hey heyy! this is arielle, i'm here to help you with ANYTHING you need!! or at least i'll try!!! love you guyz!!! xoxo-aRi
Gender: Female
Age: 14
Member Since: June 11, 2005
Answers: 10
Last Update: July 5, 2005
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Hey! Well I have a problem with one of my really close friends. She's one of my best friends, but lately she's been acting different to me. I'll try to talk to her but she just ignores me. I've also heard from some other people that she's been talking bad about me and stuff like that. I just don't want to believe it because I know her so well and i don't think she would do that, but right now I'm confused. Please help!!
Love,
Confused with my friend (link)
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if she is really one of your close friends then and you have been close to her for a LONG time then something had to happen between you two! was there an arguement? and if so then maybe you should try calling this friend or writing an email to appologize. if shes really as close as it sounds like she is she'll accept your appology. also, if shes really your close friend i don't believe she was talking bad about you. people like to start trouble by saying stuff like that and its not even true. Just trying calling her and talking about it or emailing/iming her! i hope everything turns out ok..write again if you need anymore help! :) ari
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ok here's one - what do you do when you like a guy so much that your heart like skips a beat every time you hear his name, you dream about him every night, and youre happier when youre around him even if youre not talkin to him (basically im head over heals) and youre pretty sure that he USE to like you but doesnt anymore PLUS he's like one of your friends and you dont wanna mess that up either. PLUS youre pretty sure that he likes one of your friends now but you dont think she likes him that much. PLEASE TRY TO HELP!!!
love,
tired and hurt (link)
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wow, i hate to say this but i really don't know. i'm going through the same thing! my advice to you, and what i'm doing. is just stay good friends for now, because thats the best way to go..but DON'T act like you've stoped likeing him..let him know your still open, but don't be pushy like omg i still love you! stay the same sweet girl that he "used" to like and will again! he'll come around in time and if the girl that he likes really doesn't like him he'll find that out on his own. stay sweet and always be yourself and he'll come around before you know it. theres no way to MAKE a guy like you..sometimes you just have to wait. i know its hard but thats what you have to do sometimes! good luck! ari
*p.s*never give up on the things that make you smile!!! :)
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hey! I'm not sure if you will be able to help me with this but its worth a try. I have a certian problem that I don't want to say, but I've had this problem with myself sence arround January and no one knows exaept one of my really good friends that has struggled with the same situation as me. It isn't good, but I think its okay in a way. I really need to let my parents know but I think they will get mad at me, either that or they might send me to a hospital to get help from someone, and I dont want help from anyone, I just want my parents to know what I'm going through.
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Not sure what to do (link)
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well i don't know what it is your going through, but if you would need to go to a hospital for help i think you need to stop. the only way i think you could tell your parents with out them trying 2 do something for you is to tell them you ARE stoping and you should. your parents would take you to a hospital or get someone to help you becasue they love you. so you need to stop whatever your doing if it could hurt you. but i think it is a good idea to tell your parents, becasue they could help you stop without getting you help if your willing to. write again if this doesn't help. i'm here 4 u :)ari
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Hey! Okay, you still haven't answered my question about my boyfriend asking me to marry him. I really need some advice so would you please answer to that question? Thanks.
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well i didn't answer it because i really don't kno what to say. if your only, what, 14 thats kind of crazy. so i don't kno what to tell you but its not even legal to get married at 14 soo i don't even kno why thats a question
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What happens if you like a girl but another girls likes you and then you don't know who you would chose cause you like both very much... (link)
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well if you want to play it safe, then go with the grl that u kno likes u. but if you don't really like her then thats kind of like useing her. So if you don't like her, i'd stay with the grl that u like. hehe hope that helps, if it doesn't write again! :) ari
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Hey! What do you do when the guy that you like, likes another girl? Like how could you get him to start liking you?
Love,
confused (link)
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him and this grl won't last forever. just keep being yourself and if its ment to be, it will happen someday. if you really like him..dont give up! theres really no way to MAKE someone like you..u just have to be your self! good luck!! :) ari
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Hey! I need some help... okay, I think I like this guy and I think theres a slight chance he might like me too. How can I find out or be able to tell if he likes me to?
Love,
a person :) (link)
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this one is kind of hard because you don't want the guy to kno your trying to find out. It NEVER works to have one of your friends (grlz) trying to find out. the only way you can find out SaFeLy is if you have a really close guy friend that you can ask, that you know won't tell the guy u like. i hope this helps! :) ari
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Hey! what do you do when your friend is totally in love with a guy and thinks the guy likes her a lot, but the guy realy hates her? do you tell her? how?
Love,
confused on tuesday
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ok, well first of all, your friend probably knows deep down that this guy doesn't like her at this time, and doesn't want to admit it to herself...esspecially anyone else. so i would probably not tell her and let her find out on her own. she might get mad if you try to tell her the guy of her dreams "hates" her. and plus just because he doesn't like her right now, doesnt mean he never will. THERE IS ONE EXCEPTION TO THIS THOUGH...if your friend thinks this guy likes her SOOOO much that she would go as far as asking him out, or something like that, then i would think of a VERY nice way of telling her that he doesn't exactly like her...like saying "i've talked to him, and he doesn't really want a grlfriend right now" or something like that. its easyer for her to hear it form you than him. hope this helps!
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Hey! What do you do when a guy asks you out and you don't like him and you don't want to hurt his feelings?
Love,
Two very cool people! HaHa (link)
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hey, i kno thats hard..i'd just tell them that either you like someone else, thats a good way to say no, and its true, and it doesn't let them down as hard. or say you don't want a boyfriend right now. good luck!
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why are you making an advice column lol jk!!!!!!! love ya!!!! haha so...... yea i just wanted to write in this! lol bye! (link)
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hello kendra...lol i love you too. i thought it would b fun! lol so ya'll ask me stuff!!! lol love you
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