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i think i love some1


Question Posted Saturday July 9 2005, 12:45 am

I think I love this boy named Mat. I'm not sure. Every time I think about him I feel sick and I cry. Everytime I hear the song We Belong Together by Maria Carrie I think about him and I cry. He was the first boy I ever held hands with on the bus, and he broke up with me that night. I cried myself to sleep every night. Please tell me what is wrong with me. I am 12, and I am a girl.
- Chelsea Leigh


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Peachgirly answered Sunday July 10 2005, 8:36 pm:
Theres nothing wrong with you. All I can say is that the pain of being heart broken is a part of life and everyone experiences it. You will eventually get over him and forget about him. So don't waste your time crying over a boy. You're only 12 years old and you have a full life ahead of ya. ♥ Peachgirly

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sWat_SoUlJa_281 answered Saturday July 9 2005, 4:01 am:
omg is you 4 relaz????mane 2 many young folks up n hea...go play or some mane...fuck him he young 2 ya dont no what ya want no0ow...but shit um????aint none wrong with u is him u no???so0 fuck him...ur alrigt aint u

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*ashlee* answered Saturday July 9 2005, 1:58 am:
its called puberty look it up.

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Teza answered Saturday July 9 2005, 1:56 am:
AWW.. IM SORRY ITS SO HARD ON YOU! ALL BREAK UPS ARE REALLY TOUGH AND I UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL IN A WAY. IVE CRIED OVER A BOY BEFORE AND TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH IT WASNT WORTH IT. YOU DONT LOVE THIS GUY. IM NOT TRYING TO BE BITCHY OR ANYTHING BUT.. NONE OF US KIDS KNOW WHAT LOVE IS. YOU JUST REALLY REALLY LIKE THIS GUY AND YOU CARE FOR HIM A LOT. YOU HAVE TO LEARN HOW TO DEAL WITH BRAKE UPS. THIS MIGHT NOT BE YOUR FIRST THO. I KNOW ITS HARD BUT HES NOT WORTH YOUR TEARS. =( JUST TRY TO GET OVER HIM. ALL YOU NEED IS 4 MAIN THINGS!! YOUR FRIENDS`TISSUES`ICE CREAM`AND SOME NEW GUYS!! YOU WILL GET OVER HIM SOON. BUT NOTHING IS WRONG WITH YOU BABE!! YOU'LL BE FINE! [[ ♥ ]]

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xalyssaxhunnx answered Saturday July 9 2005, 1:53 am:
i have the same problem still to thiss dayy..its been a yr and im still in love w/ this quy that broke my heartt..soo many tiimes..he lied/cheated..everythinq you coudl imanqe he did to mee..its a really hard process qettinq over someonee..but im startinqq to..forqet about him i know its hard but try not to think about him..talk to friends they are qreat..qo have fun with themm..and finnd someone new..that you know wont break ur heartt..!..your only 12 and you dont need to qo throuqhh what i went throuqh and im only 15..live ur lifee thier will be many more quys just remember that..to this day i still cryy over him..and he made my life horrible..butt we dont need people like that in our lifes..if all they do is hurt..you..becomee the stronqerr,onee..and walk away and maybe one day he will realizee..!!<3

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HyperactiveMiss answered Saturday July 9 2005, 1:53 am:
You THINK you love him. Honestly, I don't think you love him. 1) You're a bit young to really see what love is and what infatuations are and 2) When you're in love you don't "think", you KNOW. Not trying to put you down here; just telling you the truth. I know you think I don't know what I'm talking about, but even if you think that in the future you'll understand what I meant.

You will get over it. But the only way to get over it is to LET yourself get over it. So stop crying yourself to sleep at night. Start doing things you love doing. Go out with family or friends.

Holding hands with one boy for the first time doesn't have to mean anything. There will be other boys and they'll hold your hand, give you your first kiss, etc.

You're only twelve. Other people have gone through their teens, even their adult years without a boyfriend. I think you can live without having a preteen boyfriend.

Dating is all about bonding with someone, gaining new experiences, and finding out what you need and want. If things don't work out, you move on and live life.

Feel better...NOW!

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poa answered Saturday July 9 2005, 1:26 am:
What is wrong with you?

You are trying to hop into waters that you are not emotionally stable enough to enter.

And you are drowning.

So technically its a suicide.





Someone brought it to my attention that I had an error in the post, I apologize.

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monkeyG007 answered Saturday July 9 2005, 1:24 am:
There is nothing wrong with you. Well I also had have the same problem and what you should do is you guys can still be friends that does not mean that you can't still think of him as a friend. I hope I have help you Chelsea.

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