart and pretty but now shes acts stupid and is flunking school!
HELP!!!
xoxoKristen
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Although you can have a talk with your sister about her behavior, and maybe spend more time with her -- so she's with you instead of out with her trashy new friends -- I think the issue should be addressed by your parents or the school or both. You should inform your parents and the school authorities of what's going on (your parents should know anyway, or at least the one you live with) and say you are worried about her, and they help her.
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It sounds like your sister is acting out to get some more attention. Is she upset that your famliy had to move? You really need to find her help. Drinking at such a young age leads to binge drinking for most of your life. Have you tried talking to her? Maybe you and you sister could spend some time one on one and just talk about things.
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hey! wow well it sounds like your sister does need some help now. what you should do is a. talk to your parents and get them (the one your living with) to counsel her a little. b. talk to her school counsler and maybe she can help her get back on the right track (maybe even put her in one of those groups they have at some schools -its a group of students that have problems like this and it seems to really help some people-) also it would be great if maybe you started attending a local church and have her get involved in things there such as CHURCH, youth group(there are really cool people there who dont have to do things like this to be that way), bible school, and things like that! also try talking to her yourself about these things and remind her of her life back in NY, and her old friends and how great those things were...maybe she'll go back to some of that!
xoxo helpachick
good luck!
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