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fed up
im a 15 year old girl and ive lived with my dad for the past 3 years and its hard to talk to him about girl stuff. how can i talk to him without making both of us unconfortable.
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try talking to a friend first about it so you kinda know what your getting into...but he knows that hes gonna have to talk to you eventually about that stuff so it might as well come sooner than later. hes probably prepared for it, so just try to bring it up in a suddle convo, dont outburst and start putting everything on him at once...just kinda ease into all that.i hope everything goes good!
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my friend had that same problem. do you have a grandma or an aunt you can talk to? if you dont then you dont have to tell your dad the EXACT thing just say "dad, i have some girly issues...can you help me or if its too uncomfortable we dont have to" then go from there. hope i helpd.
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well Talking to an adult male can be rather hard. But maybe if you talk to him about it in a mature Adult way it wont be hard. And if you stay firm and not awkward then he wont because no guy wants to be the one that is awkward.
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Well u know thats tough!! Im a guy and i find it hard talking to my dad bout guy stuff!! But the best way to do it. Is jus to sit him down and talk! Trust me it will be nerve-racking at first but after a few times of talkin it will seem natural. I know its different because im a guy and stuff but jus explain how you feel and things. And tell youre dad that you need to talk with him because you need some advice and support.
Im sorry if i havent been of much help, but i hope ive helped,
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Well if your dad knew about some girl things, he can help you. If not, if your dad has time ask him to sit down and talk to you about what you feel. Maybe he will understand. Ask if you can call your mother and talk to her about it. I can understand you because I used to think oh well he will never understand. But he did and he was glad I came to him. You will never know until you ask! I hope I helped you!
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i know its an uncomftorable feeling, i still never talk to my dad about girl stuff. too embarresed. u can always go online to look up the ansers to your questions. like on this site or something. or if u just wanna ask him then remember that your both human.....
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TO: fed up
its always uncomfy for a dad and daughter to talk about "girl stuff". my best advice is either sit him down and set everything straight real fast or go to a best friend's mom and ask them for advice. ya know?
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I know what you mean... I used to feel SO uncomfortable talking to my dad about that stuff. Until one day i NEEDED him.... I told him that I felt weird talking to him about this but i thought I needed to. He loved that I came to him... I dont know he felt honored or something lol. But if you still can't get up the nerves to do that then just talk to a really close woman like an aunt maybe? or ya know I'm always here for you even though we dont know each other
good luck!
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