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how do u let go of ur faimly
i need help my dad i have not seen him one year and three mounths and he drinks a lot i try to let him go but i cant what should i do
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It seems like you care about him even though he's doing something horrible. But maybe you shouldn't let him go because now is the time he needs a lot of support and care even though you haven't seen him. You shouldn't forget about him, just, how can i put this, breakaway from him.You shouldn't blame yourself for his problem.Tell him to see a doctor, help him and give him support. Show him that your their for him. After all he is your dad.
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welltalk to a family member about it if he wants to change recomend him to alcholics anonamous
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Letting go of a family member may be a hard thing to do im afraid. Keeping yourself Physically, Mentally, Acedemically busy may help you to not think about him. Im terribly sorry for you. This will be a hard thing to do and if u need more advice ill be here.
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i am sorry to hear that and i know what you mean. it is hard to look back at good times and see what is it of him now and try to figure out if he will ever change.
but try this.
1. have a fun living your life. go out with your friends and try extra curriculum activities you like. sports, music programs, art.
2. dont blame your self or think any ifs. you cant not change the past.
3. look at him as an example to you. no one wants to be a drunk person so Live your life trying your best and achieve all you want. for your father and most importantly FOR YOU.
4. even if he is like that, there are lots of other people who loves you and cares for you.
5. talk things with your mom or anyother relatives. i am sure they share the pain and you can talk to them about it and make it easier for you and understand better about the background.
so i hope i helped you and if you need someone to talk to , i am here for you.
Pinkfairy~
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I think that he should see a therapist and a doctor. So he can talk to them and understand what his problem is with drinking . The doctor will also be able to tell him how drinking is putting his health in risk. Tell him how much he means to you and that you dont want him to ruin his health and that he should stop drinking if he cares about his health and you. I hope helped. Good luck.♥ Kate
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