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There's someone, someone I love. We were so perfect, but if there's something he doesnt like about me, he'll confront me on it after we have broken up. We were "friends" everytime after we broke up, except this time. It's gotten so bad. He cusses me out on everything, and leads me to believe that he wants to get back together. I want him really bad again, and I keep falling for him, really hard too. It's crazy and mixed up. Everything is so weird and my relationship is way too long to explain, but from that what should I do?
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ok..the same thing happened to me w/ a guy..nd he was a total jerk around me nd all my friends..nd i just kept liking him..no matter how hard i tried to stop..but then i went out w/ him..nd it helped me a lot that I broke up w/ him instead of HIM breaking up w/ me..because then people asked me why i had done it..nd it started to remind me of all the things that were wrong w/ him..nd now were really good friends! i hope i helped:-/:-/ ♥
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Obviously you're not perfect for each other from your often 'break up/ make ups.' Perhaps you should consider why you like this guy so much, but this guys sounds like he's just using you. I don't know how old you are, but were you having sex with him? Why he feels the need to confront you after the fact instead of talking things out during the relationship shows his lack of maturity. Besides no one is perfect, perhaps you should find a guy whom likes you for what you are and not what you should be.
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He cusses you and treats you bad yet you still want this guy? I think you need to look around and find someone who respects you a bit more than this guy seems to. :)
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He is having mixed feelings and doesn't know how to deal with them. But that doesn't give him the right to mistreat you. Tell him firmly that if he wants to get back together, he's got to clean up his act and clean out his mouth. Don't put up with that kind of crap.
I'd recommend giving him a month or so, see if he straightens up, then try to find someone who will give you the respect that you truly deserve.
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