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Friends' opinon or Mine?
I went to a friend's camp this last weekend. She told me that there was this guys a few years olded then us but he was annoying, stupid, and ugly.Then we went out onto the lake and he came along. He had this really big tube and we were all just chillin on it and pushing each other off. then one time it was just me and him and i justed to like him but kept myself from liking him because of what my friend said. i know it doens't matter because i probably won't see him again but should i of let what my friend say keep me from liking this guy?? please help!
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naw friends r good for advice but its up to you how much of the advice you take. if your observations has past thru wat she said then obviously you two feel different on the subject. it was just for that one time too, man you should have enjoyed your self with him.
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hmm well if you arent going to see him again then just forget about him though, but if you dont find him annoying stupid or ugly and you have the chance to see him again or talk to him, go for it girl <3
=) samantha
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No! You can like whoever you want! It's not up to your friend who you date! And like you said you'll probably never see him again!
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You should follow your own heart.
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Well it is true you might not ever see him agian but you never know you could bump into him later on ..maybe you should have not listened to your friend because then you guys could have been really good freinds ..whatever your freind said was just her opinion about him ..but your was differnt and you should of went for it and gave it a try ..
Hope i helped ..
xOx Nicole
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You should keep what your friends say in mind, but in the end you need to make your own decisions about people. Everyone's idea of what is annoying, stupid, or good looking are different. Even if he were all those things it doesn't necessarily make him a bad person. :)
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Well you should follow your own heart and do what you think you should do. If your friend said something like he went to jail for 3 years or he smokes and drinks then listen to her because shes watching your back like friends do. But if hes nice, respectable and she only said annoying and ugly, then thats only her perspective. Listen to what your heart is telling you to do, not your friend. If she said jump off a bridge would you?? Well i hope i could help =D Sammerz
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NO! Thats sooo your friends opinion! its ur desicion of liking him or not. Dont let your friend controll you, its a free country and you cant help who you like.
hope i helped
<3 Amber Nicole
P.S. just because she doesnt like sumone doesnt mean you dont have to!
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Hmmm..Maybe your friend sees something in him that you don't. If you like him, don't let your friend change that. She might have a past with him that she isn't too fond of so that is why she's trying to stop you from liking him. Just say to your friend "I like him and no matter what you say, you cannot change that"
I hope this helped! =D
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It shouldnt matter what your friend thinks. The greatest opinion you can get is your own. If you like this guy then go for it.This is something you should use not only on dating but on life itself . you shouldnt listen to what others have to say but if its something you want to do stand up for yourself and do it!!!!!
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No.If you like a guy you should like him because you like him.You souldnt stop liking him just cause your friend dosent like him.
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well if what your friend sed was true then yes believe her...but you should also make your own decisions. dont let your friend change your mind about how you think of him.
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no no no! you could like any guy you like!
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no you should not xuz just becauz your friend doesnt like him doesnt mean you have to not like him just tell your friend that you do not find him stupid or annoying tell her you like him well i hope i helped and if you have ne more questions just drop em in my inbox
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Absolutly not. Different people have different personalities and that means they like different qualities in guys. Next time if you feel a vibe between you and another guy, then embrace it. Don't think twice about it and follow your heart. It knows your desires and it's always right. Also she could of told you that because maybe she had a secret crush on him and didn't want you to like him. Next time your in that situation, then tell her how you feel and get her to to tell you how she feels and why she feels that way.
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Jen
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I think you should have your own opinion and make up your mind for yourself. If you like this guy then you could like him, it has nothing to do with your friend's decision weither she likes him or not. Its ok if she doesnt like him it matters that you do! Maybe ur firend will recongize this : Dont judge a book by its cover! ;-) Good luck and hope i helped
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Of course not! Your friends will always have opinions of the guys you like/date but you can't let it affect you. She may not have have liked him, but if you did, they you shouldn't have stopped yourself from liking him. Say there was a guy who you thought was annoying, stupid and ugly. If a friend really liked him and said you should like him, would you? No. Just keep that in mind.
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well if youre never gonna see him again you can just keep it to yourself and it wont really make a difference. if you wanna just tell her i think it should be ok...not all annoying people are annoying all the time or to everyone so its ok. stupid and ugly...hmm i think this girl just hates him. ask if theres any reason WHY. ts something like "oh he kissed me when we were little and i thought it was gross and ran away" its no big, just go on liking him. if it something serious "he did drugs and ended in juvey 3 times in 6 months and then..." then stop there and listen to her opinion this time. hope this helps! <3
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