okay well i like this girl for a while and she liked me and we started going out like 2 weeks ago...wednesday we made out like 4 times in a hour and i never did that before in my life but she has....now after i did it i dont really feel the same way for her..like i dont know if i still like her..i just feel different about her and we have been best friends before we went out so i dont if i should break up with her but i really dont knnow if i like her anymore and tomorrow she is supossed to come to a family thing and i kinda feel unconfortible around her now and we already decided that if we break up we will still be friends but i dont know...please help please!
OHiOiS4LOVERSo5 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 3:15 am: after the break up...your friendship is probably older...you jus didnt get the "spark'' taht your supposed to get from a kiss so i guess theres just not there for you. im not tryin to freak you out but i kno from past expeiriences and from my friends expeiriences that you most likely wont be as close as you were before...sorry
xBestAddiction answered Monday June 13 2005, 9:11 pm: Well if you don't like her then you need to end it before it goes to far and she starts to like you a lot more. Maybe you thought she was more innocent but she is sorta like makeout with guys like no big deal. Well you can do what you want but just think about my advice first.♥ [ xBestAddiction's advice column | Ask xBestAddiction A Question ]
Kissyfurr answered Sunday June 12 2005, 9:24 pm: If it feels weird going out with her then maybe yall should just be friends, who knows maybe just being friends might actually make yalls friendship stronger! I hope I helped you!! Good Luck!!!!! ByE!!!!!
MADAME_H0LLYWO0D answered Sunday June 12 2005, 2:24 am: If you feel uncomfortable around somebody you should NOT be with them, if it's not meant to be then it's not meant to be, and if you really truly care about each other you'll be able to just be friends.
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cheesedoodle answered Saturday June 11 2005, 11:45 pm: be friends with benefits if you decide you don't actually like her.. that way you both get "action" but you're not dating or anything. just make sure she's fine with it first [ cheesedoodle's advice column | Ask cheesedoodle A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Saturday June 11 2005, 11:26 pm: I undeRstand how expeRiencing that can make you feel a bit distant fRom heR, you'Re NOT the ONLY ONE who has felt that befoRe. It could be you just oveRReacting; I say give it some moRe time.. peRhaps a week? [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
brittany_x31 answered Saturday June 11 2005, 11:14 pm: i think u should just tell her but ask her if u could still be best buds but go out for friends take her out to dinner or to the movies but show her that you dont love her love her but show her that yall are still friends
Beccah answered Saturday June 11 2005, 11:00 pm: well yeah.. thats way normal.. you could just feel uncomfortable with making out for the first time even thought she is used to it.. so just wait a little while.. hang out with her more and see what happens.. if your feelings dont change.. talk to her about it before deciding to break up with her.. even though you guys decided if you broke up you would still be friends.. it can turn out the opposite.. it happened to me. so yeah good luck.. hope everything goes good!
HeathaAa answered Saturday June 11 2005, 10:47 pm: go to the family thing with her and see how things go. if you still don't really like her as much then i would deffinetly say break up with her. if you want to remain friends then thats awesome, just make sure you let her know so she doesn't think you hate her. [ HeathaAa's advice column | Ask HeathaAa A Question ]
Jenni2892 answered Saturday June 11 2005, 10:32 pm: well if your feelings arent the same about her and you dont think you like her anymore i think you should brake up with her. but go to the family thing with her first maybe your just in a little stage thing right now. so wait untill after tour family thing but if you are still feeling the same way you should break up with her.
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