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please help ASAP!
14/f/al
This guy just asked me out and he's 18...we kno each other and stuff,but not RELE well...i told him that i wasn't sure, because i have never had a b/f before and going from that to datin a guy thats 4 years older than me is a pretty big jump!
I just got off the phone with him, and i like him, but i KNOW that my parents would kill me and I'm ExTrEmLy nervous and confused! I dont think that i want to date him right now, i just want to go to the movies with him and some other ppl a few times and then make my decision, but im not sure how to tell him. please help! I RATE HIGH!!! love ya!
signed,
*scared*
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just tell hm that you would like to get to know him a little better before you make your decision and that if he doesnt mind well hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox
-kelly
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i think thats ellgal but w/e...i would do the same.take him out on a date not even how bout....just hangout and get to know him a little better,try and she if hes just using you just to get in your pants or if he really likes you.
i would say if he trys to kiss on the first date and is pushing you to go out alone then hes trying to get in your pants
if he suggests a few friends go and walks you to the door and really looks sincere(and doesnt kiss)then you should give him a chance and go on a date(alone).if you decide you really like him and can handle the intencity then keep going out with him.if it wasnt meant to be then time will fix itself.
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Don't you think its a little weird that an 18 year old wants to go out with you? Don't get me wrong, you're probably very attractive and likable, but it just seems a little weird. I would be careful because older guys tend to date younger girls because they know they are less experienced and they can just use them for....well, all kinds of stuff that is wrong on so many levels. Technically its illegal for you two to be doing any kind of...stuff...since hes 18 (an adult) and you're still considered a minor. Just tell him that you don't want a boyfriend at the time, whether its true or not. Then lose all contact with him because he sounds really weird. Try to find someone closer to your age because theres many people out there. If this 18 year old stalks you, tell your parents and teachers! hope I helped!
-Johanna
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Just tell him that you're not ready to have a boyfriend and your parents will kill you if you go out with someone..(especially he is 4 years older than you)Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
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just do whatever u feel like doin and dont tell ur parents so they wont kill u
godamn...im a genius
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umm tell him its the summer and you really dont want a boyfriend right now but ask him if he still wants to be friends and hang out during the summer
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