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So I recently got my first boyfriend. He's a great guy in every way, he really enjoys spending time with me and is being very sensitive to what I'm comfortable with since this is my first relationship. The thing is, I just can't understand why he likes me...whatever he sees in me, I definitely don't see it. I'm very good in school, but other than that, I'm just average looking, I'm way shorter than he is, I'm usually very quiet, I tend to be awkward socially and physically, I'm pretty un-exciting (don't like risk-taking), and I'm not exactly a great conversationalist. So, I'm always kind of second-guessing things, and I feel much more insecure than I probably should. I actually kind of asked once why he likes me, and his response was that I'm everything he's looking for in a relationship now - why wouldn't he like me? Somehow, his answer didn't really help. Any advice on how I can relax more, go with the flow, enjoy my amazing first boyfriend and truly accept that he likes me? (link)
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Getting to know why a guy likes you is tough, i know. when you ask them and there answer doesnt help makes it a little harder to believe, but they see things in you that other people do too but you can't its happened to everyone. i recently got my first bf and he told me that i am great to be around. i coulnd believe that he really liked me but when i looked in his eyes when he said it i though it must be true...somehow guys see thing that we cant see, i hope this helped you
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Anybody know how to get a background on Zwinky?! Please help!!!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!
Izzy Uchiha! ^_^ (link)
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Well if you go to "wardrobe" while being in zwinktopia then click on Scences.
And you can pick whatever you want.
~Miss help~
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i put a question on here earlier, but i still don't know what to do. i got this dress the other day at the mall for my cousins wedding:
[Edit: Link removed to keep from stretching everyone's column. Question has been adequately answered.]
but is it ok to wear to a wedding??? cause someone said that black wasn't good to wear at weddings. i'm wearing a black headband, and black heels w/ it. is it ok?????? thanks. (link)
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You should wear it i mean it is a very pretty dress and the color doesnt matter. if you like it wear it. your cousin will think it is a good dress and i am sure other people will wear black and other colors.
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my dog got run over by a car. my mom is on a business trip. should i tell her before she comes home or should i just stage his death? (link)
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Tell your mom that your dog got ran over. she will probubly understnd. and it isn't your fault just tell her right away so it doesn't hurt so much.
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I have a really hard time making friends. But when i do make a friend they only use me. I've lost a lot of confidence because of all of the friends that I've made that used me and because I moved across the country. I have like no friends and people don't like me and everyone seems to think that i'm really wierd adn try to avoid me. What can I do?? (link)
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well there isn't much you can do you can't make them like you and if you change you'll just have fake friends. just be yourself and people will like you. and become your friend. don't worry i've been there. i was myself and now i have friends. you can also make friends online. it can be really good online too.
~*MissHelp*~
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Ok. So i just got six new babie jack russels from my brother's dog. The only problem is I don't know what to name the one we are keeping. It's to young to determine if its a boy or girl so plz give me both! I'lll rate 5's on everyone if you follow the guidline. Here's the Guidline...example names:
Boy names Girl names
Spot Ginger
Bingo Sugar
Grizzly Lady
Flash Lassie
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Thank you so much for all your answers. Plz give at least 2 names for both. I appreciate it greatly!!!! (link)
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if its a girl Ginger or Lady would be a cute name if a boy spot would be nice yet origanal but Grizzly that is a cool name i wouldnt of thought of that good choices but a hard decioin i like your thinking!!!
~*Misshelp*~
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Hello
I am a 15 year old. I'll be 16 soon.
I have been having my period since Nov. 2004.
I've had it every month from the 19th to the 29th
This month i didn't get it.
It's never been this late.
I got all the cramps, and the upset stomachs before it.
It just never happend.
My mom didn't get hers either this month.
This is the 1st time it's happend.
I WILL rate high.
THanks
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i know what you mean some of the times the period dosent come i dont think anyone knows why that same thing hapened last december so im guessing that its natural
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I'm trying to go running or do some sorta of exercise for atleast 30 minutes a day. However, I'm TERRIBLE with commitment. How can I keep myself on track so my plan doesn't just become something I tried and Failed at. (link)
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if you tape a note on your doorknob or door it might help you but i cant garentee that it will work. or you can have someone else remind you
if these advice dosent work i am sorry
~*Misshelp*~
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Okay- so my boyfriend is going to Florida for 14 days and he's flying. He's really scared and I wanted to write him a letter for the airplane ride up there. I don't know what to put in it! Please give me just a few ideas. Thanks --- I rate HIGH! And give feedback if you want it! (link)
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IF YOU LOVE HIM SO MUCH PUT THAT YOU WILL TOTALLY
miss him that if you could rate your love it would be 1-10(10 highest) as long as you give him a pis=cture of you than he will surly miss you back even more ~*MISSHELP*~
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I want to get highlights, but I don't know what would be a good color. I have darkish blonde hair. Thanks! (link)
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well if its a brownish dark hair use light blonde if dark blonde than brown light or dark brown trust me i know what i am talking bout
~*MISSHELP*~
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Ok I have these 2 friends. I know them both really well. We are so close. Well today they played a trick on me. They made up a screenname and pretended they were this girl that I hate with a passion. They talked a bunch of shit. Well it got to the point that when the convo was over that I sent the convo to 2 of my other friends e-mail and told them to read it. Well i go to tell my friend about it and turns out it was her and my other friend..The thing that made me mad and pissed off at them is the fact that they said it was that girl and they know i hate her. They completly don't know what happened between me and her and shouldn't have done it. But my ? is .....What should I do about it? I mean it might of been funny to them but they don't know the whole story and it completly pissed me off...Should I tell them it made me mad and that I am still mad at them....But please tell me what I should do....
Signed ,,,,TrueHope10 (link)
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dear TrueHope10
tell them the joke hurt you and that you dont want it to happen again but dont say your mad at them if you did than they might get mad at you it is all right to say how you feel but you souldnt tell them your anger is still with you
~*MISSHELP*~ tell people bout me
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Does anyone know some good hair products that make your hair wavy? I've tried this one product but I forgot what it was called.. it sort of helped but made my hair all dry & straw feeling. Thanks! (link)
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well have you tried to use diffrent shampoo the one i use is called Garnier Fructis. look for an little rectangle that says sleek and shine it will help your hair feel smooth than just comb it and your hair is all right
~*MISSHELP*~
i am here to help so go to misshelp tell people bout me
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Okay, well i started dating this gurl about 2 weeks ago and she is my 1st gurlfriend. We were at her house and she wanted to make out but i have never done it before and hse has amny times before. I did it anyways but then she kept on wanting to make out and i just went with it but i didnt "feel" anyhthing. I dont know if I just have to get used to it or i just dont like her anymore.... but today i took her to my aunts house for a graduation party for my cousin and i didnt feel comfortable around her AT ALL and i kinda avioded her and didnt talk much to her and i think she notcied i was acting strange but i dont know weather i should break up with her or not..... and now i get these stomach aches when ever i think about us making out and it makes me "sick" kinda and i dont want to hang out with her that much anymore cause i think all she wants to do is make out and I dont want to btu its hard to avoid her much cause we talk on the phone every night(since we were realyl good friends before the dating) and i ahve a lot of calsses with her and now our graduation dance is coming up and i dont really want to dance with her anymore..... what shoudl i do cause i dont want ot break up with her reight before the dance....=( ill feel too bad (link)
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that might be tough but she is trying to rush it in if you didnt feel anything between the kiss srry to say but its OVER i think she might have scared you off but ignoing her wont help ask her if she felt anything during the kiss if not break up but you dont want to hurt her do it easy.
~**MISSHELP**~
tell every one bout me im here to help
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Hey! Im only 13 yr's old..my mom messed up in the past and its taking college classes to get a good job, and my dad has a disease and so he cant work that often. My parents are also divorced...so My family doesnt have to much money. It sux having to much money..so I was wondering, are there ne jobs out there for 13 yr olds ( I am mature ) besides babysitting?
I do rate very high and send feedback..but i rly need help!!!
Thanx!!! (link)
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why dont you do windows or a garage sale to help out your family to make them and your self
~**MISSHELP**~
p.s tell people abou my advice column im doing this to help out too GO TO ~**MISSHELP**~
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Hi, Im 15 female and Ive been wanting to go to Kings Island *a big amustment park in my state its about 45 minutes away from my house* and the person I want to drive with is a 17 year old male and a 15 year old female. The 17 year old male would be driving but my mom wont let me go because she doesnt know him and hasnt seen him drive. Ive already asked if she could meet him and then even drive with him but she wont go for that. Can anyone give me any advice on how to convince her to let me? Thank you. (link)
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tell your mom that if he has his permit and licesne than heck you can go or check if he had 2 or more tickects if he dosent then you have your way. i have seen that before my 16 yr old brother cant drive himself any more because he came home 1 hour after his curfew so keep on trying if my advice dosent work srry
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Hey,
My friend *Chrissy* and has been lying to her parents about her boyfriend *Jack*. See Chrissy is 12 and gonna be 13 in December. So when i was at Chrissy's house she told her cousin that she had a boyfriend and they were making out. Chrissy trusted her cousin so she didnt feel like her cousin was gonna tell. Of course her cousin told her parents and her parents had a fit, not because she was seeing someone, but because she's been making out with Jack. So they told her to stop kissing or she cant go out with Jack. I just recently talked to Chrissy and she said that she's gonna complain to her shrink about it cause kissing is a normal thing in life, it's just her parents think she's too young to date. She's fed up on being called little and young so she has been lying to her parents and making out with Jack all she wants. Should i stop Chrissy? or should i encourage Chrissy to tell her shrink to tell her parents that she needs to learn her own lessons in life? But the hard part is Chrissy wont listen if people tell her no in this situation cause she REALLY loves Jack- nothing could keep them apart. What should i do for Chrissy?! help!!
*Jill* (link)
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Dear *Jill*
i know you must fell awkward that Chrissy is lying just talk to her and tell her thatwhat her parents say might be hard to understand but thats the way it should go but if she really loves him she would step back and think about what his parents might say to him and her it might be tough but its worth her keeping her love or not having one at all
~**MISSHELP**~
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Hi my mom used to have cancer and got surgery and now she can't play anymore what should i do
love adrienne (link)
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dear Adrienne,
just think what your mom puts up with its must be really hard for her to move just take a deep beath and think my mom is really hurting so read or play games on the computer or outside by yourself
from: ~**MISSHELP**~
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Ok.. so.. I have photoMAX SE on my computer.. i also have them saved in the my documents thingy ma bob.. how can i get my pic on my advicenators thing? thnx in advance! ` (link)
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just click the right side of the mouse click copy then go to where you want to put click right again and paste ~**MISSHELP**~
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i asked a question before about my hair and so i got it cut. the lady cut it too short! i have dark brown hair- shoulder length- layered. what should i do with it? (link)
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just put in a pony or bun a think it matters only 1% what everyone else thinks and 99.9% what you think about it if you dont like the way you put your hair its not you on the outside. ~**MISSHELP**~
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there is this boy i like and i asked him out but he hasnt awnsered what do i do signed, LOVE LESS (link)
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dear, LOVE LESS,
all you have to do is ask him 1 more time if he dosent awnser just send him a note like 2 weeks later but dont send him too many or he'll be scared off.love, misshelp
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