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ok see my names caitlin and i go to holcomb bridge middle....c theres my friend and her names alyssa hon and shes in new jersey right now and i miss her a lot and she has my sweatshirt and i dont get to talk ot her much....i miss her tons and wish shed call me more....i love this alyssa girl shes amazing what should i do?
hahhaha,
Well, Caitlin. I think you should let Alyssa keep your sweatshirt, if you really love her.
HHAAHA.
Just kidding.
But, you should let me keep your sweatshirt.
I love you too and I miss you.
I'm back now so we need to hang out.
But wait, oh, you're not home. =(
Call me when you get home.
Okay.Well me and this dude were dating for 10 months and broke up a month ago.i was crushed.but he seemed all kool with him.it looked like he wasnt hurt or missing me at all.Well i miss him tons and so i decided he needed to know how i felt bout him.so i told him.well he would act like he didnt feel the same way or he would be all i love you and stuff.But then he decided to tell me that other girls are hot and stuff like that.And yes it does make me Jealous.but i wanna know if he really likes me or not.What should i do?
Okay. Well, since all guys think other girls are hot, even when they are commited, there are just those who say it out loud and then there are those who are silent about it. Becuase he is telling you that he thinks other girls are hot it's because he wants to make you jealous.
Also if he didnt care about how you felt or what you thought he wouldnt worry about trying to make you jealous, he would just not talk to you. It's probably just that his heart is broken so he's trying to mend it by talking and thinking about other girls, telling you about the "hot" ones, and trying to make you feel bad because he knows he lost you.
I don't know if he still likes you but if he does he probably is scared to admit it to himself and you becuase he probably dosent want to get hurt again like how he got hurt before.
I really like this guy, John. I talk to him all the time on the phone but I don't get to see him that often because he lives 30 minutes away. Well he knows that I like him, and he tells me that he likes me too, but he constantly is telling me about all these girls that he hooks up with. He knows it gets me jealous because i've told him but he continues to do it. How can I stop being so jealous???? I really want him to like me, I feel like i'm being played ... Please help!
Okay. Well, although it could be true ALL these girls probably don't exist, well some of them maybe but this guy is probably just doing it to get you jealous. He wont stop becuase lets face it guys are assholes and they are going to piss you off. He probably likes you too so you should give him a taste of his own medicine. Next time you talk to him talk about guys that you like or hooked up with or whatever. Probably one of the worst things you could do would be to tell this guy that it does get you jealous it's only going to make him do it more. Act like you don't care and are actually interested in these girls. He wont know whats going on.
Two can play this game. So mine as well join him.
alright well yesterday i was at my baby cousins birthday party yesterday and me and my older cousin whos my age were sitting there talking to my mom and my aunt jackie, and my aunt comes storming out of the house and my moms like, who are you looking for? and shes like, YOUR FUCKING HUSBAND and she like screamed it and ran over and started yelling at him. so me and my cousin who were on the deck go over and jump in the pool and go over to listen to whats going on. well my aunt gets pissed off and walks away so me and my cousin go over to my dad. so hes telling us whats going on and this is what happened::
well my aunt whos daughter the party was
for was crying because her daughters
father was being an asshole and saying
shit, so my other aunt goes into the
house shooting her mouth off and my dads
name comes up.. so my dad goes in and
tells her to stop bringing him into
everything and that his name shouldnt
have been brought up at all.. so he went
and sat with my cousin who i was hanging
out with's brother, and thats when my
aunt came out freaking out on him.
now, this pissed me off. ALOT. because my dad does nothing but help them and they treat him like shit.. and well, my dad had every right to do what he did didnt he? and i have every right to be mad dont i?
Woah.
Drama, Drama, Drama. This has happened on my mom's side of the family before. Not exactly like this but in the same sort of manner.
First off, your dad had EVERY SINGLE right to do what he did. Your father should not have been brought into the argument at all. I'm amazed a grown women did that becuase normally thats what kids do.
Second you do have EVERY SINGLE right to be pissed too. You are just looking out for your dad and sticking up for him. But what happened is between your dad and your aunt and all that so i don't think it would be a good idea to get into with them also. It will just cause more drama than their already is.
I just got new liquid eye liner. I thought it would be easier than the other stuff, but it isn't. When I put it on it looks weird and I can normally fix it but it still doesn't look right. Are there any tips I can use to make this stuff not look so gross? I'm pretty good with make-up, but when it comes to this stuff, I can't get it to look right.
If you are having trouble using the liquid eyeliner.(I personally don't like the liquid as much). Then you should switch over to using a soft tip pencil. It's alot easier to control where the eyeliner goes and if you put it on right and have a soft tip then it dosen't even hurt when you put it on.
you are really pretty and are great at giving advice!
Oh my gosh. Thank you so much.
I used to be a really bad kid, like Id sneak out with guys and get drunk and do sexual things. Around New Years Eve (04) I got caught from this and had to go through a drug class. Then in Febuary (05) I got drunk with some guys and got rapped. People have been saying stuff about me because of this. My friends boyfriends tell them not to hang out with me because "I attract niggers, drugs, and alcohol." And my friends parents will say "if you keep hanging out with her youre going to get rapped by black guys." Im not a bad kid anymore, I have moved on from this and do not do drugs or sneak out with guys anymore. I have started being nicer to my mom and decided not to keep anything from her *so everyday I tell her everything that happens even stuff I do with guys.* Is there anyway I can make people stop saying this and realize I am not the same person I was?
Well,
I'm truly sorry about all that has happened to you and I'm really glad you have decided to change your ways. I think that maybe since it hasn't been too long that everyone dosen't fully believe that you have changed. It will take time and adventually people will come around and see that you have changed for the better. With your friends parents, for me i know that once you lose my trust its gone forever, your friends parents are just looking out for their kids. They don't want the same thing that happened to you to happen to them. They are just being protective. You could try going over to your friends house and talking with their parents or doing something that makes their parents see you have changed.
Adventually it will all work out.
Good Luck.
to the ladies, what are some ways in which a guy can approach you and just start a conversation or something without it bein really weird. in the movies for example. hwo could a guy best present himself and possible ask for a sn or phonenumber.
for the guys: same question except what are some stuff that yall have tried
I say,
Get some balls and just walk up to the girl you want to talk to ,and be confident, and just say "Hey whats up?" or something. If you don't want to do that then just think of something not as forward like bumping into her "accidently" or something and then just introducing yourself.
I have a relative that is an indian, he wants me to stop by his place sometime and play guitar with him, but as of late hes been telling a lot of people that he is getting into conversing with spirits and other things like that. He has been telling my father a story that his son has been having images of his dead grandfather appearing in his dreams. And even though hes never seen his grandfather, he can now describe him perfectly. Hes very upfront about everything, and gets offended considerably easy when you talk about indians.
I love to play my guitar, and hes a phanomenal guitar player, I always love to play with other people. But I am also a very enthousiastic racist, and when people set themselves up for me to make a nice little mockery of them, its almost impossible for me to resist. Im afraid hes going to sacrafice me or something, however, i'd like to go and play some guitar.
Im aware I could probably have several Mormons beat the spirituality out of him, but im not so sure I want to go the ruthless, violent route.
I just want to play some music and leave, if we talk thats fine, I just don't want to hear about phantom spirits smoking tobacco in the spiritual shed with him one night last week.
Any suggestions as to how I should handle this situation?
Okay,
Just tell your relative that you don't want to hear about "phantom spirits smoking tobacco in the spiritual shed with him one night last week". You don't have to go all out and tell him that you think it's stupid and you don't agree with it. That would upset him. Just tell him that it bothers you and you would prefer not to talk about that. Then you can just go there and play guitar. Just don't upset him and dissrespect him by telling him you think the things he believes in are false and dumb.
Ok, so you're familiar with the concept, there's this guy i really like and well we talk sometimes but mostly he teases me and I'm pretty sure they're just jokes, he can be pretty sweet too. Recently, I found out we both have the same birthday, which is this summer, and we're both going to the same water slides, so we'll probably see eachother there. I also have his address and phone number. I'm too shy to tell him that I like him during the school year, but I think writing would work. If so, what should I write? I don't want it to be too corny. And should I write to him or will he be creeped out because he didnt give me his address? Is it a bad idea to call him and say happy birthday? Just so he knows I'm thinking of him?
Well, from what i read it sounds like you guys flirt majorly.
You can call him and say Happy Birthday and get him a little gift and do little things for him just so he knows you're thinking of him. Or you can just write him a letter thats just says you know something like. "I really like you." or something like that. If you are too scared and don't want to do the "I really like you" letter than just do little things so he knows you are thinking about him.
Like, i used to like this guy and i was scared to tell him so i would just do little things for him just so he knew that i cared and that i was thinking of him. Like one time he wasn't feeling too well. He was depressed and all so i made him a mix cd and i printed off all these funny pictures wrote him a little letter put it in an envelope(with a candy cane)((it was near christmas)) and put it in his mailbox.
Just think of something cute and original and he might get the clue and ask you out or you might find the courage to ask him out yourself or tell him that you like him.
Good Luck.
A guy I've liked for a very long time and me became friends this year, and we both found out we had feelings for each other for a while, and now we're going out. I'm happy, but... now I'm panicking. I realized I don't know much about him. I don't know what he likes to do and I don't know how to get him out of the house so we see each other out of school.
And now we won't really see each other out of school, because he graduated. I was invited to his graduation, and it was fun and I was very happy... but I miss him already and want to figure out how to plan an outing with him! What is something creative and fun and inexpensive that I can try and convince him to do with me?
We're both pretty shy too, and I really want this relationship to last for a while! So if anyone has any advice, please help because I'm really nervous -- I don't have good luck with guys and this is the one guy I know for a fact will treat me right. Everyone's really happy and has made the comment of he will treat me right...
Alrighty.
If you love somebody you should deff. get to know them better, find out what he likes to do and go from there. If he likes dressing up and going out go to dinner and a movie then go out to dinner and a movie. If he likes the outdoors then go camping for a weekend or something. Just do something you both like and enjoy. Also, i find a really good way to get to know people is to play Turth. Not truth or dare just truth.(You could do truth or dare though) With Truth you just take turns asking serious questions that you really want to know about eachother, and each of you have to answer the questions honestly.
It's a great way to get to know someone.
Good luck.
okay well i like this girl for a while and she liked me and we started going out like 2 weeks ago...wednesday we made out like 4 times in a hour and i never did that before in my life but she has....now after i did it i dont really feel the same way for her..like i dont know if i still like her..i just feel different about her and we have been best friends before we went out so i dont if i should break up with her but i really dont knnow if i like her anymore and tomorrow she is supossed to come to a family thing and i kinda feel unconfortible around her now and we already decided that if we break up we will still be friends but i dont know...please help please!
If you feel uncomfortable around somebody you should NOT be with them, if it's not meant to be then it's not meant to be, and if you really truly care about each other you'll be able to just be friends.
Hi, Im 15 female and Ive been wanting to go to Kings Island *a big amustment park in my state its about 45 minutes away from my house* and the person I want to drive with is a 17 year old male and a 15 year old female. The 17 year old male would be driving but my mom wont let me go because she doesnt know him and hasnt seen him drive. Ive already asked if she could meet him and then even drive with him but she wont go for that. Can anyone give me any advice on how to convince her to let me? Thank you.
Convince her that he's a good guy and she can talk to his parents and when he picks her up she can meet him so she doesn't have to go out of her way to see him drive or anything.
Also, he must be a pretty good driver beacuse he got his lisence.
Is there somethin special that guys like about a girls ears? My boyfriend is always kissin on my ears and plays with my earings with his tongue. What is so fascinating?
It just sounds like he does it to be Kinky.
If you dont like it then just tell him to pick a differnt place and to stop it with the ears.
My spouse and I have been trying to get pregent for about a year now and we have not been able to. Should we keep trying or should we se a speacilist? I was molested when I was a child could have something happen then to cause me not to be able to have children?
You should go see the speacilist becuase all this time could be going to waste if there is something seriously wrong.
Good Luck with everything.
hey, today my crush dropped a major hint for me to give him my phone number, but i didnt...its cause my parents dont know about him, and i feel really uncomfortable talking to them about guys unless im going out with them and want to go to the movies or something...what should i do? i really like this guy and i want him to call me, but i dont want my parents to know!! please help!!! ill rate...
If you have a cellphone give him that number, Or you can give him your friends number and tell him to call when your at your friends house, or he could call you friend and the your friend can 3 call you. That way you can talk to him and your parents will think that you are talking to your friend.
Well my friend still thinks shes pregnet but hasnt had sex!! Shes geting some symtoms of pregnety!! And if you were pregnet would you be able to suck your stomic in??? And does your bellly button stick out or in like normal???
Just wanted to say.
You can get pregnant without having sex. If you are like fooling around with a guy and sperm gets on his hand or whatever/wherever and then he fingers you and the sperm gets into your vagina you can get pregnant.
Have your friend take a pregnancy test.
how do you use it and what's better a pencil or liquid...?
I have tried a pencil but the tip is rough and you have to push too hard for it to show up at all so I'm confued.
Thanx!
Artiste
They both work great, for me at least.
Just use which ever you like best. I use pencil, but i use the soft tip kind, the liquid makes my eyes all watery and that shit. But if the pencil hurts you then use the liquid.
All right.. I'm 17 and a girl
So there's this boy.. we've been hangin out a lot lately and it's been a lot of fun like he comes over late at night sometimes and we just hang out in my backyard and talk.. I think I might like him..but I just got in trouble and I'm not sure how long I'm gonna be grounded for or anything..but I still wanna see him..and I don't want him to like someone else.. what do I do?
Talk to him.
Tell him you like him and about how you are grounded but you still want to see him and you don't want him to like anyone else. You guys can probably sneak out together still and hang out even why you are in trouble. Just do it while your parents are sleeping.
ok it s then end of the school i have one week left of school. my used to be best friend has been acting like a bitch to me and my other best frien. she has been getting into our bussiness trying to find out stuff about us without asking US about it.. well he started all these rumors all aorund the school that my best friend two timed her ex boyfriend which wasnt even try... so me and my best friend went off on her and for abouta month now we havent been talking but she talks shit about me right in front of me to the other people. i was 3 way with my other friend an i heared her talking about me so i put a messed up picture on a website of her and now she has the nerve to go and tell a teacher. she even told the teacher about my sn which is supposed to be bad beacause it has the words "sexy" in it but anyways my question is how can i make things OK with her and not be her friend. she really isnt a good friend but if i dont make things OK with her i will get into big trouble and the teacher will have a parent teacher conferance. sorry this is long but i need some help!
She sounds like a bitch.
You shouldnt be her friend.
But just call it truths. Tell her you don't want to be friends with her but you dont want to be enemies either. That way you wont have to be her friend and you wont have to worry about getting into trouble or anything.