I really like this guy named Mike. Me and my friend Logan went to the movies with him and he held are hand and kissed both of us. Then after that he gave us his number. I was really attracted to him. He asked out my friend Logan but she said no. I really like him and he knows i do but now he likes some other girl. why would he kiss me and hold hands with me and telling me all this stuff on the phone and now likes another girl?
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Additional info, added Wednesday July 6 2005, 6:09 pm: when we talk on the phone he says all this random stuff and i told him i get butterflys when i talk to him/see him/ hear his name and he thought it was cute. then i called him one day and he was like i cant really talk but we should go to the movies sometime. i got real excited. then he went to the movies with these 3 girls and made out with all of them. now he likes some wicked ugly girl. and its totally not his type. he is kind of a pothead. put i love him so much and i guess he thinks of me as ''okay looking'' but i just don't understand why he would play me like that. were goign to be in different schools this year. and he is 2 years older. but that doesn't mean anything. i mean the girl he likes doesnt even live in this town. HELP. sorry this is long.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LoOkS_LiKe_LoVe answered Monday July 11 2005, 12:06 am: well maybe he felt guilty for liking your friend, so he decided to treat you the same way. guys dont know what to do when it comes to girls. ignore him. find someone who likes you and who you like back. "MIKE" may seem like the guy for you... but if he doesnt like you then there must be someone out there thats a better fit. [ LoOkS_LiKe_LoVe's advice column | Ask LoOkS_LiKe_LoVe A Question ]
MELiixMARiiE answered Saturday July 9 2005, 1:23 pm: Oh yes.. a "pimp". Well then I'd definetley just forget about him, cause obviously he doesn't want a relationship.. he just a big man whore and is looking for a good time... with 3 other girls all at once. Even if you dated him, who knows what he'd be doing behind your back? =/ And if he's a pothead, then I'd kinda of steer clear of that too, because that's bad stuff. Do you know all the stuff that can possibly happen to you? And I'm sure he doesn't even like the ugly girl.. he's probably just using her too. It's just better if you get out of this quicker, and don't stay in like all the other girls are. If you want to talk some more, just IM me! Hope I helped!!
HckyAg89 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 1:13 am: Once again, a typical teenage "pimp," im very sorry that you had to experience that, because no girl should be treated like that, and please, a guy like that in 10-15 years will be bumming money off of you for drugs anyway, so just keep yer head up and look for a guy that is worth your love, and once you have him, keep him, because true love is not something to waste.
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Kate05 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 9:47 pm: Sounds to me you are wastein your time with him i would just forget about him and move on if he made out with all three girls thats just wrong he should focus on one girl like you.You sound like a nice girl and i bet he is missin out on you so just forget him Hope i helped Bye ♥
Peachgirly answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 7:08 pm: My opinion is that this guy is a player and is just looking for a good time and just wants to have fun. He might not really care about you and how you feel about him is like whatever to him. You can try to get with him if you want but don't expect a long serious relationship with this guy. So don't be too into him and eventually this guy might break your heart. Itz obvious that this guy doesn't want a serious relationship. But think of it this way the guy you are meant to be with is somewhere out there but you just haven't met him yet. and yes I agree that guys can be really confusing at times like another language. ♥ Peachgirly [ Peachgirly's advice column | Ask Peachgirly A Question ]
CheerGurl1064 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 5:01 pm: I know this may sound stupid but I think he likes you and is playing hard to get. Sometimes you just have to let things happen the way they are supposed to. Try asking your friend to ask him all the people he likes.
X_Amanda_X answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 4:59 pm: -Confused-
It sounds like this guy is a playa. Or he is just desperate. Obviously, so desperate that he played games with your mind and won. Just talk to him about how hurt you were when you found out that he played you like that. Hopefully he will understand where you are coming from and he will know not to do it anymore.
icey0990 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 3:29 pm: because some people dont want to settle down and be with one person..they want to be with a lot of people and have lots of "fun"
ive been in this situation and i can see you want someone to settle down with..if thats the case forget about him
if your willing to accept the fact that he is going to talk to and hookup with other girls then go for it..but dont get hurt
wow i cant beleive when you went to the movies he was holding hands and kissing both of you..maybe this isnt the right guy for you..wait for someone else to come along unless your truly willing to accept the fact that he doesnt want to be "tied down" to one person [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
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