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is he hitting on me?
(im 15/f)ok so im starting a band. and 2 of them are guys, 19. And one of them started comming earlyer last week... and he sang all these love songs.. it kinda creeped me out.. and then when the other guy showed up he was all normal again. But then when he was trying to show my something on the drums he put his hands over mine while holding the sticks. (like they do in movies you know? when a guy likes a girl..) it felt ocward too.. but hes also been like really nice to my parents too.. like trying to impress them. Its really freaking me out and i dont know if i even want to be in the band with them anymore.. and we just go together too.
sorry its so long.. thank you to those who help though :D i really appreciate it
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Maybe he's just being friendly...you're only 15 to his 19. Maybe he's being brotherly. BUT, if you feel it is something more then go with your feeling. Keep your distance because he is way to old for you. Since you don't like him anyway that shouldn't be a problem, just avoid being alone with him whenever possible. Couldn't hurt to discuss it with mom either if you'd be comfortable with that. :)
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Well sit him down and say to him " so and so, lately i have been getting vibes from you. Like when you put your hands on mine when playing the drums and showing up and playing loves songs. If you like me that way, thats GREAT, but you see i would rather us just be friends. your a great guy but i think theres someone so much better for you then me." you know something like that
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K. So you don't like him.
Tell him honestly because you don't want him to join your band, and then if you don't return his feelings, he will probably be all awkard with you and want to LEAVE your band.
Just tell him straight out that you don't want a "relationship" to interfere with music.
If he is any protector of music, he will completely understand!! :)
GOODLUCK LOVELY!
Let me know how everything works out! :)
If you have any more questions or need follow up advice, please by all means feel free to ask me.
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Since you don't like him, tell him to quit coming so early to practice. Tell you parents ( mom ) how you feel and what is going on, not to freak you out or anything, but if he keeps acting like this he could try to do sumthin even more drastic. So be careful and let someone, a friend or parent,know what's going on and keep them updated!
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so i kinda dont understand your question. do you or do you not like this guy? you dont like him then try talking to him and tell him you dont appercaite him hittin on you like that.tell him you onyl want to be his friend and nothing else. it seems like this guy really likes you. but anyways hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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