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just try your best to help me hey guys. thanx for takin the time to read this.
ok im in foster care and me and my 4 brothers and sisters are all split up and i cant help but to find my self gettin depressed over it....
what are some things i can do to cheer up when i start feelin this again....
*KASHIA
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oh im sorry to hear that i went through the same thing and i can tell you that no matter what you do to take your mind off it it will always come back that feeling wont ever really go away but maybe you can start a journal like i did and write how you feel through poetry its pretty neat what you can do with words thruogh your emotions or maybe you can read or get involved with some kinda sport ]
If I were you...I would try contacting them...just writing a letter or a simple phone call could make you feel a lot better!!! It may help you just know that they are ok...Keep in touch with them...so you can always know that...
~*lil_froggy9*~ ]
well.. ive personally never had such problems but my friends have and i always help them so here it goes. what i would do is i would figure out where they were (unless you already do) then i would send them letters or Instent messege them email whatever . try to keep in as much contact as possible. maybe arange dates to see eachother and try and do things like make a livejournal or something to keep in touch with their day to day every life. also to cheer you up you can keep of list of happy things like "oh im going to see my siblings on friday" and always have something planed to look forward to. Its just a suggestion. I hope it helps! ]
Well im really really sorry to hear that. Im an only child and ive always wished i had brothers and sisters. Its okay to feel sad about it, but maybe you could talk to an adult about it and tell them that you miss your siblings and you really dont know what to do without it. I dont understand what kind of childcare system would split up relatives among such a distant relationship. I would try to think of things you like. Watch TV, listen to happy songs, and hang out with some friends. It makes me sad thinking about your dilemna and i really feel bad. Maybe you could try a counselling thing? I kno that sounds embaressing and your probably like AHH im not going to counselling!! But it really might help. You might possibly even get to contact one of your siblings. Well i hope i could help. If your feeling sad just IM me if you wanna talk. Sammerz ]
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