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Are we more then just friends?
Allright my friendboy Lynn kissed me in a hotel bed, but he has a girlfriend. I kissed him back but I don't know what I should do. So, what should I do?
confused_on_this
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My first peice of advice is that you should probably not assume anything yet. Just, get YOUR feelings straight and then ask him about it. Bring it up casually. If he says it was just a friends thing then everything should jsut be normal again. If he says he has feelings for you, that might be more complicated. Just remember-her DOES already have a gf. Just make sure you're considering that, it doesn't mean you can't be with them. If he breaks up with her for you then I suggest you wait at least a little while before getting with him to make sure he still wants to go through with it all.
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hmm.. i think you should forget about him. if hes cheating on the gf he has now, what if he does the same if you 2 end up together. theres nothing worse than a player in my book. hope i helped:)
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Dear confused_on_this
I think the real question is...what were you doing in the bed with him? What is your heart telling you? It sounds like you have feelings for him. Talk to him. Tell him. Don't expect the nicest response. But be honest. Be honest with yourself and him. Take luck!
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Well, if /you/ like him more then go along with it. But if he shows no love emotions to you later on, I think he didn't know what he was doing. Maybe he's trying to make you jealous.
Hope I helped,
Bunny
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well you should honestly tell him that you should just be friends casue that girl might be pretty upset with you if you do not tell him and she might find out about you to so it might be best if you tell him to wait in case like if him and his girlfriend breaks up then you can go out with him you should not cheat you need to tell him to lay off right now oK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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_tiffany harrison
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ask your guy friend why he kissed you if he had a girl friend. tell him that it isnt right to do that. tell him that you both made a mistake doing that when he had a girl friend. i hope i helped
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this is a danger zone my friend! lynn has a girlfriend.. this is not a good situation! you need to talk to him ..ask him whats going on and if he wants to be with you he needs to break it off with his gf because
1) helping someone cheat is just wrong, immagine if you were the girl..not knowing what was going on
2) its not fair to you! why should you have to keep things hush hush so nothing gets out..if it gets out the girl and her friends would be furrious and would want to possibly beat you up..
3) what makes you think if this guy chose you he wouldnt turn around on you and cheat on you with another girl? he cheated on his gf..so he could cheat again
if this was me i wouldnt take things any further unless he breaks up with his gf...and even if he did break up with her i would still have to think because this guy could do the same thing he did to his gf...cheat
i hope i helped..you have some thinking to do!
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-melissa-
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