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old habbits
i use to cut alot but after i started goin out w/ this one guy i stopped for him. We broke up after 6 months and for this whole past year every time ive wanted to cut i've thought of him and would think about how much he would hate it if i started again. Well im still in love w/ him and i finally got the courage to call him and tell him. He told me that did love me and that really broke my heart and i've been wanting to cut really bad but i don't know what to do!someone plz help!!!!
thanx
-twiSted
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Well if you're loved him and thought about how he'd hate it if you cut yourself, think about the other people now that you love and would hate it too. Because they care about you too and they want you to be safe. And even though he may not love you, I'm sure he still cares if you cut yourself or not, and I'm sure he still would hate it if you did, so keep that in mind too. You just have to keep telling yourself not to and resist the urges, and I would also suggest maybe getting some help. Go to a talk group with other people who have the same problem...hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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Hey, ummm.... Thats tough but Your going to find other guys and your going to move on and life does get better so just stick it out!!
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Don't let that guy get u down you will regret cutting. find someone new.
hope i helped!
.lil' nosy
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i mean bad habbits like that are NEVER good to start back so im pretty sure you know what im going to say "dont cut yourself!" i used to be bulemic and make myself throw up because of a lot of my problems but i mean i stoped and suprizingly i havent started back =) so PLEASE hun dont cut yourself its not worth it.
<33abbi
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Well im sorry about your bf, but you really need to talk to a counselor or a parent or someone. One of your strong adult peersm because you need to get help about this cutting situation. I know someone who used to cut and when she told me it scared the crap out of me because its a deadly habit. You really need to deal with this and quick! I know your probably like *your a moron why wouldi listen to you i havent cut in 6 months* But it can be veryu addictive and for your own safety i'd feel bad if you started again. So please PLEASE get some help on this issue. I hope i could help...Let me know how things go. Sammerz
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DOnt cut...it makes teh problem worse!!! trust me i haev done it before and it just ruins everything! Just try to think of something you could do other than cuttin...like screaming into a pillow...that always helps and seriously talk to your parents about it and see if you can get help...becuz your stuck somewhere you shouldnt have to be!
Hope i helped!
emily
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I used to think about cutting alot too. But just ask yourself: What does it do for you? Whats the point of it? Is it going to make me a better person? No, its not, and you're way better than that. You don't need a guy to complete you and you don't need a guy to get you to stop cutting. You could really get hurt if you start to cut again. My friend cut her wrists so much she had to go to the hospital in this treatment center. Of course you will find another boyfriend because there IS someone out there who cares about you and probably doesn't want you to cut either. Good Luck!
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There are other guys out there to be had. You will find another. You need to get it in your head that you will not cut...for yourself, not anybody else. You don't cut because you deserve better things for yourself. :)
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Dear Twisted,
You should do whatever you want to do. It's your life, not his. Although, you still love him and he loves you. Ya'll should get back together, and he should except you for who you are.
- Chelsea
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Okay, whatever you do try and keep your mind off him or anthing that will remind you of him. If you feel yourself wanting to cut do something else or think of something else that will distract you. I've heard that if you snap a ruubberband a few times on the place where you usually cut it helps..try doing ne thign else tat will get ur mind off of him. get outside, call a friend, isten to sum music..I hope this helped
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talk to some one about it.
*OR*
right poems or find something that makes u feel better besides cutting.
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What you should do is try and find a differnet guy i know no guy can compare to him because im sure he is a great guy besides the fact of him hurting you. cuz thats rude!! Anyways! You need to do this for you and not him. Like when people stop smoking for there girlfriends/boyfriends.. its not as strong as if they'd quit for themselves. Your im sure a terrific sweet loving girl and you can find one truely sweet guy for you that will be there for you and make sure everything is good for you so you dont cut! Do it for yourself hun. If you ever needa talk again.. im here ok?-trix
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please dont cut yourself!! it wont make things any better. you'll have a broken heart and a bloody wrist...the guy wont care and if you want him to pitty you, he wont!! show that you can be strong and you dont need him. you can live without the guy or cutting yourself. i bet tons of guys are out there just waiting for you to like them and they would wanna make you happy so you never even THINK of cuttin again. pleaseee i beg you..dont do it!! there are other ways to take out sadness and rage..try kickboxing! hope this helps!! <3
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Don't cut.It never makes pain go away,it only makes it worse.You don't need to injure yourself over something such as this,it isn't your fault so don't hurt yourself over it.The only time I ever even concider cutting is when I do something that I regret or I hurt someone I love.
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pleasee..take this advicee..dont harm yourselff..thats not the way to relaive paiin i used to also cut myself..because of some quy i never thought i was qqood enought for him and after awhile i realizedd..what im doiinq was not qood andd..it woulden solve anythiinq..what i did was qot helpp..qo to someone you could really trust and they will help u..throuqhtout thiss tiimee..andd alsoo consider talkinq to someonee..like a physcriast..or sumthiinq like that it really doess helpp=]!..
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NEVER quit for someone else. PERIOD. you gotta quit for -you- and thats the only way it'll work.
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