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okay..so im going out with this guy and it's been a week...and well i tell him like EVERYTHING on msn but in real life like i never really talk to him :( ..what should i do?
-xoxxinoyouloveme
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hi xoxxinoyouloveme
if you can talk to this guy on msn you can talk to him in person. he is still the same guy. you must really love him if you can tell him everything. he must really love you to listen to everything you say. go for it. i hope it works out for you both.
if it doesn't you can break up with him . there are plenty of fish in the sea.
hope this helps
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summer
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be more open with him. if you can tell him anything on msn, he is still the same person when you see him person. you should be able to feel comfortable around him. talk to him, make conversation about anything. if you can do it on msn, you can do it when you see him. you must like him enough to tell him things so dont be afraid. im sure if he listens to you on the internet he can do just as well in person.
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well... you should bring up conversations like at school? its kinda of awkward but.. well you should download AIM and get him to download it too because AIM has video ( webcam ) talk- microphone and yes its awesome
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its okaye love ♥ your shy. If you get used to talking to someone on the computer, its awkward && weird talking to someone in person. Totally natural.
To not be shy, it will take time before you too can be natural in person. Personally I think you too should be ffriends for a little while, so that it wont be so weird and you can act regular around eachother. Once everything is comfortable you can start getting more serious and become more then friends. ♥
Another idea is to meet somewhere with a bunch of people. It will be easier to break the ice that way, instead of being one-on-one which is scary.
Good luck&& happie holidays. ♥ ♥ love
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Its quite an infantile stage in a relationship, im assuming you are young here (13/14ish? However having said that, my relationship used to be like this and im 16 and my boyfriend is 19 so we should know better really lol, but anyway.
Trick is to bring up conversations you have had on msn in person, just little snippets of the conversation, a related idea. That breaks down the barriers between the person you talk to on msn and the person who you see as your boyfriend.
But overall, dont worry about it, just talk to him and it will get easier over time to talk in person about difficult stuff.
Hope it all works out, take care xx
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