okay i'm only 13 but i have a lot of problems. this guy asked me out like an hour ago. i kind of know him..but not that well...but he seems really nice and caring and he really likes me a lot. the problem is that i feel weird. i kind of like him, but theres some other people i kind of like too. he seems to care about a lot and really like me. should i give him a chance? i feel really guilty..but should i keep going out with him for awhile and give him a chance?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? beachhun101 answered Monday July 11 2005, 3:13 pm: well you kinda like other people too, so id try figure out your top 3, and if hes in it, try to get to know him better since you "kind of know him." i think you really need to get to know the person before you start dating them. get to know all the people you like before so you know what their about and how they will treat you, but leave some room to figure out stuff about them while your dating them. id give him a..."not right now i just need to figure some stuff out" answer. then this week figure out who you like. then if he still likes you and you figure out hes the one for you, tell him your ready. hope this all works for you!
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chelly answered Monday July 11 2005, 12:36 pm: You should go for it you wount know if you like this guy more then the others until you go out with him.
But remember your only 13 so dont do anything stupid and dont kiss him dont let him kiss you. be good make sure he nows that you wnat to be friends before anything ells.
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KELSiixGRACE answered Monday July 11 2005, 12:05 pm: give him a chance! he sounds like a nice guy neway. you'll never know unless u try.. hope i helped you
MD_Girl101 answered Monday July 11 2005, 12:04 pm: I think you should give him A chAnce you never know you could like this guy so much thAt you stop liking the others.
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crazyoutyamind answered Monday July 11 2005, 11:26 am: i think you should give him a chance he sounds like a really nice guy and there will awalys be other people you will like besides your bf well hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox
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poetqueen answered Monday July 11 2005, 10:49 am: i think you should if you dont know him all that well then get to know him go to the mall or somewhere where yall can walk and talk movies are a bad idea 2 hours of complete silence is NOT a date. if you like him then talk to him get to know him if things dont work out between yall explain to him that you just see him more as a friend but dont back off too soon give the poor guy a chance he had to get up the courage to ask you and theres no reason for you not to feel guilty your just confused right now i say go with it for a while and see what happens! hope i helped! [ poetqueen's advice column | Ask poetqueen A Question ]
GOLDEN_GIRLIE_4LIFE answered Monday July 11 2005, 10:40 am: i think you should tell him you feel strange and a little insecure when your around him.ask him if he would like to go out sometime as a getting-to-know-you-date.if it turns out you really like him then keep going out,and if you dont ask him if you could just be friends.i think after telling him the truth about how you feel you wont feel so guilty. [ GOLDEN_GIRLIE_4LIFE's advice column | Ask GOLDEN_GIRLIE_4LIFE A Question ]
akissintheshapeofabullet answered Monday July 11 2005, 10:24 am: I think you should tell this guy who asked you out that youd like to get to know him a little better, and maybe that will take the wierd feeling you have away. You could also explain to him that you think he seems nice and carring, and would love to hang out with him some time, in order to get to know him. Possibly, you'll want to explain that you kinda like a couple of other people and are having a hard time sorting out your feelings. I'm sure once you get to know him, you'll make the choice of wether or not to go out with him.
JustAskAlli answered Monday July 11 2005, 10:19 am: If you really like him, then i think you should go for it. It basically all depends on YOU. If you like someone else more than him, and you think you have a better chance with them, then go with that. But chances are always good :) See how it goes.. theres many fish in the sea..
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