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Not a love triangle, more like an octagon
OK, brace your self, a while ago this guy trent ased me out and he was 2 years older. I said know cus i just got out of a bad relation ship. Now hes reallllly good friends with one of my good friends James. James is going out with alexa and trent is going out with alexas friend ashlyn. well me ash and alexa are all 14 ( im not good friends woth them) and james and trent just turned 16. WELL ANY WAY... I have these to other real good friends Morie (girl) and briana. and one day we (james trent bri morie me) were all hangin out at night and out of absoluty no where briana goes Oh My Gosh I LIKE TRENT!!! ...ALOT!!!! A WHOLE LOT!!!!! .. I WANT TO MAKE OUT WITH HIM!!! and i was all confused , she suddenly likes this guy and just goes to atempt to make out with him (BTW bri just turned 13 last week) Well after she triend to and failed at making out with him she told MOrie to do it. Morie said she didnt want to chus this was the first night she ever met him. well bri said if she didnt so wuold kill herself ( she "cuts") so morie talked to trent about it ( mo turned 12 last month) and they went in the back and made out. well over the night trent began to really like her. They made out like 5 time and he followed her EVERY WHERE!! and they flirted alll night. SO me and james were like "trent arnt you going out with ashlyn???" He said " im taking a break" But later ashlyn called james saying "trent isnt anserwing his fone if u see him tell him to call." James asked if they were still going out and ashlyn said yes. So trent is baisicly cheating on her with morie, but Mo and trent arnt actually going out cus mo likes his little brother(14) who likes Alexas cusin mandy and also because trent is almost 5 years older then morie. And latly he is flirting a lot with me to and i keep telling him hes taken and i dont mess with taken guys. but i do like him a little. And I am just soooo lost! what do i do, what should MO do, Should we tell aslyn, or what should we tell trent... or just help!!
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That just sounds like a totally tangled web that has been woven. I would say, if you are not in the middle of it - don't put yourself there! The problem is that if you tell then people will get hurt and mad. I would stay way out of it! If this guy likes you and he has a girlfriend, tell him that if he's serious about it - to let you know when he breaks up with his girl and if you are available then you guys can hook up. Don't be 'the other girl' especially knowing that he has a girl. As for MO - well she's already into him now so let her see where it goes. I would recommend the same thing though - tell trent to dump the girl or leave MO alone - but remember - that is for MO to do - you keep to the side. The less you can be in the drama - the better. And tell your friend who cuts herself to get some help. That is just awful and I hate to hear that because life does not have to be so bad that you cut yourself. She should try to figure out what is going on in her life and get it straitened out before she grows up with lots of scars and regrets it!!!
Hope any or all of it helped!
Rebecca
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Well i think you should talk to ashlyn about it and just basically Morie was forced into it becasue Briana threatened to kill herself ( which i would also talk to someone about that)Just tell her that morie didnt want to but she was scared for Briana, she should understand and just apologize for it. But you should also let ashlyn know what Trent did becaus it takes two to tango. Tell me how it goes ok?
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ok i think that u shouldnt try to get into the middle of his life. just let him be and if ashlyn finds out then just pretend liike you didnt know. Try talking to mo and see if you can convince her to stop making out with him because its mean to do to ashlyn. Also try talking to trent and telling him that ashlyn still thinks they're going out. c wat he says. Just do whatever you can to try and fix the situation.
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you need to tell ashlen that trent is messing around with other girls that she needs to break up with him or talk to him about you need to ask trent who he wants go out with (only 1 of you)well i hope i helped and if you have ne more questions just drop em in my inbox good luck on getting things set straight!
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You should tell ashlyn.That wasnt fair what briana did to morie because this whole thing would'nt have happend.Morie should tell trent(without hurting his feelings)That he is too old for her and that she likes his brother.And you should tell trent that he should'nt be doing that to ashlyn.But you should tell her before she finds out her self.But either way her feelings are gooing to get hurt.
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You should talk to your friend Mo and help her realize that it was probably only a one night thing. Tell her that he's with Aslyn and stuff.
No I don't think that you should take it upon yourself to tell Aslyn. I think you should go and talk to Trent about the whole thing. You should tell Trent that if he really cares about Aslyn then he needs to tell her himself.
As far as you kinda liking Trent goes I would wait until after he breaks up with Aslyn. And if he's treating her like he did that one night then she'll eventually get the vibe and break up with him. Also you should consider the fact that if he's doing that behind Aslyn's back then he'll probably do it behind yours. Trust me you don't want that in a guy. So be careful and keep me updated.
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It's ok that its long ok, first comes first, about ashlyn trent and mo. Trent is being a real jerk about "taking a break with ashlyn" he is being a player and mo is only 12. You have to talk to her because she is probably too young to understand 16 year old guys. Tell her that trent is bad and stuff. Also tell ashlyn about him i mean wouldnt you want to know if uyr bf was cheating on u? Trent has to get his girls straight here! I mean whats he doing? Expecially with a 12 year old girl! Tell him no girl likes a player. Now you...why did you tell trents brothher you are taken???? You didnt say anything about a boyfriend in there lol. But I think you should just wait and see what happens with him and Mandy because he likes her. You will find the right guy dont worry! I hope i helped!
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