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harassement!
ok so theres this guy and he kinda sexual harasses me or w/e this is called. he grabbed my breasts and my butt like so many times nd he snaps my bra straps and all that kind of stuff! i don't kno who 2 tell and what 2 do? pleasee help me
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you have received and may continue to receive from others.
I am going to assume this is happening at school. I am not aware of any school that does not have a zero Tolerance Police against Sexual Harassment. There are several things you should do:
1. Tell him to STOP. Stop means stop. If he continues it is sexual assault and a felony crime that can follow him the rest of his life regardless of his current age.
2. Inform your Parents of boy’s harassment. You have the right to walk the halls and grounds of your school without being groped. They can chose to file formal charges with the school or local law enforcement.
3. Have your parents ask that this boy be removed from school.
If this harassment is happening in the workplace you start by going to your supervisor and filing a complaint. If it continues you go to the Human Resources Manager and file a complaint. Sexual Harassment in the workplace is protected under Federal EEOC guidelines as well as State laws for Sexual assault due to the groping.
I know what I am suggesting sounds like extremely strong action to take on someone that may be a High School student. The problem is if he is not stopped now and is faced with the reality of his crimes, yes these are crimes. Not only will he continue to harass you but he will harass other girls and he will escalate his harassment to the point that date rape is a logical conclusion to his escalation.
Taking the appropriate action now does two things: It stops the harassment of you now and two sends a message to all other boys in school that this is wrong and will not be tolerated.
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Hi :)
If this is happening in school, you can tell the teacher. Whatever classes you have with him, and wherever the harassment occurs, you should notify whoever has authority in the room. You might want to do it after class is done though, so nosey people won't get into your business. If you feel comfortable, tell your parents as well. If you really file a complaint in school, your parents will be involved anyway. Don't keep this inside, and definitely tell someone like a counselor or teacher in school, because no one is supposed to be touching you. PERIOD. Good luck, hope I helped, and let me know what happens.
Uniq
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Tell the guy to stop, and if he doesn't tellt he principle. He has no right to do this to you. Most boys are like that.
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you need to put a stop to this! tell him to stop and if that doesnt work then go and tell your parents or someone in school that you trust about it.
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How many times do I have to explain it to the females men are insecure they don't care about what the woman thinks because they know the woman won't do anything about it so if you do do something about it the man will step off i've gotten rated 4 times just for helping someone out with that problem go and tell him that if he doesn't stop sexual harrasing you you'll beat the shit out of him problem is he just doesn't have enough sex if he's a virgin he thinks any girl is hot at first site and wants a peice so do as i say and he'll stop if you don't then deal with the sexual harrasment until you have sex with him or for the rest of your life or at least until you move. please rate.
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If it's at school tell your principle.And also tell your parents/Guardian.
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christine
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ok wow you can not have a guy like that. cause then it will lead into him making you do stuff and you dont need that you just need to tell him to stop.
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tell him to stop and if he continues on then you need to talk with an adult cuz it can go farther than what it already has........
please make the right decision and talk to an adult about this situation
~kashia
15/f
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Tell any adult!
X_Amanda_X
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i know where your coming from my friend has the same thing happen to her all the time shes told her parents and they contacted the principal but sadly they dont do anything sometimes your best bet is to tell a teacher or an adult role model at your school or where ever this is occuring an electives teacher or a counciler are also a safe bet. hope i helped!
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he can get in a lot of trouble for that trust me....tell your parents, principal, or your guidence consulers they will get him in trouble and help you..good luck
xo leah
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hey, YOu can tell any Adult figure, if you dont feel comfortable telling your parents tell a friends parents or anyone you feel comfortable telling.
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Well thats terrible!!! You should definitly tell someone maybe yourt parents.I know i would never tell my parents becasue i wouldn't but they could help out a lot!! I hope I helped.
claire
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well just tell him to stop and if he doesnt, stop seeing him or if he doesnt stop, put a restraining order on him or something...
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Tell him to stop and, if he doesn't then tell a teacher, guidence counsolor, or parent any audult you trust.
Karazi Kenzee
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do not be embarassed to tell your principal, guidance counselor, your parents, or an older sibling to have the situation handled immediately. because that is sexual harassment, and you have the right not to put up with it.
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You need to either tell some1 at school or your parents !! Sexual harassment is a serious matter so make sure you tell someone soon before he does something else even worse !! welps tahts all that i can tell you !! kaitlyn jO*
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if you lyk it dont do anything. if you dont you need to tell him that it bothers him. if dat doesn't work kick him in da balls. as a guy i kno dat hurts lol. then tell a older guy you know to " help out" if you know what i mean
hope i helped
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You need to tell him (if you haven't already) to STOP and say it like you mean it too. Your "stuff" belongs to you! If he still won't quit it, I'd tell a friend or your parents. Don't be embarassed to tell anyone. He shouldn't be able to get away with it.
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tell your parents and they will take care of the situation `♥//
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tell an adult
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Tell your mom or dad....and tell him to stop,if hes above age level then you can tell the police and he can get into trouble...better yet, flip out on him in front of people be like " would you stop touching me, i dont like you and i dont feel confertable you touching me"...or sumthing like that
hope i helped
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Amber Nicole
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there probably isn't a lot you can do about it. this is typical "boys will be boys" stuff, and no one you tell is going to do anything until you catch him in your room stealing underwear. sorry, i hate to say it, but that's the way it is.
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Ok first of all i wish he was me..well i suggest when he does it next time take him into the bathroom and be like ok drop your pants and like pretend your gonna blow him or something then just strait up kick his nuts soooo hard and bite his boner in two! then be like yea next time you try to feel me up im gonna fucking gat slap you, you testicle shitting rectal wart!!!!
ok hope i helped :)
please rate but yea like seriously if he does it again kick his nuts really hard im not kidding..he deserves it
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omgosh dont worry the smartest thing to do is to tell your parents about it i had the same thing happen to me at school! if you cant tell your parents atleast if you have an older sister or someone that your close to that would know what to do tell them cause stuff like this is seriouse! the guy who did this kind of thing to me is going to court && im so glad cause sick gross people who do that dont deserve to live! but please tell your mom!!or dad or some1!!!!i told my older sister on the way home from school that day and she made me tell my mom so i mean i had to do this interveiw thing (no big deal) but thats all its totally worth it though just dont let this person get away with it tell somebody about it!hope i helped hun.
~mwah~
<33abbi
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you should tell someone! he doesnt have the right to even touch you anywhere on your body.. tell someone older then you that you trust. as in an adult, teacher, or your parents. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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honey you need to tell an adult first it they don't do any thing about it go file a police report.
nikki
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okay thats just wrong! My advice is to TELL SOMEONE! no one has the right to sexually assult soemone! talk to your parents/teachers/anyone you trust...TELL HIM TO STOP! if he continues call the police...that will be a funny thing to do...but seriously that is illegal and it needs to stop!
hope i helped
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emily
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Well, if it was me, I would turn around and punch that guy so hard until he was knocked out. But thats probably not the best thing to do...If hes your age, then you need to talk to him and be really strong and firm. Raise your voice really loud and yell at him especially if people are around. Yell really loud, "(name), I'm tired of you doing this. You stop this right now or I will tell the police! What you are doing is illegal and you could get in trouble with the law for it. If you don't stop, I'm telling the principal, counselar, etc.!!!" But if this guy is older than you, make sure you tell an adult because he could be a serious creep. P.S.you could arrest him for it
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If it happens at school you can start by telling the principle or a teacher. Tell your parents too. Tell the guy if he continues you will call the cops and charge him with assault. If he continues....do it. :)
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Well you should probably tell an older cousin. Or mom. Someone you can trust and know they wont go blab to the world. You should do everything in your all in all to stay away from him. Which im sure your doing. Let him know that next time he does it. Say "stop" if he does it again tell him that "You need to knock it off or im telling. Im serious"-trix
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ok here it is 1 of my friends used to do that but he learned his lesons when i acedently backhanded him and when i say acedently i really mean it so.trust me if you backhand him after that he'll most likely stoped.so if you just do that it might work im not saying it will but it might.
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thats disgusting. dont let him do that to you! get your parents/teachers involved because you should not have to be scared that a peer is going to be touching you inappropriatly. tell him to stop and be compltetly serious, not like playin around and dont let him see any emotion either. if you like tart crying, he got what he wanted. pleassee tell someone tho! hope this works out for you! <3
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tell that sick bastard to just f**k off.
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what you should doo..is tell him you dont like how he touches you and he needs to stop..you need to find a way to tell him this..because if u dont tell him how you feel about it then he will keep doinqq these thinqs..and he will think that u dont have a problem with itt..and when you do tell him about it and if he continues to do these thinqs then you need to tell an adult like a parent or sumthinqq...
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Just tell him to stop.Tell him that it makes you feel uncomfortable.If he continues to do it just stay away from him.
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