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Okay, well i started dating this gurl about 2 weeks ago and she is my 1st gurlfriend. We were at her house and she wanted to make out but i have never done it before and hse has amny times before. I did it anyways but then she kept on wanting to make out and i just went with it but i didnt "feel" anyhthing. I dont know if I just have to get used to it or i just dont like her anymore.... but today i took her to my aunts house for a graduation party for my cousin and i didnt feel comfortable around her AT ALL and i kinda avioded her and didnt talk much to her and i think she notcied i was acting strange but i dont know weather i should break up with her or not..... and now i get these stomach aches when ever i think about us making out and it makes me "sick" kinda and i dont want to hang out with her that much anymore cause i think all she wants to do is make out and I dont want to btu its hard to avoid her much cause we talk on the phone every night(since we were realyl good friends before the dating) and i ahve a lot of calsses with her and now our graduation dance is coming up and i dont really want to dance with her anymore..... what shoudl i do cause i dont want ot break up with her reight before the dance....=( ill feel too bad
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It seems like you don't like her anymore
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well your girlfriend sounds like a makeout freak..lol..im kidding..well your proably not use to so much kising.. and you shouild either tell her to cool it with the kissing or yall are over...a make out here and then is fine..and those stomaaches are weird..maybe you just dont like her anymore..maybe you put her as a pig in your head..and the whole dance situation..wow...maybe you shouild break up with her and go to the dance with her asd friends...because if you guys were friends you wont halft to kiss..unless of course she lets you make a move on her..well if you break up with her now shes going to think that you broke up with her just to go to the dance with some one else..and if you are then dont tell her that..well this realation ship proably ruined yalls friend ship and thats one reason why you never go out with your good friends..but you shouild just go to the dance with her had a friend.. and your puting it in your head thats its nasty to kiss her..so take it out..and see her as your girlfriend ok..
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tell her that there is more things in a relationship than making out. tell her all the fun things you could do.
hope i helped luv nicki xxxxx ♥
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Mabey yo are feeling like that because you don't really know the girl as good as you thought; you should get to know her and then it would mabey get a little bit easier for you and you won't feel as bad. you should talk about it with her.
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Never do anything you don't want to do. You just aren't ready for all that making out yet. You haven't been dating all that long either and you really should get to know someone a little better first.
I do think that you should break up with her as soon as possible. Don't wait until after the dance. If you go to the dance with her you will be uncomfortable all night and have a really miserable time. She will too. I think you can remain friends with her if you just be honest with her. Tell her you aren't comfortable dating her because you think of her as just a friend. :)
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Hello there,
If all she wants to do is make out with you, and you aren't ready for that. You need to tell her the truth. She will probably freak out, but it is better to get it over with.
They say boys force girls into things they don't want to do. Well that may be true it works the other way to.
You deserve to go to the dance was somebody you really want to be with, and so does she.
You won't be doing either one of you a favor by pretending.
There is no shame in not wanting to make out with her. You are not ready for it, and it is all she wants from you.
You will be okay once this is all over, it is just a little scary right now.
Once upon a time I saw this girl was really into me, and when she took me home to meet her mother both her mother and her wanted to have sex with me. I should mention that this was my first date with her. :-(
They picked the wrong boy, that's for sure, as I was determined to be a virgin on my wedding night.
You will be okay man just get it over with as soon as possible.
DangerNerd.
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that might be tough but she is trying to rush it in if you didnt feel anything between the kiss srry to say but its OVER i think she might have scared you off but ignoing her wont help ask her if she felt anything during the kiss if not break up but you dont want to hurt her do it easy.
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O0h wow!! L0L! That sucks tho!! Hmm.. Kinda seems that you dont really have strong feelings for her at all and it doesnt sound like you even like her anymore. I mean when you get your first kiss you have to feel something but since you havent she really isnt your type or something... I think that you should give it a little bit more time and see if your feelings will change. Dont dump her before the dance because she would be crushed. Trust me.. and you would end up being the bad guy. You need to comfort her and tell her that you are'nt all about making out and if she really likes you she will defenetlly understand. Thats just all you need to do. Good luck!!!! ♥
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Tell her that you dont want to be her boyfriend anymore but you still want to go to the dance under some circumstances... You and her can dance with each other but only if yall want to. Hope this helps.
CrzyLatinaChc
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