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New boyfriend
A guy I've liked for a very long time and me became friends this year, and we both found out we had feelings for each other for a while, and now we're going out. I'm happy, but... now I'm panicking. I realized I don't know much about him. I don't know what he likes to do and I don't know how to get him out of the house so we see each other out of school.
And now we won't really see each other out of school, because he graduated. I was invited to his graduation, and it was fun and I was very happy... but I miss him already and want to figure out how to plan an outing with him! What is something creative and fun and inexpensive that I can try and convince him to do with me?
We're both pretty shy too, and I really want this relationship to last for a while! So if anyone has any advice, please help because I'm really nervous -- I don't have good luck with guys and this is the one guy I know for a fact will treat me right. Everyone's really happy and has made the comment of he will treat me right...
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Hmm, well, if he's shy too you'll have to make the first move. Try having a picnic & skating at the park, going to a kiddie leauge base-ball game, or going to the zoo.
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Alrighty.
If you love somebody you should deff. get to know them better, find out what he likes to do and go from there. If he likes dressing up and going out go to dinner and a movie then go out to dinner and a movie. If he likes the outdoors then go camping for a weekend or something. Just do something you both like and enjoy. Also, i find a really good way to get to know people is to play Turth. Not truth or dare just truth.(You could do truth or dare though) With Truth you just take turns asking serious questions that you really want to know about eachother, and each of you have to answer the questions honestly.
It's a great way to get to know someone.
Good luck.
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i know shy types... i was one of them...not anymore though... i have big mouth and all that now lol
well i had same problem with a guy who was really shy and stuff... but you gotta have faith in ya... ask him question like you are really interested...(which you will be because you like him right?)
say like hey i think i really like you so i would like to get to know ya better. and start asking him question...
and say part of your stories too...
i mean i even made this boy open up to me when he is known as one of quietest boy around...
and he didnt even like me that much... i had crush on him and we were only very close acquaintences...even though he said i was his friend...
well i even got him to tell me what he wore on halloween when he was 4 (he wore batman lol cute)
anyways... ask him like, so how was your day?
and he will say the usual fine...You?
and you will say, fine thanks...
and tell him that you like to get to know him better and all that and tell him little bit about your self and ask him so whats your favorite band???
and if you really dont know what to talk about...
ask me ...on advice thing..
because i know exactly what to talk about
with different "cliques"
from prep to goths...to punks...to geeks...
so let me know how it went~
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Ask him to the movies then maybe take a walk after. you can talk about each other on your walk and learn a lot more about each other. tho your both shy you should call each other that way you can learn about each other too.
~Jenni~
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