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he really likes me and i kinda like him but i dont kno
my friend is lee and i have ben crushing on him on and off all year and he asked me out earlier this summer but i rudley said NO! and my mom was like who is that and she was like aww taylor but i mean she hates me going out with guys she hasnt meet ....she has only meet him once and that was in 6th grade ... so i didnt wanna say yea and my friend was at my house when it happend and im like really popular along with all my firends ! and hes not that popular! so i didnt want my friends to be like EW! and well we started talking again and like he says he will kall me then he doesnt! it bothers me! but he broke up for his gurlfriend for me!!! and i was like you didnt have to do that cuz i didnt want me 2 lead him more cuz i dont like him as much as he likes me but he was my first kiss in 6th grade ! and i am begaining to like him more and more !!!but im afraid if we go out again he will just dump me because wut his friends say ...he says i am one of the hottest gurls ever!!! but i dunno ! help me!
please answer these questions !
A: do you think i shold go out with him
B: is it wrong for me to get up set when he doesnt kall snice were not goin out!
C Do you think i sould be scard to go go in this relation ship because of bein dumped !!
*THX* *I* *RATE* *HIGH*
*Tacy*
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For one thing you date who you like regardless of whether or not they are "popular". Because once you get into the real world and its to late for you to date anyone outside your group...well popularity don't count anymore and you've lost out knowing some good people. Being "popular is a school kid thing. So, I think if you like the guy then yes, give him a shot.
You probably get upset because you really do like him. You are just afraid all the inflated egos around you might think he doesn't measure up. Be a leader not a follower....Date who you like! If he felt you really cared he would probably call when he said he would. If not tell him it bugs you and if he isn't going to call don't say he is. I am sure you are sending the poor guy mixed signals.
If you think about being dumped every time someone asks you out, you'd never go out. Don't worry about tomorrow...it may never get here. Live for today and be happy.
Tacy, I hope this didn't come off sounding really mean...probably did, but you have to think for yourself girl and to hell with everybody else and what they think. :)
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a:i persOnally think yOu shOuld gO Out with the guy.. sOunds 2 me like yOu want 2 but the Only reasOn yOur nOt is because Of yOur friends.. but if they were yOur tru friends they wOuldnt care whO yOu dated
b:nO i dOnt think it is wrOng fOr you 2 get upset abOut him nOt calling when he said he wOuld.. when sOmeOne says they are gOnna call they shOuld call i dOnt care wut they are 2 yOU
c:NO!!!! yOu shOuld never be afraid 2 be in a relatiOnship because yOu are afraid of getting dumped.. if yOu dO get dumped then i guess it wasnt ment to be.. but yOu atleast gOtta see how things cOuld have been
*hopeSomeOfThisHelped*
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A. Yes you should go out with him. Dont listen to what your frineds and his friends say cuz in the long run it wont matter.
B.Theres no need to get upset if he didnt call you. He may have been busy and not have had time to get around to it, but it doesnt mean he wasnt thinking of you.
C. I say go for it. Theres no need to be scared of being dumped. If he dumps,he dumps u. His loss. But i think he seems like a sweet respectable guy and you guys really have a chance at it. Well i hope i helped! Let me know how things go. Sammerz
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Dear Tacy,
A : Yes, I think you should go out with him, because you would probably feel better about yourself.
B : Yes, you should get upset if you WERE going out.
C : No, if you get dumped, you can just move on with your own life.
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A: Totally he seems like a sweet guy, i mean even your mom aproves! Plus HELLO YOU could always dump HIM if things don't work out. For get the whole popular-unpopular thing if u like him do it!
B: No it is not wrong to get upset, but i totally think that this is a hint that you like him. Once i was friends with a guy, and he said he would call me, he did'nt and i called him, he asked me out on that phone call, IT WAS AMAZING!
C: Yes i can understand you are scared but always remember that u can dump him first!!!
I REALLY HOPE I HELPED! ;)
-BabiK
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well i do think that you should go out with him if he likes you and you like him. It is kinda wrong for you to get upset when he doesnt call you because you guys arent going out. and i dont think you should be skared to go into this reltationship because of being dumped, people get dumped all the time and some get over it really fast, maybe you should just go out with him and see what happens, maybe things will turn out for the best either with him or without him.
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