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Question Posted Monday July 11 2005, 10:04 am

well see i have a boyfriend that i have been going out wit for almost 7 month now and hes on vacation.....but back home in my neighborhood this is this guy and i have always had a thing for him and i dunno bout him but i always get mixed up with him like well almost everytime i see him....so im trying to say that i cheeted on my boyfriend that loves me and would do anything for me. and i dont even kno if i left him if anything would happen to "this guy" bakk home.
please help...need it badly im confused

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crazyoutyamind answered Monday July 11 2005, 11:22 am:
you need to find the guy you actully love out of the both of them and then let the other one down nicely and calmly well hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox
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Anthony_d answered Monday July 11 2005, 10:48 am:
youu say you've been with a guy for seven months yet there's a guy at home who youve always had a thing for? Well surely you must have MORE feelings for youre boyfriend.. right? I mean you can't go on that long and not have feelings for that person surely? What you need to think about is who do you truely love. And i dont mean whose the better lookin or the more sporty. I mean the guy who YOU know in you're heart will be there for you on cold nights. The guy who'll treat you like a real person and appreciate the real you. I really think you need to sit down and think about all of this. You have to choose after thinkin of who you'd prefer. You have to choose out of the 2 guys the one you want. But in saying that you should think.
You said you're current boyfriend loves you and would do anything for you. I assure you as a guy myself; guys like him are rare! Choose wisely. And if after all you choose to stick with you're boyfriend of seven moinths i strongly advise you tell him what happened between you and this other guy! It nmight end up worse in the end if you don't. I seriously hope you make the right choice. And i hoppe it all goes well.. Please if at all possible let me know how things go!!
Hope i helped,
anthony

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GOLDEN_GIRLIE_4LIFE answered Monday July 11 2005, 10:37 am:
it sounds like your boyfriend really loves you.
but if your cheeting on him,you might be the one who feels cheeted,and if you messing with other guys who arent your bf then maybe you dont love him back.when you relize that you really dont let him off easy and also tell the guy that you were cheeting with that you were cheeting.this may sound harsh but who wants a cheeter.theres someone for everyone and true love can wait.

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