hey quys my name is alyssaa!..im 15 ii..love qivinqq peoplee advicee..because i have soo many problems of my ownn especially with boys especially onee..and from all my mistakess..andd everythinqq i've been throuqh in my liife i would love to hellpp peoplee and try to solve as many of thier problemms as i cann..soo ask away ill help wiithh any topicss!=]..
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E-mail: lyssaboo1602@yahoo.com
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Location: New castle Pa
Age: 15
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Member Since: July 5, 2005
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I think I love this boy named Mat. I'm not sure. Every time I think about him I feel sick and I cry. Everytime I hear the song We Belong Together by Maria Carrie I think about him and I cry. He was the first boy I ever held hands with on the bus, and he broke up with me that night. I cried myself to sleep every night. Please tell me what is wrong with me. I am 12, and I am a girl.
- Chelsea Leigh
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i have the same problem still to thiss dayy..its been a yr and im still in love w/ this quy that broke my heartt..soo many tiimes..he lied/cheated..everythinq you coudl imanqe he did to mee..its a really hard process qettinq over someonee..but im startinqq to..forqet about him i know its hard but try not to think about him..talk to friends they are qreat..qo have fun with themm..and finnd someone new..that you know wont break ur heartt..!..your only 12 and you dont need to qo throuqhh what i went throuqh and im only 15..live ur lifee thier will be many more quys just remember that..to this day i still cryy over him..and he made my life horrible..butt we dont need people like that in our lifes..if all they do is hurt..you..becomee the stronqerr,onee..and walk away and maybe one day he will realizee..!!
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ok so i liked this guy for a while and i had one class with him this year ..i could never get myself to talk to him at school..but we would alwaus talk on AIM ...well he now has a g/f thats like 19 and hes 15...so i tried to get over him but i cant... now one of my CLOSE friends likes him ...well everytime we talk about him she gets really sad (b/c she knows he has a g/f) ...idk most people say he just uses his g/f for sex ..but i feel really bad for my friend and i think i still like him..what should i do?
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tell your friiend how you feell..if shes a true friend then she will understandd..and if you quys both like him...and you want your friendshiip 2 last thenn,the best thiinq to doo is deff..qet over himm..friends will last lonqerr than a quy wouldd!!=]]..always remember that..and if she doesent aqree with you then she isent a true frriend and u need too..let her qo alsoo!
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He makes fun of me...n now he says he loves me..what should I do? (link)
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quyss alwayss make fun of qiirls..its a wiierd way of showiinqq..they love themm..believe me its normall..but if he says little thiinqs like jokes..thenn lauqh it off..butt if its moree than that...like its an insult..ask him to stop and tell him it hurtss when he says stuff like that..and if he doesnt thenn..let him qoo..
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Alright, so I know this girl, i've known her about a year and a half and we have dated once before for like 3 months. It was quiet long distance and we really didn't do anything. We got into a stupid fight about stupid thing's and stopped talking for about 7 months. Well, about 2 months ago I started talking to her again because I wanted to get to know her again and be cool since she will be going to the same high school as me this year as apposed to last year. So instantly we started talking on the phone and now we talk till like 3 am almost every night. I see her a bit more now and we spent the fourth with each other and now im like seriously falling for her, she is everything I could ever want. BUT, I don't really thinks she feels the same and she never tells me how she feels. She just says, I don't want a boyfriend during the summer. What should I do and how does it sound from a female point of veiw. (link)
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ii think you should have a lonqq conversation with thiss qirrl..tell her excatly how u feel let everythinq..out and..believe me she has 2 have some kind of feelinqss for you..by the way you say yins talkk till like 3 am..it will all work outt
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i use to cut alot but after i started goin out w/ this one guy i stopped for him. We broke up after 6 months and for this whole past year every time ive wanted to cut i've thought of him and would think about how much he would hate it if i started again. Well im still in love w/ him and i finally got the courage to call him and tell him. He told me that did love me and that really broke my heart and i've been wanting to cut really bad but i don't know what to do!someone plz help!!!!
thanx
-twiSted (link)
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pleasee..take this advicee..dont harm yourselff..thats not the way to relaive paiin i used to also cut myself..because of some quy i never thought i was qqood enought for him and after awhile i realizedd..what im doiinq was not qood andd..it woulden solve anythiinq..what i did was qot helpp..qo to someone you could really trust and they will help u..throuqhtout thiss tiimee..andd alsoo consider talkinq to someonee..like a physcriast..or sumthiinq like that it really doess helpp=]!..
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ok so theres this guy and he kinda sexual harasses me or w/e this is called. he grabbed my breasts and my butt like so many times nd he snaps my bra straps and all that kind of stuff! i don't kno who 2 tell and what 2 do? pleasee help me (link)
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what you should doo..is tell him you dont like how he touches you and he needs to stop..you need to find a way to tell him this..because if u dont tell him how you feel about it then he will keep doinqq these thinqs..and he will think that u dont have a problem with itt..and when you do tell him about it and if he continues to do these thinqs then you need to tell an adult like a parent or sumthinqq...
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ok theres another guy i like named drew and he also nos i like him but all my 8th grade friends say since hes popular hes like all the other popular guys.... HE WANTS A PEICE OF UR ASS ((thats what my friends say)) but he seems really nice (link)
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my opionn is that if u really like the quy and you dont think hes like that that maybe you should try to talk to him and tell him that ur interstedd...and see what happends from thier and if you quys do qo out and he expects sexual..stuff and your not ready for that then..the best thinq to do is break it off wiith himm...
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i wanna qet a hair cut tomorrow....i want bang,but i wanna pull them to the side, and i want it kinda short like a little above my shoulders...am i taking serious chances?? cuz my hair is pretty long, but i want something a little more fun and a little preppy/trendy...any other ideas??
xox*jessica (link)
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umm..i had thiss same problemm like a couplee years aqoo i had banqss..and they were horrible and i finally qrew them out andd ii seen qirls haiir that had them banqs taht were to the siide andd i triedd that too..i was sacred but it came outt qreatt i ..lOve..my haiir now..its called side swept banqs and..ii think that u should qet baout 3-4 inches off..!!=]
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okay i moved to a different city about a year ago. there is this guy that is like one of my best friends and everyone knows that he likes me and i like him too((but not alot)). ive gone to dances with him, but im afraid that if he asks me out things will get all weird, and i dont know if i would be able to kiss him without feeling odd.
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well what you need to do..is think it over about if you really do like himm..then talk to him and..see what happends from thiier and i think you quys both need to aqree that notinqq wont chanqee! qo forr ittt..!
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hey , well this guy has told alot of people he liked me but was scared & he was afraid that he got on my nerves too much that thats why he hasnt already asked me 2 be his girl friend what should i do ? plz help if u can thx 4 tryin ! (link)
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my opion ii think you should deff..talk to him and tell him he doesent annoy you..andd tell him you like him backk!
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