hey, today my crush dropped a major hint for me to give him my phone number, but i didnt...its cause my parents dont know about him, and i feel really uncomfortable talking to them about guys unless im going out with them and want to go to the movies or something...what should i do? i really like this guy and i want him to call me, but i dont want my parents to know!! please help!!! ill rate...
LiLReBeL6907 answered Sunday June 12 2005, 2:39 am: I've been there and done that so my solution was to pay for my own phone line, that way my parents didn't know who I talked to and couldn't learn about any guys I talked to. But I don't think you can convince your parents to install a seperate phone line for you. So you have two other solutions. You can give him your cell number (if you don't have a cell then if you have enough money buy a $40 one that has a pay-as-you-go plan) or just get his number and call him. Explain to him about your parents and the whole calling problem and then ask if you can call him instead that way you two can still talk on the phone. I hope this has helped. Good Luck! ~Sherah [ LiLReBeL6907's advice column | Ask LiLReBeL6907 A Question ]
MADAME_H0LLYWO0D answered Sunday June 12 2005, 1:48 am: If you have a cellphone give him that number, Or you can give him your friends number and tell him to call when your at your friends house, or he could call you friend and the your friend can 3 call you. That way you can talk to him and your parents will think that you are talking to your friend.
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Mackenzie answered Sunday June 12 2005, 12:39 am: Why don't you ask foR HIS numbeR, that way YOU can dictate when the calls come and go and no one is calling the house foR youR family to answeR to. :) [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
ideals answered Saturday June 11 2005, 8:33 pm: One things for sure, even if it's uncomfortable, I think you should tell your parents, because the less anxiety that's on your mind, the less you will have to worry about... AND MORE you can concentrate on your crush.
Your parents will be very happy that you shared this part with them, and be confident and have trust in their daughter... JUST BY TELLING THEM. TRUST ME, parents love this stuff.
I just think you should just tell your parents, even though you don't want too...
If not, I'd just advise you to just hang out with him and start getting to know him as friends.. if you still like him, then good for you! :)
GOODLUCK LOVELY!
Let me know how everything works out! :)
If you have any more questions or need follow up advice, please by all means feel free to ask me.
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Kater answered Saturday June 11 2005, 8:32 pm: Ok..if your parents don't know about him, then I think you should tell them! You could easily have a better relationship with both your parents and crush if they know. But if your not going to tell you parents, then just tell him good times to call...like when your parents aren't home or when they are alseep or sumthin! [ Kater's advice column | Ask Kater A Question ]
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