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ok....so this summers been pretty fun so far. i have lots of fun and evrything. i mean ive gone to w parties had sleepovers movies did some really crazy things and today i went to a movie with almost 20 people.........im confused a little i guess like, maybe because *he*wasnt there? ive lost him already its been like and a half months since we werent together....i just dont know. maybe i cant have fun without him? when im with him now(ike i had to be this past wekend when i was with another friend) i feel awkwar i have no idea wht to do. i guess im myself but he dosnt accept it. when im not with him i losse my mind. he used to brag about how much he loved me then out of nowhrere it was over. i really ont know what i id it wasnt like a huge mistake liek cheating or ANYTHING like that. i still have no idea to this day what went wrong.i guess i have alot of friends and have fun. all i want to do is have fun this summer.everytime i try to get out of all the mess get over it move on finally & find someone new...it all fires back in my face and doesnt work. i need something to get me happy and to get my life back on track.what do i do?
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As all hurts and wounds do, this will take time to heal. You need to keep a few things in mind. First, it may not have been that anything went wrong, just that he didn't want the relationship anymore. Simple as that. The second thing is that there will always be other boys.
I think you should try to keep yourself from spending much time thinking about romantic relationships in general for a while. I'm referring to both your relationship with this last guy, and potential relationships. Let yourself go be with friends and just have fun. If you ever feel the need to cry, do so, even if you're with your friends then.
Try not to dwell on the pain. Ice-cream, shopping, and TV binge therapy will only help you be depressed.
And lots of hugs. Hugs always help when they're from people who care.
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you just need to forget about him. he isnt worth it if he borke your heart, no girl should ever cry over a guy or let him ruin his life.its nto worth it counting on all the other guys out there. so what im saying is forget about him. go have fun hang out iwht your friends go party. be on the look for someone new. cause theres always someone out there for you and he just wasnt it.
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It can be hard to get over a messy breakup. But don't try too hard to get over it. By purposely trying to ignore it, you'll only think about it more.
Just go and have fun! Do some things that he wouldn't have ever done with you anyway. You know, girl things. Watch chick fliks, or movies with cute guys, go on a shopping marathon, and eat tons of chocolate fondue, things like that.
Stick to your friends. If things get rough, find a shoulder to cry on. Things will get better, it just takes time.
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