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Well, I posted here about 4 days ago, and I told you guys how much I liked this girl and what I should do to get her to like me. And well I was cool with that. Until she came over last night...Ya we where watching a movie and everything was cool, but then I went to kiss her and she goes...Why...And of course im like wut...Then she's like why...So at this point im really confused and lost. So I just lean back where I was...Sat thier for a few seconds. Then got up and went downstairs. We talked afterwards and she told me I was more of a brother to her than a boyfriend and wut not. So I asked why she couldn't just tell me how she felt, instead of making me look like a fool and feel like an idiot and she goes, because I don't like to dissapoint people. It was pretty much done from thier.
I was curious. What do you guys do to get ure mind of something like this. Cuz I can't sleep and it's really getting to my head. I tried running and playing basketball, but niether really help since I do it almost everyday to get ready for the season.
Please help me out...
Thanks, -Levi- (link)
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i knoe i knoe....this is kinda like a trick but w/e it works(sometimes)...find another girl and act like the perfect match when your around ur *sister*haha...sorry im not making it better...oh yeah this is if you still want her...sometimes girls are more attracted to a guy if she knows she cant have him(LIKE ME FOR EXAMPLE)
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ok my boyfriend lives like 25 minutes away from me and goes to a diff. high school. We started going out about 2 weeks ago. At first he was like "omg i love you" now its just "heyy." he still says i love you and all that..but i just dont get the same excitmentt i used to get from him when we talk. He dosnt text me as much as he did before and everynight he calls and says he'll call me the next day and ends up calling me at like 11 at night. Since he lives a little while from me we cant hang out like any usual ppl would like all the time, and that makes it even harder. But i do try a bunch to get him to go places and see if he can hang out but i dont feel like hes even trying..and no i didnt give anything up easy if thats what ur thinking..all we have done is makeout. I thought he was my perfect guy at first i really did. I thought i might even be in love..but then he started being liek this liek 3 days ago..and i thought i should give him some time..but i dont wanna keep this relationship ggoing if its not gunna happen..sorry its so long..helpp (link)
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if youv havent done "anything" to easy then maybe this relationship isnt real.im not saying you should do it but you have to keep him interested.maybe all he wanted you for was for the sex....so maybe he really doesnt love you.you shouldnt stay with someone who just wants to get in your pants.ask him if he wants to do something like dinner.wear something short and skimpy.try and act sexy and make him think somethings gonna happen 2nite.if he gets that exceitment back he may just be using you.harsh i knoe,but its the truth(p.s.you may not feel better about tricking him,but at least youll know and be able to move on)
HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
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Me & my ex broke up a little over a year ago. I finally got the courage to call & tell him i was still in love w/ him.He just kept on talking though. We talked till 3 A.M. like we used to. We talked for 3 days after and some how i ended up telling him how much he hurt me but i loved him so much it didn't matter. He told me he was real sry he never ment it, it was the biggest mistake ever, & if he could take it back he would. He also told me that his recent ex broke his heart and how hurt he was but that he doesn't love her n/e more. Since that night we've only talked twice, but he seemed fine. What the hell am i suppose to think?!?!
THANKS
-twiSted (link)
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tell him you dont know what those last couple nights meant and you were hoping he did.tell him you told him you still loved him and wasnt sure if he had said it back or if he just cant say it back.tell him how confused you are and you need to talk in person.maybe at a quite park.(dont try the place you went on your first date)
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well, heres the thing, all of my friends have babysitting jobs, but i dont. i really want one, but i m too shy to ask ppl. i have tryed putting signs in the door, but that didnt work. i m a shy person. does anyone have any ideas for what i should do/say to get a job!? (link)
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dont just put up flyers on any old door!!go inside maybe a conveince shop and put flyers with your phone number on it.ask your mom to spread the word and ask around for you.maybe you have some cusins you can babysit for.i wasnt to sure about this question but i hope by little bit of advise helped.
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This guy just asked me out and he's 18...we kno each other and stuff,but not RELE well...i told him that i wasn't sure, because i have never had a b/f before and going from that to datin a guy thats 4 years older than me is a pretty big jump!
I just got off the phone with him, and i like him, but i KNOW that my parents would kill me and I'm ExTrEmLy nervous and confused! I dont think that i want to date him right now, i just want to go to the movies with him and some other ppl a few times and then make my decision, but im not sure how to tell him. please help! I RATE HIGH!!! love ya!
signed,
*scared* (link)
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i think thats ellgal but w/e...i would do the same.take him out on a date not even how bout....just hangout and get to know him a little better,try and she if hes just using you just to get in your pants or if he really likes you.
i would say if he trys to kiss on the first date and is pushing you to go out alone then hes trying to get in your pants
if he suggests a few friends go and walks you to the door and really looks sincere(and doesnt kiss)then you should give him a chance and go on a date(alone).if you decide you really like him and can handle the intencity then keep going out with him.if it wasnt meant to be then time will fix itself.
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ok i am 13 i am a make and i have a problem.. i have been datin this girl 4 about a month in a half now and i rlly love her yea yea i kno most peaple say that ppl as yong as me dont kno wat love is but thats not true i love her and i kno it but anywayz i finally got 2 talk 2 her 2day 4 the 1st time in about 3 weeks and i came 2 find that she was mad at me because this girl named misty told her that i asked her out and i didnt but when i got 2 talk 2 her she was all sad and mad and she thought i did it i told her i didnt and she says she bleaves me but just somethin is tellin me she dont can any 1 plz help me... (link)
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if you really do love her you have to believe her.but if it seems like she cant believe you then you have to tell her that you love her and you mean it,tell her youve never felt this way about anyone else before and you dont know what it is but this feeling is taking over your whole body and all you want is her.tell her if she feels the same way then she has to belive you(take her to a nice quite and intimate place when you tell her)
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okay i'm only 13 but i have a lot of problems. this guy asked me out like an hour ago. i kind of know him..but not that well...but he seems really nice and caring and he really likes me a lot. the problem is that i feel weird. i kind of like him, but theres some other people i kind of like too. he seems to care about a lot and really like me. should i give him a chance? i feel really guilty..but should i keep going out with him for awhile and give him a chance?
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i think you should tell him you feel strange and a little insecure when your around him.ask him if he would like to go out sometime as a getting-to-know-you-date.if it turns out you really like him then keep going out,and if you dont ask him if you could just be friends.i think after telling him the truth about how you feel you wont feel so guilty.
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well see i have a boyfriend that i have been going out wit for almost 7 month now and hes on vacation.....but back home in my neighborhood this is this guy and i have always had a thing for him and i dunno bout him but i always get mixed up with him like well almost everytime i see him....so im trying to say that i cheeted on my boyfriend that loves me and would do anything for me. and i dont even kno if i left him if anything would happen to "this guy" bakk home.
please help...need it badly im confused
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it sounds like your boyfriend really loves you.
but if your cheeting on him,you might be the one who feels cheeted,and if you messing with other guys who arent your bf then maybe you dont love him back.when you relize that you really dont let him off easy and also tell the guy that you were cheeting with that you were cheeting.this may sound harsh but who wants a cheeter.theres someone for everyone and true love can wait.
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Me and my friend have been best friends forever! She reccently had a sleepover and when we were there we prank phonecalled a boy who likes me at 2 in the morning, even though he didn't even care that we did. Well her mom found out and got really mad...now I'm afraid to ask my friend to hang out with me over the summer because I'm afraid that my mom will find out and I'm afraid of my friends mom. So what should I do? (link)
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i know your afraid and i would be to,but do you think your friend would even want to hang out with you if your letting her take all the blame?i know its hard but if you would appaulagize to your friends mom and most of all your friend maybe it wouldnt be as scary.and if your afraid of your mom finding out then tell her yourself she wont be as mad if you tell her.if you take control of the situation then the wound will heal fast.
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Ok see i went on a trip and first i asked my best friend to go wth me but there was no more room on the airplane. i kno if she did go we would have a BLAST! but then my other friend's mom talked 2 my dad and my dad invited her and the SOME HOW he found a ticket for her. i didnt kno what to say about that or even what to say to my best friend. she was a little pissed when she found out, but i hate when she is pissed at me ! i love her like a fat kid loves cake we have been though everything 2geter
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i have had a simpular problem...it was also because of my dad.i had invited a friend to the beach and she asked her parents and they said that she could go.my dad asked me if my cusin laura was going and i didnt know i was suppose to ask her!!!my dad had already told her mom about it.i didnt know what to tell my friend.but i found a way,i said i was really sorry and that i really would of liked her there but laura is a closer friend and i had no clue that this would happen.i asked her if she wanted to come to the beach another time with me....i hope that my story helps yours,you could also tell your friend sort of what i said but in different words like...im really sorry and i wanted you to come,its not that i like so-and-so more,i really had nothing to do with it.i hope you can forgive me,maybe next time you can come.
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