Ok, so you're familiar with the concept, there's this guy i really like and well we talk sometimes but mostly he teases me and I'm pretty sure they're just jokes, he can be pretty sweet too. Recently, I found out we both have the same birthday, which is this summer, and we're both going to the same water slides, so we'll probably see eachother there. I also have his address and phone number. I'm too shy to tell him that I like him during the school year, but I think writing would work. If so, what should I write? I don't want it to be too corny. And should I write to him or will he be creeped out because he didnt give me his address? Is it a bad idea to call him and say happy birthday? Just so he knows I'm thinking of him?
Additional info, added Friday June 10 2005, 10:25 pm:
--- He doesn't have an email, I've already asked him for it, and he said 'if i did i wouldn't talk to you' and i asked 'why not?' and he said 'im only joking'. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MADAME_H0LLYWO0D answered Sunday June 12 2005, 2:43 am: Well, from what i read it sounds like you guys flirt majorly.
You can call him and say Happy Birthday and get him a little gift and do little things for him just so he knows you're thinking of him. Or you can just write him a letter thats just says you know something like. "I really like you." or something like that. If you are too scared and don't want to do the "I really like you" letter than just do little things so he knows you are thinking about him.
Like, i used to like this guy and i was scared to tell him so i would just do little things for him just so he knew that i cared and that i was thinking of him. Like one time he wasn't feeling too well. He was depressed and all so i made him a mix cd and i printed off all these funny pictures wrote him a little letter put it in an envelope(with a candy cane)((it was near christmas)) and put it in his mailbox.
Just think of something cute and original and he might get the clue and ask you out or you might find the courage to ask him out yourself or tell him that you like him.
Good Luck.
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IveGotPinkJazzShoes answered Saturday June 11 2005, 7:42 am: yuo should definately ring him to say happy birthday! it will flatter his ego soooooooooo much to know that you were thinking about him. and i dint think that writingto him would be a bad i deas as such because everybody likes to get mail. it make you fell special! lol! well anyway just expolain that you wanted to tell him something so you thought you'd write to him and so then that explain why you have his address. dont think about ehat your hoing to write too much or you'll go round in circles and wont get anywhere. if you plan it too much it wont sound genuine and will sound corny. just write whatevers in your head. do it as though you were talking to him but dont say something too full on like i love you or anything but just explain how you feel.
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xooLEMONADEoxx13 answered Friday June 10 2005, 9:47 pm: saying happy birthday would be tha hottest thing to do! it's lyke breaking the ice
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