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i was best friends with these 2 girls for 4 years. A couple of weeks ago i decided we shouldnt be best friends anymore. I was always the one being left out and i was jsut fed up of feeling that way so i told them that i just wanted to be friends, Now im regretting that i said that and do want to be their best friend again but i feel like if i do i will just feel the same as i used to be and be treated like JUST A FRIEND. please help me, what do you think i should do? sorry its long
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Just tell them why you said you only wanted to be friends and ask if they could b your best friends again and then see how they take it...or if your shy wite them a note but the 1st way is a lot easier and time saving...AsH!
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Well, if they were truly your best friends, they would treat you like a best friend. If you feel you are not getting respected, they aren't your true best friends!
I hope this helped
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ok first of all, i'm a guy...and my 2 best friends are girls! alot of the times...when they do stuff i feel really left out..and they ALWAYS TELL ME...your over re-acting..we love you just as much! i really think you need to give the girls a chance...if they make you feel unconfortable..tell them that you think you made the right descision about just being friends! But before you do that, you need to ATLEAST talk to them, do something together so you girls can talk..or whatever girls do, Haha..
Hope I helped!
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i think that you should call the girls and invite them over for a sleepover or a party. talk to them about it and tell how you felt about them leaving you out all the time. tell them taht youn want to be treated equally. and if they dont agree with you, then they werent your 'best friends' in the first place.
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hey! this happened to me when we were still in school. the best thing to do is tell them how you feel and try to work it out. if things dont change then just stay friends but dont call,talk, or hang out with them as much as you wanted and use to cuz if you do then it will seem like you are desprite! your 2 friends kinda sound like my old friends and i just had to stop being there friends cuz they both hung out with me when is was just me and one of them but when they were 2gether i didnt exist.
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talk to your friends that you want to still be there best friend but you would like to be included in more of the things they do tell them like when they do more stuff together you feel left out well hope i helped and if you have ne other questions just drop em in my inbox
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its totally your decision..if you just want to be friends then just be friends its as easy as that..if you feel left out then talk to them about it! ♥ ~*~UrMoMmA!~*~
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