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im 13/f
what should i do if my crush would ask me out or something, but my friends realllyy like him too?
(i have this one friend, she likes the same guy that i do. she says she loves him and everything. but she doesnt know that i've like him since like 5th grade.) i have an idea that he kinda likes me too. i hear that he talks about me to his friends, and whenever im around him he asks me for hugs. im not sure if its just playful, or actually something. im not sure how to react if something happened, and he asked me out?? nfsap idk. im really confused. any tips????
-stuckkkkk
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tell your friend taht youve liked this guy for so long and before going out with him if he does ask you make sure you talk to her about it before doing anything because friends are way more important and you wouldnt want her to get mad @ you so yeah talk to her about it 1st and see waht she says hope i helped! good luck! <33
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okay soo if he asks you out thats his chouce if your friend get madd and isnt happy for you then shes not really a good friend
hope i helped
-pjams
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well friends always come befor guys no matter what..... tell your friend that you have liked this guy since 5th grade and see what she says.... if he asks u put befor you talk to her then its probly not a good idea to go out w/ him... the faster you tell your friend you like him the faster you can see what will happen w/ him
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IF he DOES ask you out talk to your friend about it and see if you get her blessing. then you have to decide if you wanan go out with him
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Well it Seems that this Boy likes you way more than your friend and if your Friend knows how you feel She should not like him and you should like him because you have liked him longer. Follow your heart and Do what you think is right, But i Think you should go out with him
You ask Ill Answer Irishdude
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Talk to your friend. Tell her how you feel about him and how you've liked him since 5th grade and all. Also tell her that you don't want this to drive a wedge between you two.
Tell her that you aren't going to try to get him to like you instead of her, and ask her to do the same, and let him do whatever he's going to do, whether that be go out with you, her, or neither.
Now, if she said that she likes him before you said anything, if she decides that she called dibs, you should respect that. That means that you can't do anything to try to get his attention, and she can. He can still choose you instead of her, you just can't do anything to try to encourage that to be the decision.
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talk to your friend about how she'd feel if you two went out. if she doesn't like the idea and you're really good friends with her, i wouldn't go out with him. boys will come and go, but friendships can last forever. but if she's ok with it, then go ahead! hopefully she wants to see you happy, and she'll accept it.
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Hey. I'm sure your friend doesnt "love" him. Seems like you like this guy a lot because of his personality. If he does ask you out deffinitly talk to your friend first. Tell her that you have very strong feelings for him and that there will be other guys out there for her. If she gets way upset maybe you shouldnt go out with him if it will hurt you and your friends relationship. If she isnt a great friend that you talk to all the time or hang out with then deff. go out with the guy. Good Luck Hun! Hope I helped.
~Brina~
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i would say go for it. your friend will hopefully get over herself.
hope i helped!
roxy
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dear stuckkkkk,
well if your any kind of friend then you wouldnt do anything with this boy because you would totally ruien a friendship and friendships last wayyyyyyyy longer then relationships so when he is being playful just ignore him i hope this helps you
xoxox
Missy
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Well if this guy does ask you out i say you go for it, but explain to ur future bf and your frined your feelings and your frineds feelings. Itll probably tunr out that your frined really only tihnks hes hot and just loves the idea of him, because she cannot possibly love him. In the end she will realize that you like him so much more than she does, and deserve him so much more.Plus, she sounds like the type of girl who gets a new *love of her life* every other week* If im wrong im not trying to be rude or offend your frined either. I hope i could help. Sammerz
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