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My name is Katie and I'm from Texas! I can usually give advice as soon as I get it! I enjoy ratings too!
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Is there a possible way to shave 'down there' without irritating it? mines all irritated right now and is there a way to get it un-irritated, and then keep it un-irritated?

thank youu (link)
Just put deoderant on it! Just liek your armpits!
Hope I helped!


ok, i think two of my best friends are gay together! they're both girls, just so ya know. wel anyways, we were at a slumber party and i walked in on them eating each other out! they didn't see me though. i almost threw up! should i say something to them or not? please help! (link)
Ok...well I think you should mention something to them about it. I mean ask them and then be like Omg Ihate you freak and get away from me!


when i make out with my boyfriend kolby, he sticks his tongue all the way down my throat. it's really gross, and it chokes me. should i get used to it? or should i tell him to stop? (link)
Ok...well first of all, I had the same problem, and I guess you have to get used to it. Lol Jk I didn't have the same problem bc hes a really good kisser! But you prolly don't have much experience if your asking me this question!


when i poop... it really hurts my butt! and sometimes i bleed for hours! what could be wrong? (link)
I'm sorry I don't know what could be wrong! I say tell your mom and ask her to take you to the doctor!


What are some good acne-removal treatments that work??? Please help me because I have acne all over my nose really bad! I will rate well to anyone who tells me a working-treatment. Please don't make it prescription treatment, as I can't get that yet. (link)
I recomend proactive, you can find at...
www.proactiv.com!

I know that doesn't sound like the best thing in the world to use, but I used it and still do and it has great turnouts!!! Hope I helped!


But the problem is I don't know how to ask for it. My dad is so completely clueless when it comes to me & my mother is not around. I've told him I'm depressed & that I think about killing myself all the time. But how do I straight out tell him I want to get help before I actually try to kill myself? (link)
Ok...I think you should tell a close family member, or an adult you trust. I know that sounds corny, but if your dad doesn't pay allthat much attention to you, then why bother with him? I would even go to a counsiler , if you really feel like you should.


ok, i'm dating a boy that's 15 and i'm 13. i asked my parents repetedly if they minded that he was older and they said no and that they trust me and him. well i don't think they do bc all my other friend are allowed to stay out till 11 or later and i have to be home before dark! i totally can't stand it anymore! me and my mom get in fights all the time and i can't handle it! i wish she'd just let me be a normal teen like everybody else! and my boyfriend is totally understanding too. so that is a plus! but what can i do to let my mom know that she can trust me to hang out down the street at my best friend's house after dark? and i mean it's not like her parents aren't there. they actually hang out with us. they're pretty kool. but i really need help with this! (link)
Ok...I know this sounds corny, but I think you should sit down and have a 'chat' with your mom. Ask her again,look her in the eye and say..." Do you care that he is older than me?" Tell them how you feel and then ask them to tell you how they feel! I know that you prolly don't want to talk to your parents like this...but the better relationship you have with your parents, the better off you are!


my parents are way overprotective. like my friends are allowed to stay out til 11 or later, and i have to be back before dark! what can i do? (link)
Ok...I know you can't beleive that your parents won't let you stay out, but I think that you should talk to them, ask them why they won't give you freedom and then figure out a way to solve it! Keep me updated!


(im 15/f)ok so im starting a band. and 2 of them are guys, 19. And one of them started comming earlyer last week... and he sang all these love songs.. it kinda creeped me out.. and then when the other guy showed up he was all normal again. But then when he was trying to show my something on the drums he put his hands over mine while holding the sticks. (like they do in movies you know? when a guy likes a girl..) it felt ocward too.. but hes also been like really nice to my parents too.. like trying to impress them. Its really freaking me out and i dont know if i even want to be in the band with them anymore.. and we just go together too.

sorry its so long.. thank you to those who help though :D i really appreciate it (link)
Since you don't like him, tell him to quit coming so early to practice. Tell you parents ( mom ) how you feel and what is going on, not to freak you out or anything, but if he keeps acting like this he could try to do sumthin even more drastic. So be careful and let someone, a friend or parent,know what's going on and keep them updated!


hey, today my crush dropped a major hint for me to give him my phone number, but i didnt...its cause my parents dont know about him, and i feel really uncomfortable talking to them about guys unless im going out with them and want to go to the movies or something...what should i do? i really like this guy and i want him to call me, but i dont want my parents to know!! please help!!! ill rate... (link)
Ok..if your parents don't know about him, then I think you should tell them! You could easily have a better relationship with both your parents and crush if they know. But if your not going to tell you parents, then just tell him good times to call...like when your parents aren't home or when they are alseep or sumthin!


hey i was thinkin of after my shower putting gel in my wet hair and scrunching it. do i need to blow dry my hair as/after i do this? can i just let it air dry? thanks (link)
Ok...you don't have to blow dry your hair, and yes you can put gell in it and scrunch it! I've had perm before so it really doesn't matter what you do because it will look just fine in the morning or whenever.


ok...my best guy friend's name is ryan. his and my friends are/were like determined to get us two to hook up. i thought i could do it since we were already close and everything...but when i actually got into the situation, neither of us could like...bring ourselves to do it.
my question is: have you ever been in a similar situation? and if so, what did you do? and what happened as a result.
thanx in advance. (link)
Ok...NO i HAVEN'T EVER BEEN IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS, BUT MY FRIEND HAS. If you don't feel comfortable and neither does he, then don't do it. wait tuntil you are both comfortable enough to share you feelings!




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