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i am a christian, and i have a problem with sex, i want to do it, :-( when i think about it i cant get it out of my head. i dont know what to do. please help. (link)
LoL same here hun im christian but think of it this way do u know how many christians that would go to hell for loosing there virginity before they get married! ALOT!so i mean dont worry about it your fine have sex have fun LoL


i want to stop watching porn on the internet i hate because after i'm done watching i feel like i'm worthless. (link)
LoL then stay away from they computer! just dont watch it if it makes you feel worthless=)actually go out with friends have fun and do that kind of stuff in REAL life ya know:-)
love ya


WEll me and my boy friend diego have been dating for almost 4 years now( im 17 he is 18) and well we both love each other. he even promised me many times the day i turn 18 he is proposing to me which happens to be in about 3 weeks. well his birthday was a couple of days ago (our birthdays arent that far apart) any ways well on his birth day him and his guy friends went to a club. there diego saw an old friend from when he lived in mexico. well they started talking and some how he got a hold of some drinks and he got really drunk and him and his friend Andrea went back to his house and had sex. i found this out through him only cause i got lucky with such an honest man. he said he was drunk and he saduced him. well i believe the seducing part because i had met her when we went to mexico so i could meet his family and she was all over him. well any ways im still really in love with him and hes the one and only person i have ever had sex wit and for me that means alot cause im am definantly not easy. i really love him. we talk were each others best friends and lovers and everything else. i am still going out with him but i dont knwo since he promised me when i trun 18 he is going to propose to me should i say yes our should i wait and see if this happens again cause im really confused and i dont know if i should say yess or iff i shouldd sayy lets wait a little while to see cause i have always thought im gona say yes. i dont knwo what imm gonna do

PLEASE HELP!!

~Princess Ava~ (link)
umm wait && see what else happens i mean if he does it again id say no but if he doesnt do anything like that again id say yes.if he rilly loves you he wouldnt do that more then once


i use to cut alot but after i started goin out w/ this one guy i stopped for him. We broke up after 6 months and for this whole past year every time ive wanted to cut i've thought of him and would think about how much he would hate it if i started again. Well im still in love w/ him and i finally got the courage to call him and tell him. He told me that did love me and that really broke my heart and i've been wanting to cut really bad but i don't know what to do!someone plz help!!!!

thanx
-twiSted (link)
i mean bad habbits like that are NEVER good to start back so im pretty sure you know what im going to say "dont cut yourself!" i used to be bulemic and make myself throw up because of a lot of my problems but i mean i stoped and suprizingly i havent started back =) so PLEASE hun dont cut yourself its not worth it.


ok 1 of my friends told me that his bestfriend liked me but when i called to ask him he started t ostuder & it took him about 2 min. to answers it & this is pretty much what he said " ummmmm i ahh didnt say that i umm think he was ahhhmm probly lien to you"so does that mean he likes me or something. (link)
oh my gosh!!! duh he likes you!!! no guy studers like that and doesnt like you!


Same poster as "Sordid Love Polygon."

I'm eighteen years old, female, and I was unpopular at my high school. Somehow, however, I ended up being friends with a lot of the football players. I got really close to one of them, Alan; he ended up becoming one of my best friends. He's the perfect man in every way--smart, funny, cute, nice--except that he's OBBSESSED with SEX.

Alan has a girlfriend, Bella. She's a nice girl, and I like her as a friend, but the two are toxic to one another. When they have problems, it's like all the life gets sucked out of him. They're really harmful to each other.

Even when they break up, he always has other girls in line... (Naomi, for example). He's got a reputation for being able to get anyone to sleep with him... sex is a huge part of his life.

Now that I've graduated, I find that I'm... in love with him. I think about him every day... When I’m not thinking about him, I’m thinking about these two characters from this game I like who are just like him and me. I really care about him... and I think he knows it, since I kissed him once. But he has a girlfriend. Even if he didn’t, I’m waiting until marriage to have sex, and I'm afraid he would convince me to do something I don't want to.

I know I can't be with Alan. I don't want to damage my friendship with him or Bella, and I know he’s not right for me. But I don't know what to do. These feelings I have for him are making it hard for me to deal with other guys, and just thinking about not seeing him every day in school is killing me. I guess what I want to know is, how do I get over a guy who doesn't like me anyway? (link)
umm if i were you i'd wait until he brakes uo with his girl friend cause if they act like they say they do im sure it isnt going to last forever then when they brake up maybe ya'll could hook up and im sure if he really cares about you he wont force you to do anything that you dont want to do=)


Hey how can u tell your dad and mom that u have a boyfriend and i can tell my friends that type of thing when i have a boyfriend how should i tell them? (link)
LoL just be like umm mom guess what u know "so & so's name" then she'll be like yeah or no if she says no u tell then say he asked me out that freaking easy=)


does sex hurt the 1st time? how bad? plz help (link)
it depends as u can see a lot of those people have diff. but it didnt hurt for me.=)


I want to get close with people, but when it comes time to become intimate, I become very scared. I suppose I have some self-esteem issues about my body that contributes to that, but even after that, I'm still hesitant to go for it. I'm not talking about necessarily having sex here, I'm talking about even letting somebody touch me below the waist, or letting somebody see me naked. I'm sure i want to become intimate with somebody, but I'm very self-conscious.

Does anybody have anythign to say on this? (link)
i have the same problem, but i've learned that people like it when you're confident about your body and when your very outgoing. ive seen over weight girls get the HOTTEST guys EVER beacause of their personality. even if you dont have the best looking body its just the way you look at yourself people hate it when you complain about the way you look. so i mean you can wait for them to put the moves on you because if they were grossed out with the way you look they wouldnt touch you from waist down anyway if they think your hot go for the kill have mad hot sex have fun like me


ok so theres this guy and he kinda sexual harasses me or w/e this is called. he grabbed my breasts and my butt like so many times nd he snaps my bra straps and all that kind of stuff! i don't kno who 2 tell and what 2 do? pleasee help me (link)
omgosh dont worry the smartest thing to do is to tell your parents about it i had the same thing happen to me at school! if you cant tell your parents atleast if you have an older sister or someone that your close to that would know what to do tell them cause stuff like this is seriouse! the guy who did this kind of thing to me is going to court && im so glad cause sick gross people who do that dont deserve to live! but please tell your mom!!or dad or some1!!!!i told my older sister on the way home from school that day and she made me tell my mom so i mean i had to do this interveiw thing (no big deal) but thats all its totally worth it though just dont let this person get away with it tell somebody about it!hope i helped hun.

~mwah~




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