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ok I have known some one sence I was like born and then we havent seen each other in like 6 years and then we both change schools and it turns out that we go to the same school. his name is Colby and I have fallin in love with him. BUt I dont want to be because I think it will mess up are friendship. I dont know what to do what should I.
Megan
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Tell him. It won't mess up your friendship unless you let it. I mean really, don't you think your boyfriend should be your best friend?
I do! :)
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Personally, i think the best thing to do is too telll him. Then you wont have this huge burden inside of you. Things might be wierd at first but then every thing will just fine. Who knows, he might just like you the same way back.
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You need to tell him. Because if you in love with him then you see him with other girls and such, its gonna hurt. So you never know he might love you back so take a risk.♥
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You should tell Colby how you feel. You don't know what his reply will be, but you should hope for the best. I was in a situation like this with a boy named Tommy. Unfortunetly, he broke my heart by saying he didn't like me. I felt like I was going to cry, but I didn't. I made him a bridge to help me in relationships in the future. You should do the same.
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follow your heart but see if his feeling are the same, wait it out some, dont ask him about it keep it to yourself until you know for sure as you said you may end a good friendship if you tell him but he may feel the same and it may be something more
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I think you should tell him.
Some people go thRough theiR entiRes lives neveR finding tRue love and tRue happiness, so I say if you have anotheR chance at finding it [though unlikely so young, but ya neveR know ;D] definitely do not deny it. Yeessss it will be a big Risk, but almost eveRything in life is!! And if you two aRe as good of fRiends as you make it sound, viRtually nothing should be able to taint youR fRiendship. Hope this helps!! :D
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I really think that you LOOOOVE him. I think you have a deep crush. I meen seeing him after all these years has brought up knew feelings. I really think that you should keep it to yourself for now. Do a little flirting and see how he reacts if hes not interested, it would not be a good ides to try to go out with him. I treied that with a friend that i have known all my life. I moved to the U.S. ( i live in canada) and when i came back we went out even though he really wasn't interested in me. We broke up two weeks later and our friend ship has never been the same. I hate it and I wish i could go back and never start it all.
So be careful - I don't want your friend ship end up like mine. So only go at it of he wants to and make sure you know that it's going to work out. Who knows you might go out get to know each other on the way and wont be able to be friends again. Or not, these things are tricky.
Good luck
~kooka
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okay allthough i love the name colby i wouldnt do it not yet one everyboy that i went out that had the name colby turned out to be a gay fag but i dont kno in your case okay one you are never to ask him out the guys do all the asking 2 just talk to him let him kno how you feel and just leave it at that if he likes you and you tell him that you like him then he would probly make a move but yea if he asks you out then you should i dont think it would ruin your friendship unless you cheat on him but i dont think you would!?
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thats so sweet but that happened to me. Me and my neighborhood friend chris and then i moved and then i came back oo i was so in love i guess but i guess he didnt want what i did but if yours wants what you want then you should go for it but if you're sceptical i wouldnt risk your friendship good luck ps i'm always here
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