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ok my boyfriend lives like 25 minutes away from me and goes to a diff. high school. We started going out about 2 weeks ago. At first he was like "omg i love you" now its just "heyy." he still says i love you and all that..but i just dont get the same excitmentt i used to get from him when we talk. He dosnt text me as much as he did before and everynight he calls and says he'll call me the next day and ends up calling me at like 11 at night. Since he lives a little while from me we cant hang out like any usual ppl would like all the time, and that makes it even harder. But i do try a bunch to get him to go places and see if he can hang out but i dont feel like hes even trying..and no i didnt give anything up easy if thats what ur thinking..all we have done is makeout. I thought he was my perfect guy at first i really did. I thought i might even be in love..but then he started being liek this liek 3 days ago..and i thought i should give him some time..but i dont wanna keep this relationship ggoing if its not gunna happen..sorry its so long..helpp
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seems like you got a problem.. he may have changed in way he said or what he did... but he still loves you .. but since school has started and he has alot of school work and he has more friends.. but you need to talk to him when he calls you and ask him how is school goin and then just out of the blue just say do you love me!? if he says yes..why? then tell him that you think sumthin has changed because he has been so excited about yalls relationship...tell him that you love him and you dont want nuthin bad to happen to yalls relationship!! but just talk to him and everything will come together!! but.. i hope i helped you..x3
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if youv havent done "anything" to easy then maybe this relationship isnt real.im not saying you should do it but you have to keep him interested.maybe all he wanted you for was for the sex....so maybe he really doesnt love you.you shouldnt stay with someone who just wants to get in your pants.ask him if he wants to do something like dinner.wear something short and skimpy.try and act sexy and make him think somethings gonna happen 2nite.if he gets that exceitment back he may just be using you.harsh i knoe,but its the truth(p.s.you may not feel better about tricking him,but at least youll know and be able to move on)
HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
---cassie----
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Not to make excuses for the guy but it is summer and he may be out until 11 every night. It could be the reason for the late calls and drop off in texting you. I think you should ask him why the change.
The distance isn't really that far. It is close enough that he could go to school functions with you and all that. I think you should talk to him before writing the whole thing off. Make your decision after that. :)
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It sounds like he may have found a girl at his school or something like that. I'd recommend confronting him about it. Tell him how you feel about the situation. Watch his reactions. If he doesn't try after that, assume its a lost cause and move on.
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